Singles & Dating - 20 November 2007

Ok,so there's this guy. He's my friend's cousin and he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him. I said ''I don't know'' so he told me to think about and I said OK and that I'd call him. Well my mom said I couldn't go even if she chaperoned us and i thought it was ridiculous so basically I haven't called him yet cuz of course I don't want to tell him that. I visited his church. Should I just hang out with him there like talk and stuff. Any advice about this?

2007-11-20 09:32:09 · 4 answers · asked by Hi 1

2007-11-20 09:29:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, I still have strong feelings for my ex. We were very close and knew everything about each other and were so in love and had so much fun together. Anyway, about 3 months ago we broke up because we were forced to(he got grounded) and I later found a new bf. Soon after my ex told me that he was waiting to get off grounding to go back out with me again but he saw that I had someone new.
A few weeks later, my ex started dating his old ex again, but quickly broke up with her because he said he didn't want to date anyone right now.
Now I just found out that he has a new girlfriend, and I am crushed because I still love him!! I don't know what to do!!! I want him back!!

Anyway, today I just broke up with my bf (the one my ex saw that i was dating) because I felt we were just friends and I still liked my ex! Now he has a gf! What do I do? I'm so confused!!! How do I get over him when I want him back!!!
Is he just a player and doesn't know what he wants or what?! Please help me!!!!!

2007-11-20 09:29:06 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2

k. Am I going to be left on the shelf? I know I have a great presonality around girls. But, I become shy around guys! Is this ever going to end? I am 21 alrd.

2007-11-20 09:28:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a class with her once a week, and 2 weeks ago i started to talk to her we talk a little and she laughs alot and is very happy all the time, u know, and now its obvious she knows im interested, when we cross in hallways we say hi but its still a 'hi' with shyness i think she likes me too....so do u think its time to talk to her when i see her alone and ask her out or is it too soon, How to know when the time is right....?

2007-11-20 09:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by John V 1

when you give your all to someone they walk all over you.
and when you treat them horrible , you can't get rid of them....

2007-11-20 09:19:19 · 4 answers · asked by hppy2b 2

whats the creepiest/weirdest thing a person(some you dont know) has ever done to you? i had some guy stare and follow me around in his truck today, so thats what got me to ask this

2007-11-20 09:18:30 · 20 answers · asked by HerR 2

I am skinny (118lbs, 5'8) I don't really have a body, b cup boobs and nice shaped but not a big butt.

Okay, so me and my friends including some boys were talking and one says, "I only like light skinned girls because there p**** is pink." and others were agreeing and smiling. The ones who said it were black. They also said if a girl doesn't have a big butt/nice body, they won't even look at her. They basically ignore me. I have light skin but don't have the body they are looking for.

All the black boys have rejected me because I don't follow their ideal body image. What is the worst is a boy I like doesn't pay me any attention, but when a new girl came, light skin big booty, he was all over her! He has also said I'm cute and I'd be "perfect" if I had an a**. What the hell is wrong with black guys now? Why are they so picky??? They dont like dark skin, or skinny light skin, just light with big booty.

2007-11-20 09:08:33 · 16 answers · asked by Aijaana M 2

We've been together for more than one year. I had deep feelings (still have) for this guy. He called me last night and said we have to break up. He told me he doesn't feel what I feel and it would be selfish of him to accept my love without giving anything back. Does it make him any better after all?

2007-11-20 09:07:09 · 7 answers · asked by Boginya 1

anything u would like to say?

2007-11-20 09:02:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cry over my life, my sick bf and, i cry because i feel no pain

2007-11-20 09:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by ☮NeonZebra♥ 3

My dreamy crush asked me to homecoming. His locker is right next to mine. As I was opening my locker i smashed him in the face and knocked one of his teeth out. He started choking on the tooth and jumping up and down for help. I thought he was just excited for homecoming so I hugged him and was jumping up and down with him. I accidentally pulled a heimlich manuever on him and broke his rib but did end up getting the tooth out. Even though I saved his life his hes really mad and hasn't said anything about homecoming. Are we still going together?

2007-11-20 09:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by Meg 1

otherwise ... if a man flirts just for fun women feel its silly ..and dont feel the thrills?

2007-11-20 08:55:24 · 4 answers · asked by Racy! 3

me and this guy started talking "as friends" over the summer. well when fall semester started he tells me that he is dating this girl. well at the time i could really careless, but then i started having these feelings for him. well i wasn't going to say anything until one day we were sitting in his car talking and he asked me if i could ever see us dating... and i was like yeah ... ever since then he is acting like were dating (not complaining about that) but he does have a girlfriend. And he tells me that he wants her to brake up with. but if he really wanted the wouldn't he man up and do it himself? What i'm i suppose to do sit around and wait for him?

2007-11-20 08:51:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not excessively, just on occasion and then comment to the woman thats she's controlling if she gets upset.

2007-11-20 08:51:01 · 16 answers · asked by Me 1

i had a bet with another girl bc she told me her size 7.5 feet were average, but i thought they were way big for a size zero chick

I havent dated ANY girls with more than 5.5 or so... so what is your size?

2007-11-20 08:48:32 · 14 answers · asked by The WingHunter 5

how do i show a guy i like him hes 14 im 13

2007-11-20 08:48:09 · 5 answers · asked by my imperfections make me perfect 2

that special lady back when you were in school
wore that special smell,what was her name?

2007-11-20 08:48:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So she's the first to call me a "stupid boy" or call me something slightly mean. Yet she does this in her joking voice. While flirting.
And she's notified me at one point or another that shes joking, for each name she calls me.
She does it playfully.
Trust me- I've seen her get pissed at ppl and she's very different.

However I have a few friends who go to the same lunch period she does, and if she hears my name, she's the first one to jump up. The friends I have at that lunch are closer friends, however they aren't paranoid about my name.

And if I admit to being the bad name she called me (cocky, or stupid) she's the first to defend me. She'll give me an entire lecture on how I'm definitely not like that....and I'm thinking "woah you must have thought this one out."

btw- I'm not cocky (but I pretend to be sometimes) and lol stupid is the last thing that comes to mind when most ppl describe me.

Basically if others mention my name she becomes defensive of me...

2007-11-20 08:42:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

right im 14 and im going out with a 16 year old guy ( i dont want your opinion on the age difference though thanks! =] ) and we have been going out for around 2 weeks now. hes REALLY nice to me when im with him, like always hugging me and playfighting with me etc... just genrally being everything us girls want in a guy :o) butt... everytime i have met him its always me who rings him and arranges it... so i decided that i might look a bit clingy so i played hard to get for a bit.. and basically didnt ring him.. but he didnt ring me either.. and still hasnt after 3 days.. which is a long time for us considering we see each other around 5 days a week. but apparently he called on my door today but i was at dancing so i missed him.. so i know that he hasnt gone off me

the question is how should i be with him? cause i am pretty angry he didnt ring me or text me and i want him to know he cant do that and that im not a pushover.. but i dont wanna fall out w/ him bigstyle.

thanks! x

2007-11-20 08:36:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating my girlfriend for a year now, and while we aren't progressing fast, it's fast enough to keep it from being boring. I don't have a problem with my relationship or anything, and we love each other very much, but I can't help but get the feeling that when i touch her breasts she doesn't like it very much. I'm not rough or anything, and I do it after building up so it isn't spur of the moment. She says that she likes it. Still, I can't help but get that feeling. If a girl isn't into it, it isn't as good. Could there be any truth in that feeling?

2007-11-20 08:35:45 · 4 answers · asked by Max C 2

please include race,personalty, basically everything you'd want in a girl you could see yourself being with.....and take her to the toughest cridict of all....MAMA.

2007-11-20 08:34:35 · 1 answers · asked by lois 1

Mine?

I'm old school. I like the tap on the shoulder then look away.
Stroke their hair.
Tease them.

2007-11-20 08:34:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP I SERIOUSLY AM STARTING TO FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND, I DONT KNOW WHAT IS WRONG. ITS GETTING TO WHERE I CANT STAND TO BE AROUND HIM. WE LIVE TOGETHER AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR OVER 4 MONTHS, BUT HERE LATLEY I HAVE BEEN T HINKING ABOUT LEAVING HIM ALOT AND I JUST CANT EVEN STAND TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT US, I USED TO BE SO MADLY AND DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT HERE LATLEY I CANT FIND THOSE DEEP FEELINGS ANYMORE, HE STILL LOVES ME WITH ALL HIS HEART AND TELLS ME THAT ALL THE TIME. WHY ARE MY FEELINGS CHANGING, WHAT CAN I DO TO FIX THIS? HELP.

2007-11-20 08:32:43 · 5 answers · asked by h_butler2006 1

I know you have to do what you have to do to bring in the money you need . . but I feel like my fiance works allll the time. I'm not sure if it just feels like this because I get home a lot earlier so I get really bored. Hes gone Monday, Tues, Thurs, Friday from 7am-5pm. Wednesday he doesnt get home until 7pm, and Saturdays hes gone from 930am-430pm. Is this more than a lot of people?

2007-11-20 08:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by jenn a 1

Why is it that some girls would rather go out with the uglier boys with the bad attitudes rather than the good looking guys with the better attitude or the smarter ones? Im seeing so much of it in my school - the girls go out with the ugly guys or the uglier guys that act like they are so hardcore and they hang out on the street too much? I dont get it. Some of the girls in my school, they even would go out with some of the guys that blatantly scratch their balls in school but because of their attitude they just fall for them. Do girls think very low of themselves or something? Will girls date the more smarter ones when they are older or will they still date the 'bad' ones?

2007-11-20 08:32:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

One who seems shy and quiet, kind, and sweet..kind of bubbly but in a shy way

or one who is also shy and quiet, but seems like she has something underneath that, is mysterious and secretive, doesnt seem as sweet and kind, and you might also think she is weird...but still which type of shy girl would you prefer?

2007-11-20 08:32:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

most guys i meet seem to be amazed at me and kinda obssesed but i think the real reason is that they use me to change and spice up their lifes... nobody has ever swept me off my feet, so i keep looking... but all my ex-s say i was the one who draged them from their borring lives and gave them a taste of pasion's true flavor. is that why they want me? nobody's done it for me so i sort of feel used... what can i change? please, HELP!

2007-11-20 08:31:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. Me and my boyfriend have bbeen dating for 7 month or more and suddlen he acts like he doesnt like me. It hurts because, i really love him he tells me he loves me but the way he acts confuses me. What should i do? what can i do?
Oh and when i want him to kiss me should i wait for him to do it or just do it myself?..
Thanks!

2007-11-20 08:30:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

anyone second that?
any experiences to share that might relate to my situation?

2007-11-20 08:25:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous