Singles & Dating - 25 November 2007

Why would a poor fat guy expect a girl to like him? Why would he even try?

2007-11-25 23:47:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf of 5 years broke up with me about a month ago.... he has a new gf and they are moving really fast. i never did anything bad to him, so i know thats not why he can do this so fast. anyways, its controling my mind. i think about it when i go to sleep, wake up, eat, talk, shower... whatever im doing i think about it. wondering what i did, didnt do, need to do. its making me sick. i keep having movies in my head of them together and im constantly searching online for pictures of them together. im not a freak, or a stalker but this is making me sick.

2007-11-25 23:31:23 · 12 answers · asked by brittknee08 1

dating someone who questions my interest in every male friend I have. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells all the time like he's going to find something out and blast me when it's purely innocent. It's affecting my feelings towards him and while we were progressing quite nicely, I feel like we've taken a step backwards now...what do you do?

2007-11-25 23:21:34 · 34 answers · asked by ooolala 2

2007-11-25 23:19:42 · 16 answers · asked by :D 2

Supposing you loved someone so much that you don't know if you could even breathe without them? Or even if you would want to. And you know that they love you too.

And assume that you are aware of your having some very serious character flaws at the core of your being that are making them unhappy, and in the long term could seriously damage their lives.

Would you sacrifice your happiness so that they could move on, hard as it would be for them, and terrible as it would be for you, and then stand a better chance of having a better life without you?

2007-11-25 23:17:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 23:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm already 55 years old and have met a very young, beautiful, and sexy girl age 28, I don't know whether this is a true love or what? She told me that she loved me as I do, I'm not a rich man but a successful engineer and still I have some traces of a good looking man, I'm little bit attractive...with the situation, I'm in of course a worried guy...please I need your feedback regarding on this issue whether to stop or what...I can't give the full time in loving her because of my occupation and my of age as well...

2007-11-25 22:37:58 · 12 answers · asked by Nainai55 2

ok i was completely wasted last night and i phoned my ex and told him i missed the old times and that i still kinda liked him and that he's changed since he's got his new girlfriend and that i didnt like him anymore as a person

what the hell do i say to him? i really embarrassed myself. specially since we havent even talked properly for like 2 years and he's had a new girlfriend for about a year, help?

2007-11-25 22:35:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I let one go in front of my b/f and now I am too embarassed to face him. I just pulled the covers over my face and then waited til he got up and showered and went home before I would even get out of bed. At first I didn't think he heard it, but I know he did, because he got up and turned on the ceiling fan to try and circulate some fresh air.

He is coming over tonight and I can't face him. Please help me, what should I do?

2007-11-25 22:30:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so I've dated this beautiful lady for a year and a half now and things have been going well. The first few weeks were wonderful, we went out and had fun. But now it feels like fulfilling some routine. We see each other almost every day (her insistence) and we've been to most fun places so we dont go out for fun as much anymore. I've suggested different things but it seems she's not up for it. Guys, please help - what can I do to spice it up? This is the longest rel I've been in. How do married people survive?

2007-11-25 22:30:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I date nice girl, she take me home to parents, they no like. I like girl, no parents. She want make me come Christmas, stay whole week. I no know what to do. I want keep her, no keep the family burden. Do what should I?

2007-11-25 22:27:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have just found out that i am pregnant and i am so scared!i am going to have an abortion but i do not no how i am going to cope with it all, my boyfreind of 2years does not want to no. but yet he has 2 other kids with 2 girls and at the time they were not wanted but when it comes to me and our child he tells me to get rid of it, and in the future maybe try again. its not the right time at all. i dont no if i am being selfish when it comes to feeling bad and as much as i love him i hate him, and he does not understand what i am about to put my body and emotions through! i hate myself but i have to do it, but i am so scared what am i going to do??

2007-11-25 21:51:55 · 25 answers · asked by joy b 2

god i cant every get any points with all the single and dating questions im not gonna read 3 paragraphs good god people

2007-11-25 21:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-11-25 21:39:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

dont be shy i need to know seriously

2007-11-25 21:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by lunga3 1

Hooking up, as defined by UrbanDictionary.com, suggests kissing someone else or sleeping together. In general, this term has branched into an array of meanings, from kissing in the park to full on sex. But the line, especially in high school, has to be drawn. But where?
At parties, the most common type of hook up occurs—no string attached. With a night of fun, the couple, or group, returns to life and never speaks of anything ever again. Ever. The deed has bee done and the session is complete. Many times hooking up goes hand in hand with intoxication and other illegal practices.
The other common type of hooking up involves a no-strings attached relationship. The two involved agree on being “friends with benefits” and they do not become entangled in a formal relationship, only get with each other on occasion to satisfy their physical needs. For the most part, they are a couple but not official. For the benefit of other students, it’s best to think of them in a “common-law relationship

2007-11-25 21:34:10 · 2 answers · asked by ZinkyPh 1

Hi, this 25 y/o guy I went on 4 dates with is asking me out to be his gf just to have sex with him. I didn't though. He went as far as claiming he is a virgin and asks me to crash over. He lied n played with my emotions at first and said he likes me. I found out his female friend (i know her) told him how i treated her cousin bad when we went out in HS, so she wants him to play me and she tried to convince me he is a good guy and not a player. They are plotting a subliminal payback. This sounds crazy but i am shocked too. Now, he is so desperate since he put in effort already, he says he is falling in love with me and he thinks i am buying it. Him and the grl think i'm so dumb i'm falling for his crap. How can i make him feel like crap? If he calls, should i ignore his calls or pick up & tell him "sry, i'm not interested in u" or confront "i know ur trying to get into my pants" but he will only deny? Or should i tell him he is a CREEP?

2007-11-25 21:32:24 · 17 answers · asked by Louisa C 1

i was out of a town for tow days a when i came back my casine who is on the way to say hi to the family coute my mom .she told him not to say any thing to me nor to say any thing about the suicide but he told me and i promsed him not to say any thing about it . i realy do not no why she try to make a horeble thing like this. i cant say any thing about it b/s i promsed him not to say any thing p/s what do i do ? should i talke to her or .....?

2007-11-25 21:24:59 · 14 answers · asked by benyam a 1

Please help me help a friend in her situation.

She and this guy have been dating for half a year already. She recently found out the guy has been cheating on her. She has been receiving messages in her cellphone and in myspace from 3 different girls claiming to be her bf's girlfriends.

My friend confronted her bf, and he admitted those girls are really his girlfriends. Funny thing is: my friend is the most recent gf [the 4th gf, that is].

She's so upset but is torn between fighting for her man [to be "the last girl standing" as she would put it] and letting go.
I told her to let go, but she's badly inlove. How can she let go? How should she go about this case?

How can I convince her that she's better off without the guy? Please help me.

2007-11-25 21:24:52 · 10 answers · asked by cosmic lullaby 2

2007-11-25 21:19:32 · 16 answers · asked by missmichelleb 2

As soon as you cross the line with getting feelings involved in the friends with benefits things then I think that maybe you have broken the deal. Obviously I don't want a relationship with you at this time or I would of pursued that earlier. Can you stay friends with benefits for an extended amount of time or do they all eventually go by the wayside?

2007-11-25 21:06:47 · 7 answers · asked by Alice N 1

ok this is how it started....i got an autograph book and i gave it to all my friends to write about themselves and then sign.....they all wrote in it. Then i gave it to some of the boys in my classroom. they r very frank with us and tell us everything. OK there was this one boy and he had an affair with a girl...our skool teachers found out and he was expelled for 2 weeks. Now it has been only one day since he came back and i gave him my autograph book......he was writing in it all 'THAT STUFF' i mean sexy and stuff.....but then suddenly our teacher came and spot him!!!! she read it and now he is in trouble!!! HE told me that he has not writen anything about me so i dont have to worry....but i felt terrible.....he was in trouble just because of me!!! HE is going to get expelled from skool 4ever now!!!! plz plz tell me an excuse i can tell him so that he can be saved!!!!!!!!!!! plz.plz.plz.plz

2007-11-25 21:00:35 · 12 answers · asked by SU 2

i know what you r going to tell me,go for a good one but its not that i actually wanted a "badboy" it was just that extra...something that i saw in him and he just so happen to be one of them and i know i wont feel for anyone else till i am over him becoz i tried not talkin to him for a couple of months and just found myself dialing his number one day(absence makes the heart grow fonder right?)he is really emotionally detached but he always wants to c me and get close to me even though am not sure wether its lust or lyk so....wat to do?
p.s. he is the most beautiful man i ever seen

2007-11-25 20:57:20 · 3 answers · asked by tania 2

when i meet him he told me he wasn't married we went out a couple of times though me snooping around i found a business card with that said pastor his name and a women name with the same last name. when i confronted him about be married he still deined being married until i told him i called his wife then he confessed. I broke it off with him but he still calls and want to take me places what is wrong with him

2007-11-25 20:50:55 · 20 answers · asked by cookie_aprilgirls 2

wat is an atari? or is it otari? idk!! but wat is it? i know its a legiend cuz wen i asked my mom, her boifriend aunt and uncle they just laughed and said,"that's a good one,'wats an atari/otari?'" so they weren't much help...they still tease me too!

2007-11-25 20:48:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

its so amazing how that one little thing makes them see red

2007-11-25 20:38:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

if so then tell me why

2007-11-25 20:35:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend of 10 mths is getting a female house mate,should l be worried. we dont live together but l feel that its a bit strange that another woman will be living with him and l dont, am l over reacting? how would you feel? what should l say to him?

2007-11-25 20:32:29 · 5 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1

I think im scared to have sex. Everytime im with a guy we do everything but when it comes to sex i chicken out. I make up an excuse like im on my period even though im not. Maybe im just not ready but i know for sure im a bit scared it might hurt. Thats mostly the reason why im afraid. Can someone help me to get over this!!!!!

2007-11-25 20:32:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 20:31:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous