Singles & Dating - 20 November 2007

i broke up a year ago..and i still love her
she wont accept me..
i start searching my ex in every girl i meet..
what to do?

2007-11-20 23:49:04 · 8 answers · asked by Deepak Ahuja 2

Everyone I've ever met has either lied, cheated, or something to me.
I just want to be proved differently.

2007-11-20 23:46:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like green and blacks organic and any flavour is nice, but i like milk and plain and well actually any flavour is good...

also tastes fab with a glass of super red wine...

is it just me or is this as close to Heaven you can get without an Angel ???

Angel, Heaven, Chocolate, fine Red Wine - are these all related ???

yummy !

2007-11-20 23:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4

My bf sent me a heartbreaking breakup email 2days ago saying i was demanding, controlling and high maintenance woman. he said i'd make a gd gf but not as a potential wife for him. He said i pressure him, never cared about his feelings and am selfish most of the time. And lastly he told me to go back to my ex of 4yrs whom he knows i still hv feelings for coz i keep comparing both of them and kept talking about my ex lately. so he's sick of the comparison. he said no man lykes to be compared. to cut short he totally expressed his hearts out thru the email with all my negativity. He juz couldnt say all the nasty things right on my face. And then i called him to clarify about the breakup and then i defended myself. Then i ask "do you really want to breakup with me"? he said "No". i was confused. He then regret asking for breakup and said he's sorry about the email. he beg not to leave him and he said he loves me and i make him happy and that some of the things he said on email were untrue.

2007-11-20 23:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by Nadya 2

My boyfriend has always been a bit controlling - nothing too serious just always calling me, checking I am home safely etc.
He has always controlled our sex life - and it has always bothered me ( we only have it when he wants it). Anyway lately we haven't been havin much at all - he says he is tired all the time/ doesn't feel like it. He also has a problem with telling me he loves me. So I have been feeling totally dejected of late. I talked to him about it the other nite - said he was making me feel bad about myself. Was it me? Did he not find me attractive anymore? I offered him the chance to end the relationship and just be friends. He said no way. The next day he was the best boyfriend in the world, went shopping, cooked me lunch in my break from work, told me "I'm the best" , showered me with kisses, sent me loving texts. Why does he become so complacent and then act like this when I giv him a kick up the ***?

2007-11-20 22:55:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 22:47:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i heard in one interview that declan has never had a girlfriend, but i'm just making sure. my bestfriend is so in love with him.

2007-11-20 22:46:50 · 5 answers · asked by ellenaj 1

2007-11-20 22:42:41 · 11 answers · asked by karla ruiza 1

Both my best friend and I are sure that we are not a couple, or so called, true love, but sometimes I have the feeling of wanting to kiss him. Should I do it? Is it strange?

2007-11-20 22:42:28 · 25 answers · asked by cs 2

I want to ask my pastor what he thinks about something but I don't want to sit through the lecture which I'm sure is to follow. Also, I want him to have time to think through what he says so that he gives a well thought out answer. I'm thinking about sending my question via e-mail and explaining that I wanted to give him time to think through his response to my question. Do you think it would be insulting to start an e-mail like that? Do I need to specify why I'm sending the question via e-mail? All of my previous questions have been live and in the presence of his wife. (I am also a female)
This question is one that I need to know his personal take on. Otherwise, I'd probably ask someone else.

2007-11-20 22:33:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 22:29:41 · 8 answers · asked by Kitkat 1

I've been with my partner for almost five years - at first it was incredible - the attention and intensity was great. This lasted well over two years. He has become secretive about his mobile phone - switiches it off when we're together of late. In fact the last time I stayed at hs place he actually hid his phone. I would not go into his phone but I did once early in the relationship (I am ashamed to admit but I did tell him and apologised) where he had messages from his ex girlfriend (who is now married). I know that he has many women that like him but I'm not sure if he's flirting with them or not. Is SMS cheating? We don't make love me anymore yet tells me he loves me. He's not well and hasn't been for a while now. However he still drinks and goes out with his buddies (which I have no problem with by the way) but I'm not allowed to have a glass of wine by myself without him. He blusters when I try to discuss things with him. All I would like is some honesty. Too much to ask?

2007-11-20 22:24:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this hot gal I am thinkin about dating her. She is my last high school friend gal. Dont know if it is possible for me to date her?
She do sometime hard to catch cause of her busy work.She would say that she is tire of the long busy day working. She did say can go out with me sometime. But I dont know how to invite, Is it just call her straight or try messaging her for reply. She did promise me next week , Should I wait till that time.

2007-11-20 22:21:24 · 4 answers · asked by Bren C 2

I was supposed to call the guy I like for homework help last week but I didn't. We set up another specific time for me to call Monday. I wasn't able to call him then either because I was both nervous and very sick, so I sent him a text message 20 min. after I was supposed to call asking if I could call the next day and what time was best.

He didn't text me back.

So, yesterday I left him this voicemail:

"Hey, I'm sorry I didn't call you yesterday I was sick most of the day and didn't get to do the reading I was planning to do before I called you. So, I know you're planning to go out of town the next three days but hopefully you'll be back at work over the weekend and I can catch up with you then. By then I should have finished most of the reading for the course and I'll have lots of questions for you. Talk to ya soon."

Do I Have a right to be mad because he hasn't texted or called back??

Or does he have a right to be pissed at me??

2007-11-20 22:20:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jane T 2

2007-11-20 22:18:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i done have many friends outside work,my school mates iv lost contact with,i have very low confidence,with my driving cos im on my 6th time,my family have fallen out with me,the only person i have is my boyfriend,maybe im depressed i dont kno

2007-11-20 22:13:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's like me saying that a bloke is good looking, How can I judge? My misses often says when looking at the \tvshe a pretty girl and when I look I'm looking at a girl that I think is plain. How do women judge? I think that women have got no idea what female good looks really are. Do you?

2007-11-20 22:12:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 22:02:35 · 16 answers · asked by tezz 2

or just thank them and move on.


In response to earlier answers:

that's odd, you are not attracted to her the least bit, and yet you'd show her significant interest, yet you stand by that you'd show her interest through your body language, even though you are not attracted to her, is this trying to suck up to my question, or am I missing something ?

2007-11-20 21:43:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

HI>>
my driver is in love with me!!!!!
i know it sounds yuck but yes
he is always starring at me smiling at me
my many frds had told me bout my driver but i never thaught bout thst but now it is out of control man
he is crossssssing limits!!!!!

2007-11-20 21:38:12 · 18 answers · asked by maina 2

I am 20, he is 27 I am studying whereas he is working with a fat salary. i am really nuts about him and yes this isnt infatuation

2007-11-20 21:30:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an absolute crush on this girl who lives in my house (with a couple others), I liked her since April last year and about 3 weeks ago I told her about it, and was rejected. I thought I got over her and went on a date with someone else and about a week ago she got toegther with someone else in my house, this happened after my date with the girl. I realise the person I really fancy is not my date, but it is still her and it absolutely breaks my heart that she ended up with a not really nice guy (personality and behaviour wise). Unfortunately, I have not moved on and I think of her and care for her even more now. I tried ignoring her as most have advised me to, but two days into it, she just become niceer towards me, she absolutely knows that I care for her a lot and she knows how much I have done for her. But it is not fair for me if I have to hang in there when she is in love with someone else. I am still not over her and I hugged her saying that I am happy for her! Right or Wrong

2007-11-20 21:25:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I truly loved him and he ditchd me coz i dont loook beautiful and i am not able to get over it . I need to do a entire make over of myself.Pls Help!!

2007-11-20 21:16:16 · 20 answers · asked by vennila 1

were seniors in high 18 years old and he always dates girls that are 13 or 14.. this is normal? cause he never has had a gf his age?

2007-11-20 21:14:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a call center agent and my boyfriend is still a student and is 2 years younger than me.And were apart right now because Im working and was assigned in another location. Its my BF b-day tomorrow and Im a very busy person and instead of buying him a gift I send him money for him to buy something that he like. Am i too rude, lazy or unethical sending money to my BF as a gift rather than buying a gift that maybe he wont or would like. What do u think?!

2007-11-20 21:09:04 · 9 answers · asked by girl ur looking for! 4

start from starting.

2007-11-20 21:05:20 · 4 answers · asked by vinny 1

Slave labor?...

2007-11-20 20:59:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My b'friend is involved with some pretty dodgy guys through work. They get together almost every night and smoke stuff. Whenever Im around which is all the time as my b'friend doesn't really let me go out they try and hit on me and if I try to push them away my b'friend tells me to be a good girl and relax...I can never get away so end up havin sex with people I dont really want to but my b'friend says there his mates and they have needs and thats why he lets me live with him.

Last night I thought this guy was really nice and chatted to me a bit so I confided in him about what was goin on thinking he'd support me but instead he said Im a good girlfriend to my man!?

These guys have so much confidence just to walk in the house and start hitting on me and doing stuff knowing that my b'friend thinks they are his mates so are entitled to me...its like he is proud of it but Im sure these guys dont care they just come round to see him and use me buut my b'friend says he loves me?

2007-11-20 20:45:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a relationship and I'm a very shy person.i cant open up to my boyfriend.And i meant dont dare to hold hands and do things other couples do.Maybe it's because of my past?I dont know..I got molested before and since then,I begin to be afraid of guys touching me and such..How can I overcome this?

2007-11-20 20:37:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 20 and recently lost my virginity to my BF. The first time we did it, it hurt but it was fine. Second time we did it, it hurt like hell and felt like I had to pee. The third time, I just felt a constant need to pee. I always pee before sex, and right when he penetrates, I have an urge!! It's sooo annoying because I just can't enjoy it! It's uncomfortable. I have to tell him to stop every 5 minutes. It's not a UTI because I don't have any of those symptoms. Oral sex used to feel great but now everytime he puts his fingers in, I have an urge to pee!!! Am I doomed to a sexless relationship already? Plz help! WHAT DO I DO?

2007-11-20 20:16:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous