Singles & Dating - 23 November 2007

is that wierd? What if i dont like him lol how should i handle the situation?

I know he isnt a creepy old man, cos hes my friends friend. He seems like a nice guy,ive talked to him for ages. I currently like some one who is an ****, so this will be a good chance to move on

But i feel strange meeting him this way, what do you think?

2007-11-23 23:57:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl right and i told her and she seems cool wit it but shes been starin at me a lot lately and then one of my friends got his hat chucked out of the skool by a bully so me and him had 2 get it and wen we walked past she said hi 2 me and i said hi bck and then she saw me out of the skool gates and she said hi 2 me again and then wen we came bck she said hi again, wht does this mean?

2007-11-23 23:42:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy . once i told him that a gal in my class likes him . he's like i dont care and then he's like i hope you dont like me , do you ? what does this mean ?

2007-11-23 22:38:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.
we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically
saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after
the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc
i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw
eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo
about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted
me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would
never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i
left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said
"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were
keeping in touch. the third time we were supposed to hang out , he messed up plans...and i was down near where he lived and
staying at a hotel. he called me and got a cab and told me he was coming to see me..and it doesnt matter how much it costs
he just wanted to see me..but i told him he messed up plans in the first place, and it was too late so there was no point in coming.
5 days later, he mustered up the confidence to call me and apologize for when he messed up plans. he told me to tell him the
next time i was coming down, and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..but we werent in an ldr. this past
august, i came to college near where he lives, a whole year since the cruise. we had kept in contact for one year..and now were 15
minutes away. weve hung out 6 times since ive been here. the first time he just stopped by with his friend and his friend said
that the guy i like wanted to see his girl..meaning me. we didnt have sex, we just talked. he texted me after the visit and said
it was nice seeing u tonight. i told him i was sorry he didnt stay longer and he said he would have loved to, but he didnt want
my suitemates to hate him for being there so late when we have classes the next day. and he said "just wanted to see you." the
second time he came to visit he came to lay with me. we layed together and talked the whole time, and then did stuff, but NO SEX.
i asked him why things happen sexually between us and he said because i like you and you like me. and i said as more than a friend?
and he was like..yeah i like you as more than a friend. and i said..so u didnt come here for sex..and he said..i didnt even bring a condom
so i didnt even have intentions..and we didnt have sex. he then left and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the lips, and he was a little
offended because he said "why do you have to make me out to be such an asshole."..but he wasnt mad at me, just a little upset.
the next time we hung out we just layed and talked with eachother..NO SEX. i went over there, and it took me awhile to get there
and he called me 4 TIMES..to make sure i wasnt lying to him..and was really coming. he even offered to pay for my cab, and drove me home the next day
and then the 4th time we layed together and talked again..NO SEX. the 5th time we hung out..we actually did have sex..and
he asked me if i was alright..and if it felt good, and we climaxed at the same time. it was really intimate. the 6th time we hung out
he got high, drank, and popped pills. he wasnt himself..he was still sweet to me but he was avoiding me. i asked him what was going
on and he said he wasnt mad at me. and i said..well why are you avoiding me..and he said i wasnt. i said..listen do you like me
and he said..of course i do..its obvious i do. and he said..i just dont want a gf right now..and i think you ask a lot of questions.
i was like..i know i do..except when youre acting weird..i have a reason to act. so i was like well do u like me as more than a friend
and he was confused. i said well why did we have sex the other night..and he was like idk. he was so confused and so out of it.
so he leaves and i get a text from his friend pretending to be the guy i like saying..i had to leave cause i think youre friend is hott.
i called..and the friend answered and was like..we just hooked up..i want your friend. and they came back and the guy i like was
like i didnt say any of that..that wasnt me. so the guy i like was like lets talk in the kitchen..and the friend follows us? and the friend
got involved and pulled me aside and was like..listen he told me the gist..youre friends..he likes hanging out with you..but he
doesnt want a relationship..u hooked up on the cruise what did u think it was ? and i said..how dare you..you dont even know
the story..we didnt just hook up on the cruise. and he was like well idk. so they leave again and the friend calls me saying..the guy
you like is ****** up..call him when hes sober so you can talk..so i was like whatever. then later i get a text from the guy i likes
phone and his friend is texting me saying..the guy you like is passed out..but he likes your friend..can she hang right now? im awake..
and hes telling me yes the guy u like likes ur friend..send the digits over but dont tell him i was on his phone. i was thinking..if the
guy i like wants my friends number..why would he be mad that you were on his phone...wouldnt you just be doing him a favor?

ps. the guy i like was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who cheated on him and got pregnant with another guys kid.
his friends influence him a lot..and when we were hanging out this last hang out he was talking about how he knows a lot of pocketbook
brands bc he would buy them for his ex gf..and he "knows how girls are"..and i think that triggered the way he was acting weird.

and his myspace song is look after you by the fray and his title says "any reason why you would want to date me"
and we havent spoken in 4 weeks..and now his song is i dont wanna be in love. and now his title says " this way is a waterslide away from you"
and now i think hes back with his ex girlfriend. but the other night i saw him and he had the biggest smile on his face. i saw him with
my friends..and we were sitting at a table..and it took him awhile to come over, but he came over and sat and talked to us. his hands
were shaking..and he was so sweet and friendly. but then his friend, the stupid one..came and he had nothing to say. he had this guilty face
on and he only waved to me. then the guy i like left with his stupid friend..and they were meeting up with another friend..and he said he
was gonna come back like 10 times, but he never did. i didnt expect him to cause i felt he was either scared, or easily influenced by
his friends, and they were prob like why would you go back. and now his default pic on myspace is of me and his brothers and he did
artwork on it as a joke. AND NOW I FOUND OUT..THE GUY I LIKE'S FRIEND..LIKES ME.


1. does he like me and have feelings for me?
2. is he using me?
3. was i just a hookup?
4. what does his myspace title and songs mean?
5. did i pressure him or push him away?
6. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?
7. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?
8. why hasnt he been contacting me?
9. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?
10. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?
11. would he honestly hold onto me for over a year to have sex once and thats it?
12. do you think he'll come back around and we'll eventually go out?
13. if he's back with his ex girlfriend what does this mean? does he not like me? why would he do this?

2007-11-23 21:58:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been living with my BF for 7 months and we are very happy &I have always trusted him. But, He went out with a girl for 5 years before he met me and they were engaged. They had been seperated 2 years before he met me, but they kept traveling the 4 hours to see each other every 6 weeks or so for sex basically. He stopped seeing her when he met me and I never had a problem with him still caring for her as they were together so long, as long as he was honest with me.

The thing is, I am going to New Zealand for 3 weeks with my mum and he sent me a txt message by accident, it was meant for his EX. Saying that "he wants to go up and see her for a weekend in Jan as he still wants to be friends and he has 3 weeks of Freedom! If that is ok with her."

If he had said he wanted to see her I wouldn't mind, I would trust him not to do anything, but doing it behind my back whilst I am away makes me feel sick. I love him so much but do I confront him and risk us splitting up? or wait

2007-11-23 21:53:26 · 15 answers · asked by RiceCake 1

me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.
we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically
saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after
the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc
i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw
eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo
about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted
me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would
never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i
left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said
"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were
keeping in touch. the third time we were supposed to hang out , he messed up plans...and i was down near where he lived and
staying at a hotel. he called me and got a cab and told me he was coming to see me..and it doesnt matter how much it costs
he just wanted to see me..but i told him he messed up plans in the first place, and it was too late so there was no point in coming.
5 days later, he mustered up the confidence to call me and apologize for when he messed up plans. he told me to tell him the
next time i was coming down, and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..but we werent in an ldr. this past
august, i came to college near where he lives, a whole year since the cruise. we had kept in contact for one year..and now were 15
minutes away. weve hung out 6 times since ive been here. the first time he just stopped by with his friend and his friend said
that the guy i like wanted to see his girl..meaning me. we didnt have sex, we just talked. he texted me after the visit and said
it was nice seeing u tonight. i told him i was sorry he didnt stay longer and he said he would have loved to, but he didnt want
my suitemates to hate him for being there so late when we have classes the next day. and he said "just wanted to see you." the
second time he came to visit he came to lay with me. we layed together and talked the whole time, and then did stuff, but NO SEX.
i asked him why things happen sexually between us and he said because i like you and you like me. and i said as more than a friend?
and he was like..yeah i like you as more than a friend. and i said..so u didnt come here for sex..and he said..i didnt even bring a condom
so i didnt even have intentions..and we didnt have sex. he then left and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the lips, and he was a little
offended because he said "why do you have to make me out to be such an asshole."..but he wasnt mad at me, just a little upset.
the next time we hung out we just layed and talked with eachother..NO SEX. i went over there, and it took me awhile to get there
and he called me 4 TIMES..to make sure i wasnt lying to him..and was really coming. he even offered to pay for my cab, and drove me home the next day
and then the 4th time we layed together and talked again..NO SEX. the 5th time we hung out..we actually did have sex..and
he asked me if i was alright..and if it felt good, and we climaxed at the same time. it was really intimate. the 6th time we hung out
he got high, drank, and popped pills. he wasnt himself..he was still sweet to me but he was avoiding me. i asked him what was going
on and he said he wasnt mad at me. and i said..well why are you avoiding me..and he said i wasnt. i said..listen do you like me
and he said..of course i do..its obvious i do. and he said..i just dont want a gf right now..and i think you ask a lot of questions.
i was like..i know i do..except when youre acting weird..i have a reason to act. so i was like well do u like me as more than a friend
and he was confused. i said well why did we have sex the other night..and he was like idk. he was so confused and so out of it.
so he leaves and i get a text from his friend pretending to be the guy i like saying..i had to leave cause i think youre friend is hott.
i called..and the friend answered and was like..we just hooked up..i want your friend. and they came back and the guy i like was
like i didnt say any of that..that wasnt me. so the guy i like was like lets talk in the kitchen..and the friend follows us? and the friend
got involved and pulled me aside and was like..listen he told me the gist..youre friends..he likes hanging out with you..but he
doesnt want a relationship..u hooked up on the cruise what did u think it was ? and i said..how dare you..you dont even know
the story..we didnt just hook up on the cruise. and he was like well idk. so they leave again and the friend calls me saying..the guy
you like is ****** up..call him when hes sober so you can talk..so i was like whatever. then later i get a text from the guy i likes
phone and his friend is texting me saying..the guy you like is passed out..but he likes your friend..can she hang right now? im awake..
and hes telling me yes the guy u like likes ur friend..send the digits over but dont tell him i was on his phone. i was thinking..if the
guy i like wants my friends number..why would he be mad that you were on his phone...wouldnt you just be doing him a favor?

ps. the guy i like was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who cheated on him and got pregnant with another guys kid.
his friends influence him a lot..and when we were hanging out this last hang out he was talking about how he knows a lot of pocketbook
brands bc he would buy them for his ex gf..and he "knows how girls are"..and i think that triggered the way he was acting weird.

and his myspace song is look after you by the fray and his title says "any reason why you would want to date me"
and we havent spoken in 4 weeks..and now his song is i dont wanna be in love. and now his title says " this way is a waterslide away from you"
and now i think hes back with his ex girlfriend. but the other night i saw him and he had the biggest smile on his face. i saw him with
my friends..and we were sitting at a table..and it took him awhile to come over, but he came over and sat and talked to us. his hands
were shaking..and he was so sweet and friendly. but then his friend, the stupid one..came and he had nothing to say. he had this guilty face
on and he only waved to me. then the guy i like left with his stupid friend..and they were meeting up with another friend..and he said he
was gonna come back like 10 times, but he never did. i didnt expect him to cause i felt he was either scared, or easily influenced by
his friends, and they were prob like why would you go back. and now his default pic on myspace is of me and his brothers and he did
artwork on it as a joke. AND NOW I FOUND OUT..THE GUY I LIKE'S FRIEND..LIKES ME.


1. does he like me and have feelings for me?
2. is he using me?
3. was i just a hookup?
4. what does his myspace title and songs mean?
5. did i pressure him or push him away?
6. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?
7. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?
8. why hasnt he been contacting me?
9. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?
10. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?
11. would he honestly hold onto me for over a year to have sex once and thats it?
12. do you think he'll come back around and we'll eventually go out?
13. if he's back with his ex girlfriend what does this mean? does he not like me? why would he do this?

2007-11-23 21:51:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, i have been seeing a girl for a few weeks now. she is the sweetest girl that i have ever met. she is smart and beautiful and pretty much. she comes from a tough family, she has been sexual abused by her step dad and brother. she has always been afraid and shy and stuff and she finally opened up to me and i could really see myself liking her. however the whole problem starts here. do i really know what i am getting myself into? for example. my brother just got back from being stationed in nc and leaves monday to head off to iraq. and she knew that but she still called me 21 times in a matter of 4 hours while i was at the movies with him.i know she doesnt mean any harm but would i be better off looking for somebody who is more secure? also, one night she got really drunk and i told myself i wanted to love her before we had sex, but she pretty much seduced me and ended up losing her verginity to me. this whole situation just sucks i dont know if i am doing good to this girl or bad?

2007-11-23 21:33:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told a guy that i liked him by text and he replied by saying he was seeing someone but wanted us to become good friends, before i told him this we text nearly every day i havent text him nor has he me for nearly a week should i text him?

2007-11-23 21:32:46 · 10 answers · asked by magic moments 2

There's this girl I have a crush on, who has a BF in a diff city, but flirted with me heavily in the beginning- had an innocent mischevious way of talking & she even asked me to have drinks/dinner with her (in return for my help with career advice). But then she turned cold, I contacted her and asked her to dinner, but she didn't even reply to my email. I confronted her a week later, and basically told her that I was at least expecting a reply, ignored her for 2 weeks. Then, she asked me to dinner, and I refused thinking she's just playing games. Since then, she has been visibly jealous when she sees me dancing with other girls at parties, but this one time, she asked me to dance with her, we got very sensual on the dance flr and she said "I want to get to know you". But at dinner the next day, she starts talking about her BF and acted aloof. I got sick of it & didn't contact her, but she called me again after months and again, mixed signals. Why is a girl with BF sending mixed signs?

2007-11-23 21:26:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't feel this to be true.
I believe women nowadays are
too head strong, intelligent and
opinionated to be caught up in this.
What's your opinion?

2007-11-23 21:20:34 · 8 answers · asked by COOKIE 5

I was on the phone with him earlier and I was talking to him and he was acting a little out of it so I asked him if he was intoxicated and he lied to me and said no. Eventually I got it out of him and he agreed to being intoxicated but said that he lied because he didn't want me to look down on him. Because I do tend to be disappointed and look down on him when he's intoxicated. Is it okay for him to lie to me? Could he be lying to me about anything else in our relationship?

And in case you're wondering I occasionally have a drink or two but I am very ambitious and I don't do it that much (just at social events, etc...).

2007-11-23 20:43:02 · 16 answers · asked by Nikki Hate You =] 1

2007-11-23 20:04:30 · 20 answers · asked by lizzie s 1

not the n word,not a black person but me n my bff r trying out for a model thing and i am part black and i need to tell her so what do i say???HELP PLZ!!!

2007-11-23 19:42:01 · 18 answers · asked by Rakeesha S 2

okay say you are kissing a girl and like I wear retainer if you were frech kissing her (with your tounge) would she feal like the part of the retainer that is on top of ur mouth???

2007-11-23 19:34:22 · 9 answers · asked by raiderspimp408 2

2007-11-23 19:31:19 · 17 answers · asked by l w 1

okay so it goes like this;
i just recently (unofficially) broke it off with my bf of 5 months, saying we needed a break because things werent going so well, and my family was starting to seriously worry that his guys was not at all right for me, and i was starting to see why. a few weeks ago, he told me that he was going out with some girl at his school (we go to seperate schools) and just 3 weeks ago broke it off with her. but wait, it gets better; a few days ago i heard from a source (not mentioning any names) that my bf, before we started going out, had an ex-gf that he knocked up, and when we met swore to me that he is a virgin. So now i've got a box of all his crap in my room waiting to dump it at his door. i"m just so sick of putting up with this crap, and it seems to always happen again and again. girls, what advise could you give a sister?
please, i really need help. i dont know what to do now. thank u for your time reading this ;)

2007-11-23 19:09:14 · 16 answers · asked by Alex M 1

i dont remember saying the things i may have said to hurt the one person i love and care about deeply. but i dont know what to do. he has avoided me all day and didnt even say goodnight to me as he usually does. i may have made an *** out of myself. any suggestions?

2007-11-23 18:57:46 · 26 answers · asked by Latoya B 1

As a kid I found it very funny to hit boys in the balls and did it allot. Now I don’t anymore but it’s still hilarious when a guy gets hit.

I have a son who is 13 and 3 months ago he was not feeling well, I asked what was wrong and he said that a girl on the block had kicked him in the groin. I started to laugh. I tried to remain serious and comfort him but I couldn't. 2 weeks ago it happened again, same result. This time he told me that the girl does this for fun and that made me laugh even more. I had to do something so I offered to speak to the girl to make her stop. Next day we went to talk to her and met her just outside our house. I tried to reprimand her but my big smile gave me away, she smiled back and said "so you don't want me to do this?" and kicked my son in the groin. I laughed and the girl to
How do I comfort my son when I think it’s so funny?
Should I talk to the girl again maybe tell her I did it too at her age?
Or is it fair that my son get what I put boys thru?

2007-11-23 18:45:50 · 7 answers · asked by Carina K 1

I have a MAJORLLY bad temper and i have been dating my girlfriend for nearly 8 months now. I find myself acting out of violence when a guy or one of her friends say that they want to get with my girlfriend, one of her friends grabbed her A** and she told me about it the next day....I drove to his house and beat his A** with a crowbar i had in my trunk, i went to court and was put on probation for 6 months and had to pay hospital bills. Well, now the same guy keeps calling my girl's cell phone leaving unnessecary messages (i love you, break up with your boyfriend, i wanna screw you etc.) I have sit and though of going to his house and dragging him out into the road and beating him to death! And my temper will make me do this if i dont find another way to cope. Any advice on what i can do, I turned 18 last month and i REALLY dont want to go to jail....

2007-11-23 17:50:50 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you a pretty girl and get told all the time how beautiful you are and how your skin looks so great..and ur hair and blah blah blah and how your body is so in shape and while most people would die to be anywhere near like you..on the inside you are a very depressed and sad person..and wish you could see or better yet just feel half of what others see in you? ??

But if u try and even tell someone your feeling this way they call you stupid ect and say you should be the happiest in the world your beautiful and skinny..as if thats all there is to life???

or am I the only one who does this??

2007-11-23 17:37:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been crushing into punks and gothics and my frinds say they like me back and Im to shy to ask them ???????

2007-11-23 17:35:02 · 1 answers · asked by Mckayla S 1

For the past month i've been seeing this girl. Were together about 3 times a week. The first time we hung out we ended up having sex. She told me that you don't need to be in love to have sex, I agreed, but this was only the first time. After a couple a weeks, we ended up hanging out alot and we would do the same things couples would do. For example, constent kissing, holding hands, always wanted to be with eacother, sex etc. After all this time i've been with her i started to get feelings for her, but i've never told her. The other day I found out that she also been seeing this other guy, I don't know exactly what she been doing with him, but I have a strong feeling she's doing something. I also heard from another friend that she might have had a one night stand with this other guy. I asked her if she see's other guys but she denies it. I can't really get mad or say anything because were not officially dating. Should I stop seeing her? Am i getting played? What should I do?

2007-11-23 17:34:53 · 15 answers · asked by YoungC 1

okay well tomorrow i am going to a friends house to watch the football games and my boyfriends going to be there but im afraid hes going to be all over the girls there.i love him so much and i want him to notice me and act like im actually his 'girlfriend'.Is there anything i can do to get noticed?

2007-11-23 17:33:48 · 24 answers · asked by liM ! 2

I live in glen cove NY and so does he trust me I am the ultimate woman for him nothing gets unnoticed no stone get unturned I give him more than what he wants and some..
you what Ive noticed when he's happy im happy shi t Ill give you money to buy the smallest thong "which he loves along with that song " in his charger
god I love this cave man
the question is do you think that you can steel him from me ?
whos got the skillz
hes the man in the cheep watch who work for payless
but he's mine
I've studied long years to get his heart
I know its mine
not cocky,or arogant but a confident *****.

2007-11-23 17:32:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know that im only 12 but there is this girl in my english class named samantha and she has been giving me these weird feelings in my vaginal area. . . .. i dont know what it is or what to do. . .. its a tickly feeling and i just want to get on top of her. . PLEASE help me i dont know whats wrong!!!!

2007-11-23 16:55:54 · 2 answers · asked by Preston 1

ok there this Cute Guy in Two of my Classes and we cool and everything Like he gives me a Nickname and everything and we talk but he is Like cool that a lot of Girls like Him But Not Like That Just play around But what Im asking is How do i make him ask for my number and get him Interstead in Me! Like a maybe ask me out or something! But Im not Like Skinny Im a Little Bigger Then Medium Size so How do i still make him Like me?????????? Please Help

2007-11-23 16:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by Marie 2

I mean, she's cute. But I already have someone in mind. I don't want to break her feelings, but she's kinda annoying me while flirting. What should I do?

2007-11-23 16:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by noogai 1

2007-11-23 16:40:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other day I got really high and decided to do something I never did before....put my member in the vacumn...has anyone ever tried this???

2007-11-23 16:32:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl but i want her to like me so what can i do? ive just been myself and shes just friends with me, i really like her so what should i do?

2007-11-23 16:02:40 · 6 answers · asked by Jimbo 3