Everyone I've ever met has either lied, cheated, or something to me.
I just want to be proved differently.
2007-11-20 23:46:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I'm more than a decent person.
I'm nice to everyone I meet, caring, loyal as heck, I'd never lie to someone if they wanted to know it something.
People tell me how I'm so great, but then they leave. I've talked two people out of commiting sucicide telling them how they have such a better life when they get older.
Everyone always disapoints me no matter how low my expectations go.
2007-11-21 00:05:38 · update #1
I love how people call me naive, it's an awesome feeling to know that I'm being judged.
I don't tell people much about that isn't obvious unless I know them for awhile.
2007-11-21 00:10:43 · update #2
You must just take your time to find the one that you consider a Decent Person. That person is out there for you but just change the ways you are looking, take your time and try not to go after too many at the same time!!!
2007-11-20 23:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by backyardbum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many people in the world that are self-absorbed but there a many that are not. It takes time to meet a person you can call a friend and then a lover. People will lie it's human nature. Can you think of a time you may have told a white lie? I'm not saying it's OK. I'm saying the higher the expectation of another human being the bigger the let down. I try not to expect anything out of anyone. That way when they are good to me it's a pleasant surprise. Try to get to know a person a little bet before you open up. That way you get to know them and see who they really are.
2007-11-20 23:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, then today is your lucky day. Every respondent to your query thinks of themselves as decent (myself included), but that doesn't mean we're without human flaws and frailties...but then, I suspect that's also true of you. Your barometer for decency is calibrated based on your experiences to date; pains you've experienced that you most assuredly don't care to repeat. Conventional wisdom suggests that if you stop looking , what you're seeking will somehow come to you. I don't favor that approach because anytime I've ever needed my carkeys I've had to actively pursue them. Surprisingly, not once have they just voluntarily surrendered themselves to me. So, maybe the trick isn't to stop looking, but to look more thoughtfully...that is, fully cognizant of what you want (and don't want) in a friend/companion. Well, when you're hungry for a gourmet meal you'll be disappointed everytime if you search through trash cans...it's not in there. Similarly, when you're looking for quality people, maybe the club/bar scene isn't the right venue for those folks, either. My purpose here isn't to tell you how to conduct that search from here forward, but merely to prove to you that you are at least in the proximity of decent people...as you requested. I wish you a fruitful and happy search, and a Happy Thanksgiving.
2007-11-21 00:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need be carefull in choosing frnds or bf or whatever if u are that sensitive, it seems to me that ur very naive and simple ,,take the past as the lessons for ur future and dont worry consider it as new experience for starting new and ull meet someone just as u like when u least expect it
2007-11-20 23:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by sara s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, You need to be so decent to find a decent person.Always be cautious with indecent persons.Dont give up all of sudden.Slow but steady is a must to observe and find a decent person.There are few decent persons like me!! If you find difficult to find them,dont worry, I am here always to help you out,ok?!!!!!
2007-11-20 23:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by dilipan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to be a decent person to find a decent person - so maybe you should look at yourself before criticising the men you choose to be with.
Sorry, its a hard but true fact.
2007-11-20 23:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lied ----okay not decent
cheated -----ok not decent
or something to me -------?????
i dont know whats the meanin of the word "decent" in ur dictionary !!!
i think decent means looking good,smart,fashioned or faithful,trustful,lovely,care,comfort etc
check the above quality match with ur person !!!
have a nice life !!!!
2007-11-20 23:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Arul for U 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop looking! That special person will come to you. It always happens when you least expect it. Enjoy YOUR life YOUR way right now!!
2007-11-20 23:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are going to bars and clubs, you will not find Mr. Right hanging out there.
2007-11-20 23:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people are just like that,
i too are looking for what you are looking for
maybe you should aim to find someone who has had this happen
2007-11-20 23:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by day Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋