Is it being uncomprehensive and irresponsible if we dont use protection when intimately engage with gf bf,,,,im talking when youre living together.........!!!!!!!as a couple
2007-11-30 23:03:25 · 20 answers · asked by angel81 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well im 26 and do live with the tought of wanting a baby, but she doesn't yet...should it be only my responsability or could she also take care of herself
2007-11-30 23:44:29 · update #1
Depends, do you mean condoms as protection, or condoms and chemical forms of contreception as protection?
If you are together, both been checked out and don't want a baby, yes, it can be safe to just use medical forms (AKA the pill)
If you are together, haven't been checked out, don't want a baby, and aren't using medical forms, it's irresponsible, idiotic and probably quite a few other words.
If you are together and want a baby, then it helps to not use any form of protection.
If she's the only one who doesn't want a baby, it is her responsibility completely.
2007-11-30 23:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disreguarding protection, no matter what the situation is always irresponsible. If you work construction w/out a hardhat, you pretty much are taking a risk....we're no fools these days, and I'm sure we're all keen to the dangers of any choices we make. Children are not something to be taken lightly, hopefully we plan for such things.
2007-12-01 07:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH unless u are ready to be a father at ur age by the way how old are u ?well u dont want to catch AID then be careful
2007-12-01 07:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by kandon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're being monogamous to each other and have been checked for stds (and were honest to each other about the results) then it's your decision.
I would use protection thought if you dont want to end up pregnant.
2007-12-01 07:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Alex G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not irresponsible if u r willin to take responsibility of the consequences of not using protection...u could be exposing urself to lots here...take the risk if u think it is worth it...in the end u will only have urself to blame...
2007-12-01 07:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Swit Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you really know each other, and you both "know" beyond a doubt that either of you are going to be engaging in sex with others, than it is fine.
2007-12-01 07:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not just about babies. Condoms stop STI's. Its called protecting yourself.
2007-12-01 07:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ain't wrappin' it up because if I wanted to have lousy relations, I could just buy a cold fish and go to town.
No glove, much love.
2007-12-01 07:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Haywood 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YES YES AND YES! Unless you want children.
2007-12-01 07:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by mx. know it all 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a baby no
if not yes, unless she is on the pill then no
2007-12-01 07:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by mommy101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋