Singles & Dating - 30 November 2007

I am with a great guy we are both soldiers and we both take great care of each other but it seems like everytime we go somewhere we have problems. For example last weekend we went out somewhere and some guys kept whistling at me then asking me why im with a whie boy while he was right there of course it caused major problems and we all got kicked out (if you know what i mean) then at the mall yesterday i actually had a caucasian woman come in between us and start talking to him like i was not even there?!! Its getting so tiresom sometimes i just want to give up...what would be someones advice for that? I mean comments are one thing but downright disrespect and violence is really causing problems.

2007-11-30 08:14:08 · 10 answers · asked by Alexis 2

1. Fried egg, sunny side up
2. Lemons
3. Oranges
4. Cantaloupe... or
5. Watermelon

2007-11-30 08:13:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

.. with a friend or acquaintance or colleague? Have you ever done so?

2007-11-30 08:08:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

about a week ago i got ask out..well i have a little cold and i told him that it was maybe a 24 bug but it is not and i got a date with him tomorrow and should i go even if i am sick because i really like him and if i do not go what should i tell him???
thanks for u answers...

2007-11-30 08:06:37 · 14 answers · asked by M G 2

okay so everything started out 2 years ago. We had are ups and down moments but this past week i told him that i started talking with my ex friend that is a boy which he hates. He flipped out!and broke up with me.:/i know i made a lot of bad decisions but i really love him and i don't know what to do. Please help me!is it worth my time or should i move on??

2007-11-30 07:57:21 · 15 answers · asked by gatewayhighhoopster21 1

Ok, I've been in relationships and I know all different types of guys, but here is something I just don't get. I was seeing this guy, he seemed really great. We talked every day, and then one day he just doesnt call me, and doesnt call me for about a week. I am not the type that calls someone's phone off the hook. I figure, if he wanted to talk to me, he would. So no I didnt try to call him. Anyways..he finally calls me a week later and apologizes, (and like a dumb @$$ I believed him) so we went on an amazing date, and then he took me home and gave me a kiss goodnight. Then, the next day he acted weird, and then didnt call me for another 3 days! So I totally blocked him out and deleted him from my phone and I was done. Then he writes me an email and asks me why I wont answer my phone and that he's really sorry!? OK, don't u think if he was really sorry, he'd be showing up at my doorstep with flowers and trying everything to be good to me? Why does he keep going back and forth?

2007-11-30 07:54:25 · 12 answers · asked by Ray Ray 4

2007-11-30 07:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well ive been with the same guy since i was 18 yrs old .i am now 22.n-e ways things were good in the beginning but one thing that has always been an issue that i turned a blind eye to is that he is incredibly selfish when your 18 and in love you put up with anything ,but now its gotten worse we have two babies now a 1 yr old and a 8 month old .he works alot and we dont spend much time when he is off work he either wants to party with his family or be on the computer all day completly ignoring his kids and leaving me 24 hr mom im very isolated and lonely since i have such a work load .i have no time 4 friends and my husband seems to have no time 4 me ive become very unhappy with him because of this he puts his cousins and friends before us but they seem to just use him but he dosent seem to care about that he'd rather be w\ users than spend time w\his kids and family who love him the only time he needs me is if he wants somthing.should i call it quits or talk it out?

2007-11-30 07:46:38 · 6 answers · asked by ash1234 1

The x of 9 days emailed me and called my house like 9 times in the last 14 hours pleading to be together. He accepts it then calls back pist cuz I won't get back together with him. He now says he is going to the doctor to get meds to calm him cuz he is upset we broke up. I knew him only 9 days people! He is freaking me out. If you didn't read the other one I wrote....read it and come back to this one and it will make sense. The x of 9 days is simply making my life hell. Not to mention he texts my 12 year old daughter telling her the story and she doesn't need to know grown up stuff going on. Don't you agree? I told him to stop texting her and to leave her out of this break up but he won't. My neighbors are looking out for me and my child thank goodness. What is your take on this weird drama? I hate drama and I always seem to find the PSYCHOS.......

2007-11-30 07:43:24 · 2 answers · asked by MOM OF ONE 6

Like, I've been with my bf since 11th grade yr..(we're both 24 now), but I'm a realistic person..We've been 2gether since we were 17 and i KNOW for a fact he has not been faithful for ALL 7 years..there is no way..He's not sloppy with his sh*t though..like girls calling, coming home late, not picking up the phone, etc. But in the back of my head, i feel like there is no way he could have been faithful all this time..we were fairly young when we got together, I can be wrong, but I just KNOW IM NOT..what do u think?

2007-11-30 07:41:15 · 40 answers · asked by Fabe 6

hi! i am in love with my cousin whose the same age as me and i am scared of telling him...please i live in the US and he in india i dnt even know if he even likes me...our families are rivals but they sometimes talk...so now what should i do...i mean am really frustrated because the biggest thing is that i come from an ISLAMIC family...really typical one and they dont support the idea of love b4 marriage. but am really desperate for him...any answers???...i know its lotta complicated but i'd really b gr8ful 4 ur help....thanx!!!

2007-11-30 07:37:40 · 20 answers · asked by *Just Me* 5

It was even parted in the middle. Ugh!

Was I wrong to pretend someone was calling me and leave???

2007-11-30 07:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 07:29:46 · 14 answers · asked by MR Hole, 3

My husband and i are going to stay in for the weekend. No partying. I want to make my husbands weekend enjoyable, yet relaxing. He works so hard to make sure everything is taken care of. I wanna do something special for him. I want him to enjoy it and feel very relaxed. I need some ideas of what i should do. Can anyone help???? Thanks in advance to all!!!!

2007-11-30 07:22:28 · 18 answers · asked by beautiful_flower 2

I met him two weeks ago and now he is my x of about 9 days. I broke it off for he was so needy and pushy. I told him to back off but he wouldn't he kept pressuring me to tell him that i love him. I only knew him 9 days. So I broke it off and he came to my house and I wouldn't answer the door so he knew i'd leave so he waited for me to leave then reappeared at my car door. Freaked me out! but before he could open it I took off down the street to a friends house to get away.I tried to talk to him about his behavior but nothing sinks in. He is pushy, bossy, nosey and I don't want to be with him anymore and he knows this but he insists that i should be "TRUE" to him even though we are not together anymore. Allot has happened in 9 little days with him that I can barely sleep. Last night I barely got a wink. He is nice one minute and a prick the next. What would your thoughts be on this? YOUR THOUGHTS.....would you be freaked out? concerned? Not worried? there is more to the story.

2007-11-30 07:17:06 · 15 answers · asked by MOM OF ONE 6

My gf and I are thinking about having sex for the 1st time and I just want to know some stuff

What size brand of condom should I use if I'm 6.5"? Is that big or small?? will it hurt her much? what can we do about that?

Do you have any other tips to make it good?

2007-11-30 07:14:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sent the boy im talking to a pic of me on Monday.. when I speak with him yesterday he ask me if i sent the pic to anyone else. ....why?

2007-11-30 07:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by DoNtWoRRyABouTiT 2

A girl is asking the question
I am in college and I eat dinner with this guy once a week, sometimes it has been more. It seems like were talking about life more and more. He has been open about his past and what he has done. He said he use to be an alcholic, drugey, slept around, and general had a lot problems. And he is from a small town, and that is what people know about him there. He tells me he is changing. He still struggles. He respects my view on things and does not say anything bad about them. He is telling me he is changing. But is still known for that. Him and I have dinner at café or any other place at school. I haven’t heard bad things about him at school. But than again I am a transfer. Does he consider me a good friend?? Guys what are reasons you will tell this stuff to a girl??

2007-11-30 07:01:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I WANT TO GO TO MY EX GIRLS JOB AND BRING HER SOME FLOWERS BUT I DONT NO WHAT KIND, I LOVE HER TO DEATH AND I NO SHE DOES TOO WE JUST BEEN ON THE BAD SIDE WELL I HAVE BUT I WANT TO GIVE HER NOT JUST ONLY RED FLOWERS CUZ THATS LOVE BUT LIKE A IXER OF RED AND PINK OR RED AND WHITE, I NEED SOME HELP ON THAT LIKE WHAT COLORS SHOULD I GO FOR FOR MY SITUATION?????? LIKE I WANT SOMETHING THAT SAYS I LOVE U AND I STILL CARE ABOUT YOU, SO ANY IDEAS LET ME NO

2007-11-30 06:57:56 · 4 answers · asked by NINO 2

i know it's because men are intimidated by my beauty, and my 100 watt smile....(see avatar). how can i let guys know that i'm more than just beauty? i get lonely too...should i make myself less attractive??

2007-11-30 06:54:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a normal childhood. Occasionally, I'd have fights with my siblings, or misbehave and get grounded, but I think that generally, we were a loving normal family.
I have been dating my boyfriend for about three months now, and he came from a very close-knit and affectionate family. He and his siblings were raised to be comfortable walking around the house without clothing, and they hug and cuddle a lot more than I am used to. His parents are very wonderful people, but whenever I visit for dinner or family functions, I feel uncomfortable.
They don't try to pressure me into taking my clothes off, but they will all sit around the table with no shirt or pants. I was just starting to get used to it when, last night, we were sitting on the couch watching a movie, and his father started giving me a back rub.
I know it's just a friendly back rub, but I feel weird being that physical with an older naked man. Can I express my own personal boundaries without offending them?

2007-11-30 06:49:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

...and this is a good day I'm having with him cause he hasn't made me cry yet...

Advice?

2007-11-30 06:47:37 · 9 answers · asked by :::::: A :::::: 3

i am 18(i have never had a bf...) i am a really quiet person. many guys have told me that i am really pretty... but than why do u think no guy has told me anything? i mean it's odd b/c older guys like 20+ have invited me to go out but why is it that the guys my age don't. Seriously guys, do u get intimidated by a quiet girl? what can i do... i need someone!!!
thank you guys! on last ? what do you guys look in a girl? be honest thanx!!!

2007-11-30 06:46:37 · 17 answers · asked by nataly 1

i am 18(i have never had a bf...) i am a really quiet person. many guys have told me that i am really pretty... but than why do u think no guy has told me anything? i mean it's odd b/c older guys like 20+ have invited me to go out but why is it that the guys my age don't. Seriously guys, do u get intimidated by a quiet girl? what can i do... i need someone!!!
thank you guys! on last ? what do you guys look in a girl? be honest thanx!!!

2007-11-30 06:45:21 · 20 answers · asked by nataly 1

Where do you go fishing?

2007-11-30 06:44:47 · 10 answers · asked by Wind 3

im signed up to on of these sites but not a full member every time i type in the about me box i write send me contact info for reply but the mods keep deleting it but other people who have there **** out have there email address on the about me page still
any1 got any ideas of what i could type so some1 who wants to talk to me can send me there email

2007-11-30 06:41:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys and girls can answer but i would perfer guys.

and it you cuddle with a girl at school are you just trying to "get some" or do you actualy like her?

2007-11-30 06:40:20 · 14 answers · asked by chelsea_baby712 2

i cant say im addicted but it seems i want it every day...sometimes even dream about it...does this make me a bad person?? help wat do i doo??

2007-11-30 06:39:23 · 68 answers · asked by italiancutie 2

I admit that i have a quick temper and when I'm angry i dont think b4 i speak.

Example: I need to conserve gas. Since i have to pick her up today i decided to stick around somewhere to wait as opposed to going home to then drive back. She insist that I should go home because she doesnt want me to wait around which in return will make her hurry up with getting dressed to not keep me waititng.

I advised her that it was fine with me waititng because i need to conserve gas. This went on back and fourth for a couple min and in the end i got irritated because i felt it was my choice to wait . I said things like "Just let me be, thats my choice, i am choosing 2 wait" and "leave me alone"

She was hurt because of my comments.

MY question: I know i am wrong for getting loud but i feel that me wanting to wait was my choice for my own good. Even though her intentions were good her persistance was what got to me.

Any advice to help me control this problem? I dont want to lose her!!!

2007-11-30 06:31:35 · 3 answers · asked by ♥♪ Zee ☆♫ 4

i'm a little confused about what to do, this guy keeps following me around at school and hugging me, in my science lesson today, (he sits next to me) he felt my leg. i have no intension of going out with him and i don't know how i should go about this. he asked me out and i said no but he just won't stop asking!. some help please.

2007-11-30 06:28:57 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous