Singles & Dating - 23 November 2007

Im miserable with my boyfriend, we've been going out for 4 months now but we've been out before. We also used to be really tight friends but lately hes become really distant. I didn't see him for a whole month and we barely talked once a week. He also didn't show any affection, like holding my hand or kissing me. I started to get really miserable and tried to end it but he sweet talked me back into it and said he would never hurt me again, but another weeks passed and ive only seen him once and hes never spoke to me on msn or text. So tonight i texted him a long text apoligising and saying that I can't be in this relationship anymore. Did I do the right thing?

2007-11-23 11:34:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

to buy for females at the bar?

The ones you dont know...yet.

2007-11-23 11:34:51 · 23 answers · asked by Mr.Riches 1

We used to live together, because her mom was homeschooling me, but after about 5 months, it quit working, so i had to move out, me and my girlfriend are still together, but everytime we get on the phone, she has an excuse to get off the phone, like today, we hadnt talked all day and when we finally got to talk, she said she was watching a movie and didnt want to talk anymore.........but she says it's cause she is not a phone person. Am i taking this the wrong way, because i feel like she doesnt love me??? Or is it normal to not want to talk to the one you love on the phone? If your not a phone person? Please help, im going INSANE!!!

2007-11-23 11:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-23 11:31:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex has been nothing but nice to me but I have been very stand-offish to him. He tried talking to me for 2 months and getting me to hang out but I just needed space. I think he is returning the treatment back to me (Which i understand). We do not really talk in school. I broke up with him and we had an on/off relationship for 2 years. He has a big game coming up tomorrow afternoon and I want to send him a text tonight saying "Good luck tomorrow" but I dont know, would that be weird? We have texted eachother before as ex's and I have told him congratulations and he has said he saw me in the stands at the game and told me to say hi to my mom etc.. So yeah basically my question is would it be okay to text him good luck?

Sidenote: There's a girl that's interested in him and she follows him around sometimes at school.

2007-11-23 11:31:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i we have been together for 3 years and he never says he loves me! at the beggining he did it all the time, but we had so many problems and our relationship almost ended up!!!! we managed and got better, now we are so much better but still he doesnt say he loves me... he has said it in a few times( in a bracelet he customized for me for valentines day, and in a greating card) but not in a normal day life like any couples! so that makes me wonder!!! he always says how much he cares for me and that i am the most important person for him... and defenitely he shows me he cares in many ways,but i still wonder why he doesnt say it!

2007-11-23 11:24:43 · 3 answers · asked by edie 2

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we live together, thinking of possibilities of even getting married. Problem is, while I was on holiday visiting my parents, he had a one-night stand with his colleague at our house, in his bed. I have been devastated ever since and cannot forgive nor forget what he has done.
But I do also have a feeling that I want to try to forgive him once because I really do like him and feel I may not meet anyone I can like again because it takes me a long time to feel like that about someone. My last relationship lasted 4 years and it took 4 years just to get over that one. I had boyfriends after that but never found anyone that was better than him... People say once a cheater, always a cheater and I am afraid of trusting him again. He says it was a mistake and it will never happen again and listens to whatever I say now, but I am just so scared, both to trust him and to lose him. Very confused, it is pathetic...

2007-11-23 11:22:51 · 37 answers · asked by Princess Marianna 1

do u find me attractive?

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2007-11-23 11:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by jojo 3

My girl & I split after 1-1/2 years (Long D relationship). We decided neither person was moving, & we both knew something had to change. She wanted to keep in touch, I said no, I need to go on & get over you. Well a week later I sent an email saying "was thinking, if you DO wanna call sometime, feel free. Would love to get our hands on each other if we are single in the future" (we were each other BEST lovers. NO DOUBTING IT.). Well I get a "cash in request" in email on my "sex" offer a WEEK later. But the email was "sexually" descriptive. No "miss U" or anything like that. I waited a week, & replied, and she called me IMMEDIETLY. I waited almost a week to return the call (teasing her) & said I was too busy (honestly, I wasnt over her, & was thinking WAY future, not 2 weeks after the split)! So I finally say "no". Too soon, and too many complications. Do you think it was really just "sex", or that she was using that as an indirect way to see me again? Or is it JUST sex (no word since)?

2007-11-23 11:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going on a second date tonight with this guy. The first date we just did a little lunch at a cheap place and he paid for me even though i offered. Well we are going to dinner and a movie tonight. I am still in college about to graduate this year and he is out of school and has a good job. Should I let him pay for both things? Should I try to offer money? What would you do??

2007-11-23 11:11:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in 7'th grade, 13 years old and at our school kissing is the biggest rule you can break besides fighting. On Friday me and my bf were practically making out in the hallway. A popular girl turned the corner and saw. She stared opened mouthed. I am scared everyone will find out. If they do find out and I don't get in trouble is that bad??? It wasn't embarassing... just akward afterwards.

2007-11-23 11:10:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

how much longer should I wait?

2007-11-23 11:08:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-23 11:02:07 · 12 answers · asked by bosox.girl23 2

ive been in a relationship for a little over two months with this guy. i really like him and he really likes me and all but everytime he trys hugging me or kissing me i push him away.i dont really know why i just do it without thinking and realizing until he points it out. what may be the reason for this happening??

2007-11-23 10:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by l3l31801 2

alright so i am talking to this guy i like online.
what are some things i can say to keep the convo going?
like sometimes it just dies. and its like ok whatever. now what?
so what are some things i can ask/say.

2007-11-23 10:51:23 · 15 answers · asked by Criss 3

I'm wondering how many men will date a girl and try to sleep with her in order to judge whether or not she is worthy of another date? What I mean is, do you hope she wont sleep with you because that will make her more respectable in your eyes, and if she does, you just toss her aside? If so, why do you think this is okay?

2007-11-23 10:49:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13. I am too young to be thinking about sex, i know. i'm not planning on having sex anytime soon.
But, when i'm in my older teens, and when i'm not married, i already know i will probably lost my virginity.
But, i want too, but dont want to because i know God doesn't approve of this.
can someone tell me something to convince me that i shouldnt have sex before marriage?
tell me your opinions on sex before marriage.

T.M.

2007-11-23 10:43:44 · 9 answers · asked by T.M. 6

The guy I like is from korea...he just asked me what i thought of him (online) and i told him the truth...that i like him. he told me that he really likes me too, but he is worried about our "cultural differences" and he said that even though he really likes me he doesn't know how to express his mind in english....what do i write back??? i'm afraid that if i write that that is a stupid reason, i'll sound like i'm begging...and if i write that the only thing i was concerned about is the fact that i'm always too nervous to talk to him a lot, i'll sound like a wimp. PLEADSE HELP!!!!!!

2007-11-23 10:37:55 · 1 answers · asked by April 3

Im just curious?? I know my bestfriend Corey use to visit his crushes page alot?
I use to visit my x boyfriends page alot and I just wanted to know if guys visited there crushes myspace page alot?

2007-11-23 10:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by Layuh May 1

ok so im with my bf for 4yrs now. im sick at home, and he has gone out to a party he had planned weks ago. so he has gone to the party instead of been with me, he also hasn't even called to ask how i am, does he still love me?

2007-11-23 10:35:04 · 9 answers · asked by Dumbie 3

He's in one of my classes..and he sits next to me.
He talks to practically everyone but me....I'm not sure if that's good or bad........but he's like the least shy person in school.
Anyways..sometimes he'll just randomly look back at me..and the other day he turned around and was holding his head up with his arm just looking at me...after about 10 seconds..I looked over at him..but he turned around reallyy quick....

I know I should talk to him..but I get really nervous..
I just wanna know if he might like me =D

Thanks

2007-11-23 10:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have braces..
i like this guy also
he likes me aswell
i really want to kiss him but i have braces
is it okay to french kiss him with braces
or will my braces turn him off?
adive please :)

2007-11-23 10:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

...i love australia and i want to know a lot of people living there ,so i give you my e mail nassima_ock@hotmail.it.....i live in italy and my dream is to talk with someone from australia in order to improve my english and make acquaintance with you...i look forward to your answer...nassima...ah sorry i 4get im 17 years old...

2007-11-23 10:27:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok well i love the guy im with now even though we have only been dating for about 2 months i dont want to be with anyone but him all the time! i melt in his arms and i hate it so much when we fight but hes getting me a huge ring for christmas and i dont no what to get me but his step mom already told me what ring it was and its an engadgment ring and im only 16 but i really wouldnt mind being with him for the rest of my life but i dont think my parents would like it what should i do!

2007-11-23 10:26:20 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

He's really got me very confused. He called me on the phone one day and said i really like you but things aren't working out. I dont understand... I thought things were fine. Im friends with his ex and she said he's never ever broke up with a girl for someone else or for a stupid reason so im confused. Did he maybe just think i didnt like him enough or something? Which doesnt make sense cuz i've tried to make plans with him fr the past couple of days but he was at th doctor's and with his mom. So how can he say i dont wanna have anything to do with him? Maybe it was because whenever he called i was busy and couldnt talk?

2007-11-23 10:25:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in college and I have been unoffically dating this guy for 7 months. We are really in love I even took his virginity. But the reason why I say unoffically is because our parents dont really know we're dating. Anyway we have met each others parents and stuff and my parents love him and vice versa. Well like I said he was a virgin cause he was raised to save hisself for marriage and just resently hia mother asked him is he still a virgin and he told her the truth. She now knows we date and are having sex. Thats not the problem, the problem is now she's pushing for grandkids!!! She claims she can feel we are to get married in the future and she's ready for grandkids now. We're in college we dont want kids right now and not saying we wont get married, we dont know.....but thats a huge commitment. We both have dreams and want careers. How should we handle this problem???

Thanks for your help

2007-11-23 10:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by smilez 1

2007-11-23 10:24:39 · 33 answers · asked by H*R*M* 4

im a girl ands tonight im going to a parade with my boyfriend. but im afraid to kiss him.(french or not) ive french kissed a guy before and he slobbered me-bad experience! any tips?

2007-11-23 10:23:43 · 3 answers · asked by Rachel 2

If a guy goes from making out with you during one day, to just a simple peck on the lips the next date,
does this mean that he's losing interest in you?

2007-11-23 10:23:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy i like picked me over any other girl to hangout wit. even the girl hes datin they werent dating at the time but they were talkin. i told him i liked him and he said he likes hanging out wit me. i asked him if i was wasting my time likin him and he said he dont know, just not rite now. what should i do i love him!!
we use to like each other but then we just stopped talkin.he was my first kiss and when i look in the future all i see is him!
what all this mean? are we ever gunna get together
and the only reason he told me to date the other guy is b/c hes dating her rite now!. he always thought i stopped likin him along time ago and liked this other guy now! but i finally told him i liked him and it was too late b/c now him and that other girl are dating but do yall think he could be dating me instead?

2007-11-23 10:19:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous