she wants it one day then the next day i cant even touch her.
2007-11-30 18:05:25 · 15 answers · asked by Beny G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Welcome to the world of women. Men are horny 24/7, women don't always want it all the time. This is why men in relationships masturbate.
2007-11-30 18:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go look under the definition "Woman" in a dictionary. We are all crazy that way! I mean it is so thrilling to be used as a plaything night after night and during the day you may as well be the WHICH who does not need held and to be told she is loved for herself and not just her body. Like I said man "WOMEN" are just plain in the neck, until the sun sets that is!
And If you have been to gather for six years, its plain love and you are not willing to commit, you are plain scaredy cat!
2007-12-01 02:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by mx. know it all 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels insecure about herself? Since you've been together so long it could be that she thinks you're tired of having sex with the same person.. and that you think about other people at the time.. that would be the best scenario.
Worst scenario would be that she's bored.. are you ok other than the sex problem?
2007-12-01 02:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year of not having sex is quite hard when you are in a relationship. After 20 years, my wife and I are still active..so, I believe you need to sit down and talk with your partner.
Do you ever ask her about it? Tell her you want to be more romantic, that your feel it is important to you both to talk honestly..(Be prepared to accept the answer)
2007-12-01 02:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by StopPanda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you ever play wrestle with her? generally, she will wind up in such a state she will be unable to resist you and let you have right then and there!!
try to lighten up and refresh the relationship. maybe things have become routine and predictable, including no sex.
most guys would climb a wall with no sex. you must be a really good man to her.
try this, every night try to get to bed earlier. take a bath and a shave. make it obvious that you are shaving. become more playful.
buy her gifts, flowers. give her a nice big loud kiss on the cheek morning and night. telll her you love her very much and need her.
help her with the dishes, help to clean the house. if you have gotten on her nerves by not doing things she ask you to do like helping to clean the house, get busy. ask her if she is satisfied with the job you are doing of cleaning the the house. make it obvious you are cooperating and you want to please her.
try to be more affectionate, touch her more, try to take a shower with her. if you can take a day trip and spend a night in a nice motel or hotel.
when you go to be bed, try to spoon her and be generous with touching.
listen to the temptations record 'ain't too proud to beg', roy oberson 'pretty woman', and i think the spinners, 'have you seen her', marvin gaye, i think, 'let yourself come down'. she will understand. try to do things that she likes. make her feel good. try to make her feel like a queen.
the only thing worse than having woman problem is when you are having problems with your computer. but i think its worse when you have problems with the love of your life.
you can fix the relationship with her by trying to make her happy by giving her the attention she needs and just plain old kissing up to her until she comes around. when she comes around, keep on kissing up.
if you drink and smoke and she wants you to stop, just stop.
if she wants you to stop hanging out with the boys, just stop.
you have to keep your woman in good humor and happy. if you make her happy, she will make you be happy.
if you did something to p*iss her off, correct it.
good luck.
ps: could she want to get married and you are not there with her, so you get no stuff ????
2007-12-01 02:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I had a starter wife and the same thing happened. that's why I don't look too far down the road. I look for reasons to eject the relationship in the first few months and get to know someone else.
2007-12-01 02:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by 33ea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with WC. Wait till your married, then it's like a couple times a year until she wants to have kids. She'll probably also start to let herself go, gain weight and what not.
2007-12-01 02:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kemo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well theres a lot of reasons that could happen, she could jus not want it, u might not be that good at it(no offense its jus that it is sometimes a problem) its boring n she doesnt find it fun, ur not makin her feel special enuff for her to do it wit u... a good thing to do is jus ask her bout it...
2007-12-01 02:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by babyakdre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) she is not willing to be a piece of meat, or (2) the thrill is gone, or (3) you or she have unresolved problems.
2007-12-01 02:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Linda Fallsrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes got Issues or shes gettin it somewhere else
2007-12-01 02:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lyprith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋