i am 18(i have never had a bf...) i am a really quiet person. many guys have told me that i am really pretty... but than why do u think no guy has told me anything? i mean it's odd b/c older guys like 20+ have invited me to go out but why is it that the guys my age don't. Seriously guys, do u get intimidated by a quiet girl? what can i do... i need someone!!!
thank you guys! on last ? what do you guys look in a girl? be honest thanx!!!
2007-11-30 06:46:37 · 17 answers · asked by nataly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty and intelligence.
I also need for a woman to be an atheist and not have dogs.
Fat and skinny are bad. Average bodies are just dandy.
Plus, a woman needs to like sex. We hate initiating all the time.
Young guys are too busy trying to find trophies. If you aren't cliche' looking, young guys don't dig you. I have looked in my old yearbooks, and I can't believe the girls I ignored. Date an older man. We are better and we will make you feel wonderful.
2007-11-30 06:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by The J Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guys your age are intimidated. a lot of guys your age might have not have a lot experience and are extremely worried about getting shut down. it seems like you have some guy in mind. if you do, it would be good if you made the move. and by making the move..doesnt mean the little hints that girls do...we dont catch those..=)
different strokes for different fokes but most guys just want a girl that they can trust and drama free. a pretty face doesnt hurt either. GL
2007-11-30 14:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by hyphyninja 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The younger the guys are the more they are into just sex - so being quiet gives you no appeal to them. You should be liking older guys anyways, but if you like the guys nearer to your age, you are going to have to confess to one of them yourself in order to get anything moving with one of them. As guys get older they realize what makes a real relationship versus just one night stands - so if you want a secure relationship, always look for older guys.
2007-11-30 14:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by MrKnowItAll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are pretty like you say you are, then if you just talked a little more, maybe make a few jokes, this will break the barrier that your quietness have created. Eveybody is different and not all guys want the same.
2007-11-30 14:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by thedarkkatana 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honest. Caring. Open. Fun. Intelligent.
2007-11-30 14:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do not change yourself for anyone, stay as you are and you'll find someone eventually.
Also, as with all things, when you're out looking, you won't find, it'll happen when you're not expecting it, sod's law really.
Don't worry, someone who likes you just as you are will find you. If you change, then you're not being real, and that could be the biggest turn off for a guy, you just don't know. Be yourself - that's what guys I know like.
2007-11-30 14:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GUYS YOUR AGE... are not mature enough... probably you are a good girl and you are surrounded by guys that just want something...
so ask yourself what do you want... obviously you are cute since older guys likes you.
2007-11-30 14:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Femininity and intelligence. I firmly believe shy quiet girls are the most attractive on Earth.
2007-11-30 14:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
start talking, flirt, tease and do whatever to have lots of fun, be honest, less the secrets the better, be nice, kind and friendly. no cheating or acting like you want to cheat. be a little horny.
2007-11-30 14:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same prob as you do.
guys usually say that i'm normal, normal between pretty, & most of the time pretty but i just don't get it.
none of the guys i know asked me out!!! dooshdangit.<---that's my word.
ughhh
maybe it's b/c i'm too senstive, insecure, & i always think i'm ugly. but i'm not that shy. i used to me.
2007-12-01 09:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋