what do guys really want in a girl?

Question

i am 18(i have never had a bf...) i am a really quiet person. many guys have told me that i am really pretty... but than why do u think no guy has told me anything? i mean it's odd b/c older guys like 20+ have invited me to go out but why is it that the guys my age don't. Seriously guys, do u get intimidated by a quiet girl? what can i do... i need someone!!!
thank you guys! on last ? what do you guys look in a girl? be honest thanx!!!

Answer 1

I cant speak for all guys, but I like an honest girl, who can be classy in public and be a freak behind closed doors. A girl who knows how to have fun, but also who knows how to chill and take things slow. O and did I also mention she has to have a bangin body?

Answer 2

Quiet girls can sometimes be the better girls, just cause you dont have alot to say at the moment dosent mean you'll be boring

just keep yourself up (look good), keep doing what your doing but if you really want a guy you have to become a little more aggressive when you find the one you want...think of what to say always say hi just never lose sight of what you want and they will usually come to you

Answer 3

I've gone out with a few different types(if I can use that word) of girls and its always been something different that attracts me to the girl initially....so, its usually the person that I'm attracted to.....maybe you're just intimidating to younger guys and older guys just have the confidence to ask.....being quiet can come off as snobish sometimes

Answer 4

If I were you I would disregard all the other answers because they are all selfish answers depending on the answerers wants. My question of you is this why do you have to fufill a man's needs when you are far worth more then that. You need to be okay with you. If there are things in your life that you wish to change then change them. Honestly you will attract the type of guys you want by how you carry yourself. I wish you the best girl.

Answer 5

The sad fact is that not all guys like a pretty quiet girl. You need to find someone who likes that. If the guy is shy too, the conversation could get akward.

Answer 6

I look for a woman with high self esteem, a gentle heart and is not afraid to talk to people. You sound very attractive, but you should be more open to other men, be wild! and be yourself. let people see the real you, because in the end, I think that only the sincere and outgoing are the most beautiful.

Answer 7

Guys look for different things. It's all a matter of personal preference. If I was to tell you what I want in a woman, would you be so vain as to try and change yourself to fit my likes?

Answer 8

Be yourself, don't try and change to get them to like you.

I like quite girls that don't have to be the center of attention. Girls that take care of their appearance, not someone that looks in the mirror or puts on makeup every 15 minutes. Girls that wear little makeup. and most important, and girl that is open to try new things, go to new places etc.

Answer 9

Most guys want a girl they can take home to their mother!! Someone who is loving, loyal, kind, and trustworthy. You will find someone who values you for YOU and you will be glad that you did not have to puton the bad girl front!! In the end, us good girls always win!! Godd luck!!

Answer 10

I look for good personality and honesty even good friendship at first and later I would let nature take it's course by giving her time and treating her with respect that she deserves.