HELP I SERIOUSLY AM STARTING TO FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND, I DONT KNOW WHAT IS WRONG. ITS GETTING TO WHERE I CANT STAND TO BE AROUND HIM. WE LIVE TOGETHER AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR OVER 4 MONTHS, BUT HERE LATLEY I HAVE BEEN T HINKING ABOUT LEAVING HIM ALOT AND I JUST CANT EVEN STAND TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT US, I USED TO BE SO MADLY AND DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT HERE LATLEY I CANT FIND THOSE DEEP FEELINGS ANYMORE, HE STILL LOVES ME WITH ALL HIS HEART AND TELLS ME THAT ALL THE TIME. WHY ARE MY FEELINGS CHANGING, WHAT CAN I DO TO FIX THIS? HELP.
2007-11-20 08:32:43 · 5 answers · asked by h_butler2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like your honeymoon period is ending, and you're starting to see if you're really compatible. I'm not sure you were ever in love; it was likely just infatuation or lust. I'm sorry this is happening to you; it's tough, but if you can't bring back those feelings, you need to move on and find someone else. You owe it to him, and you owe it to yourself to be happy.
2007-11-20 08:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only been together for 4 months??? I would say that it wasn't love but lust. Its a thin line between the two. Any how just leave, why be unhappy all the time. If you live with him then you have to see him everyday and night. Why would you move in so quick thats just dumb. Id say leave his ***, but wait till after the holidays it will lessen the blow.
2007-11-20 16:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters, only YOU can figure out why your feelings have changed...just think on that one you know...but if i could offer you any advice it would be that if you're truly not in love with him anymore or don't want to be with him then don't hurt him more by staying with him longer trust me THAT HURTS REALLY BAD. so if you have a heart or even care about him at all remember that the longer you wait the more it will hurt him. I truly hope everything will work out for you in the end.
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2007-11-20 16:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Kassandra♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make yourself stay in love with someone. Maybe he isn't the right person for you. After only 4 months your feelings are changing. You should tell him how you feel - if my girl fell out of love with me and couldn't stand me I would want to know
2007-11-20 16:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Scout729 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you find him just palin boring and not making your eyes sparkle like he used to. He is probably ahppy just doing the same thing over and over day after day. So if you really feel this way you need to talk to him about it and don't string him along. MAybe you and him need a vacationa way from each other
2007-11-20 16:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋