okay, well this heckka cute guy at my school that is a 7th grader that i like. im an 8th grader. i would just like to get to know him better because i've never talked to him before. well my friend whos a 7th grader is friends with him suggested today that on monday we go and sit with him at lunch so i can talk to him. but i have a really hard time thinking of things to talk about with people. he played football and is playing basketball for the school. he is shy around girls according to my friend, so what can i talk about with him? i need help please. thanks in advance
2007-11-30 19:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk about something like things he likes to do..you gotta show him that your not afraid then he wont be as afraid either..you know what i mean? you should compliment him..like he has great sportsmanship and try to get to know him a lil better.and little bit at a time.try to let him know that you care unlike some other girls.thats what guys like..girls that actually listen.make sure he knows that you are just getting to know him not hitting on him so soon.i hope i helped.
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2007-11-30 19:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by nitababyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about playing on the basketball team. Ask him if he likes it. Ask him what position he's playing or if they're doing well. Ask him when the next game is as you're thinking of going to see it (interesting idea for a first date if he takes the hint). Ask him about football. Ask him about movies. Ask him about music. Ask him about music videos (I'm out of touch a bit with 7th and 8th graders, so forgive me on this one). Ask him about the lunch they're serving in the cafeteria. Or sit down and just say hi.
2007-12-01 03:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by dstluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out about a local football team and start a conversation with that. Don't talk about football the whole time, but just use it to spark-up the conversation. Then you could talk about what ya'll did on the weekend. Then go from there. Once he is comfortable with you after the conversation, say you will see him the next time ya'll have lunch together. Then someday (when the time is right) ask to hang out with him outside of school someday.
2007-12-01 03:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by J3FF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8th grade huh? wow tht was only a few years go 4 mee.... nE way u should talk bout sports. really he will answer. ask him bout when his games are and what he does on the b-ball team... just n E thing lik tht
2007-12-01 03:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by ¡ RocH oN iCe ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about his sports. Talk about what he likes to do when he is at home. Whats his favorite band, food, car. What does he think he'll be when he goes to college. What does he think his future will be. Thing of this nature.
2007-12-01 03:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering that you are in the 7/8th grade.. talk about sports, music, tv, what you guys like doing stuff like that to get a conversation going...
2007-12-01 03:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Skylar1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, remember to listen to what he says..don't talk too much about the 8th grade because 1) he might get intimadated by you being older than him or 2)he might start to like you only because you're older..take care!
2007-12-01 03:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a wimp step up and go ask the person put already before hes taken
2007-12-01 03:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and win him over its the only way to get to know him
2007-12-01 03:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by lalala l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him how his day has been and a conversation should blossom.
2007-12-01 03:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋