A lot of people wish they could have waited longer or simply gave it to someone other than the person they were with.Do you regret your first time? If so why?
2007-11-30 17:55:17 · 15 answers · asked by saconners1 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
It was terrible
did it for all the wrong reasons.
The second time (my true first)
was great
I just lied to him and told him it was my first so it was not a big deal
in that regard
but the idea that that guy holds the title is revolting
and he is now a jailbird
makes my flesh crawl to even think about it
2007-11-30 18:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Mine was with a great girl that I dated for 8 months in high school. We were both ready and it was great. No regrets at all. That being said, I was 17 when it happened. I was able to slowly ease my way towards it after staring dating at 14. I wasn't in a rush to have sex so I could wait and see which girl was right. I dated a few different girls before my "first" but none of them were the right ones and I wasn't ready.
The lesson is to take your time. There's no need to rush into sex at 13 or 14 or even 15. I've never met anyone who had sex under the age of 15 who considers their first to be a good experience.
2007-12-01 02:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. I consider myself lucky, I had a really good first experience. I was with someone I loved, and he took really good emotional care of me through the whole thing...really focused on me, paid a lot of attention to my feelings about the whole thing. Very attentive. And the act itself was also all about taking care of me...he went incredibly slowly so it wouldn't hurt, he was completely selfless in the way he approached it. It made all the difference. Even though we broke up later, I didn't regret it because we loved each other at the time, it meant what it should, and it was a good experience to learn and remember.
2007-12-01 02:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Janelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sort of. I've always wanted to save it for marriage but that didn't happen. I think it took me a long time to get over it. Remember that it's not something you give freely, it's like a gift. Nowadays, you hardly find anyone who would save it for marriage anymore, but there are still some out there and it's OK. I wish I would had done that.
2007-12-01 02:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by bubu 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I may sound like a crazy outlandish Christian, but I don't think you should do it at all before you are married. I think you will feel guilty, because that virtue you had leaves. It doesn't have to stay gone. The fact that you feel bad about it is good. Pray to overcome it, and try to wait until you're married. I know this might sound weird, but I promise it's worth it. And... you'll be happier.
2007-12-01 02:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by John 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I was 15 and really drunk. A few days later he broke up with me. He was my stepbrother's best friend so I still had to see him at my house all the time.
2007-12-01 02:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Christy K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't regret who I did it with, because I love this person and I am still with him and hopefully for a really long time.
I do regret where it happened and how.
Long story.
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As long as you love the person you are with, nothing is worth regretting.
2007-12-01 01:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i regret my first time because i thought i was in love and the girl turned out to be a whore. but i have bad luck with women
2007-12-01 02:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Waited for my wife (after dating many, many girls - who were willing). Best choice I ever made.
We're still married - after 10 years of being together. (I'm 29).
2007-12-01 02:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by utdream 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes because you should wait till your alot older
2007-12-01 02:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by mags 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋