Singles & Dating - 20 November 2007

Such as body language and so? And when having to spend a little time around one another?

2007-11-20 06:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my bf of 7 yrs last week and I've noticed that in the morning I am more emotional than any other time of the day. Is there any reason for that? Just like if I wake up in the middle of night I get up crying and thinking about him and what I am doing. I am sure of what I am doing but, is this normal? Has anyone experience these feelings before during a break up or a bad time in their life?

2007-11-20 06:50:03 · 9 answers · asked by ME 3

I know and like this girl - we went out on one date - which we had to reschedule a couple of times to even accomplish.

A week later I asked her out on a second date and gave her like a week notice for it. She accepted enthusiastically.

Today, she's claiming that she suddenly has to work tonight and needs to cancel.

Now, I know what she does and her job is flexible - with a weeks notice she certainly could have made this work so what this says to me is that she's just not interested and I'm fine with that but why not just say so?

I was planning on taking her to see a band we both like at a small club. I still want to go.

My instinct says that I should tell her - "don't sweat it - I can take someone else" - which I certainly can - she's not the only girl I'm dating and I know that at least one will jump on the opportunity.

But the question is - Is that too harsh? I do like her but I want her to know that if she wants to date me that she needs to take this a little more seriously.

2007-11-20 06:47:49 · 6 answers · asked by derek985 2

My ex bf said that he likes me again after he just got done "loving" my bff. It is so crazy. I just want him to stay away. I don't want him to come back after what that jerk has done to me! He just likes to create drama. I want to tell him the truth about how I feel about him without hurting his feelings. I guess it would me ok if we were just friends but I just want to leave it at that. I do not want a bf right now. I want to take a break from boys and just focus on school. What do I say to him?

2007-11-20 06:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by Muffin ♥ 3

My boyfriend suffers from depression/emotional issues and he psushes me away every and now and then. when I try to talk to him while he's feeling like this-its like im talking to a brick wall and then i get frustarted. but when hes feeling okay he tells me that hes sorry and thinks about me all the time while hes depressed. So last night I wrote a letter to him telling him everything how I feel (since its so hard to talk to him write now). I already gave it to him so theres nothing I can do now. But do you think most guys would like that? Or does it seem kind of weird and immature?

2007-11-20 06:43:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I know my boyfriend for 5 months now, but we got in serious relationship about a month and a half ago. He takes me everywhere he goes, He says that he loves me. But for thanksgiving he did not ask me to visit his family with him( not even a word). And i can not ask him that cuz it wont sound right. Why not?

2007-11-20 06:39:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I am going to go hang out with this guy I really like tonight and I am thinking of kissing him. The only bad thing is I don't know if he likes me! We've been talking on myspace a lot and I suggested we hang out more and become closer and he said yeah :)

I don't really know what that means...but whatever. so pleaseee help! I don't know if he likes me and this is our first time being alone together! We are gonna go to the beach to "talk" (i suggessted it) what do we talk about?!??!? We're both really shy. I don't know if he likes me...but I realllllllyy wanna kiss him! HELP! HELP!

2007-11-20 06:39:38 · 24 answers · asked by Victoria 2

like him but i dont wanna do that whole girlfriend n' boyfriend and he's kind of a playa and plus i dont want a boyfriend right now
so do i just tell him "hey i want to be friends with benefits"?

p.s. im in 9th grade

2007-11-20 06:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by ??? 3

Ok, there is a older guy at work, single, very nice, a gentelman and very polished. He has been showering attention at me. Gave me concert tickets, a nice birthday gift and we went out for dinner at a very nice and cosy resturant. It was a wonderful evening. One of the best in a long time.I see so much caring in his eyes for me. He did say that he would never hurt me and would be always there for me and expects nothing in return from me.

I have a boyfriend already. I like him too, he is very good to me, a bit controlling but this man treats me with so much care and affection. i am taking my boyfriend to meet my parents as they wud like to see who I am living with. I
I have mentioned my boyfriend to him a couple of times but have never been able to say it bluntly. He is just so sensitive and caring that i am surprised that people like that exist, he is very genuine and i know he is not a player.
So my question is , is he in love with me and what should i do.

2007-11-20 06:34:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 06:31:01 · 10 answers · asked by boo 1

so there is this girl i really like and the first girl ive had a crush on....... i give her flowers and she blushes and all that but doesnt say too much (that was friday) then thinking i might have a chance i asked her to the movies last night to see a horror movie ...in the movie i put my arm around her and she then cuddled up to me and put her head just under mine :) so i thought she might like me soo when the movie was finished i asked her if she liked me and she said only as a friend!! :( i mean i am very confused ...why didnt she say something to me on friday and why did she cuddle up to me ....i really feel crap

2007-11-20 06:24:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so there's this guy I like and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. I was supposed to call him last week for help with my homework, but I got nervous and never called him. So when I talked to him this weekend (we work at different stores but have to call each other if we need something from the other store) he was all happy and joking around until I mentioned that I didn't get a chance to call him. Then he got quiet and I almost had to wrestle another time to call out of him whereas the first time he seemed pretty excited (he didn't seem to believe that I was really going to call when I said I would either.)

So, the time that I was supposed to call rolled around again, and I didn't call that time either because I got really, really sick. (Probably still just nerves.) So I sent him a text this time saying I was running late, asking if I could call tomorrow (today) and what time was best.

He didn't text me back.

So, what should I do now? Call him and apologize?

2007-11-20 06:23:48 · 2 answers · asked by Jane T 2

Hi there. I have a big problem with a boy at my school who is totally perverted. He always stares at me in a really creepy way and when he gets close enough he actually squeezes my breasts! He doesn't even stare at my face but at my chest and I'm only 13. I need your advice, boys and girls please!!!!

2007-11-20 06:23:15 · 52 answers · asked by Sophie X 1

ok this boy always looks at me and ppl on YA! say that he likes me well today he thrue a baloon at me is he wanting me to talk to him or does he not like me he smiled when he did it. AND another question i told his friend to tell him a girl likes him witch is me but he didnt say my name when his friend told him that, he said i dont care and that make me feel down and that if i told him i liked him he wouldnt care you know what i mean? so wut do i do about tat. im not the best looking girl around so is it possible he likes me? and another question he kinda talks to me at break at school and walking home is he interested in me? but when he talks to me he doesnt say my name he knows it but when ever he calls me from a distance he says HEY! or PERSON! he knows my name but why is he doing this?

2007-11-20 06:20:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

a few girls have said to me in the past they like my hands. i dont understand how girls get turned on by hands, i mean for me girls hands dont turn me on at all. why do they?

2007-11-20 06:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by Rich A 2

I like a girl that i met at a community theatre play (Monique) i did but i will probably never see her again. But I am really tight with her best friend (Kaitlyn) which haappens to go to school with me. I really like Monique and i want to see her again because we became really good friends during the play but i only have her email and her best friend.

2007-11-20 06:18:33 · 30 answers · asked by Jimmy Efron 1

So I have noticed that when my bf introduces me to people he just say "This is Michelle" instead of "This is my girlfriend,Michelle" I mean when I introduce him its this is my bf...Am I thinking too deeply into this?! or is this a ligit concearn?!

2007-11-20 06:16:28 · 6 answers · asked by Michelle 3

iv been wearing glasses for 2years now and i feel they make me ugly and i cant afford to buy contacts.. any my ex walked out on me in feb this year and i ahev a 2yr old.. so bcoz i wear glasses does this make me ugly? and will men be put off by it.. like can i actually go out in a night club wearing glasses and a man to find me attractive?

2007-11-20 06:12:19 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

and they call her a sl ut but when a boys does the same thing but even worse nothings wrong with it i see this a lot in my high skool it just makes no sense at all

2007-11-20 06:10:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok we all know the game, give a hit take a hit, but why do people want to start to play a game and cant play along accordingly? i mean for example in interpersonal relations. we all try to play the waiting game and pretend we dont know or forgot your name or who you are, when we really do, so why when you play the game, some cant take it and drop out? or am i just way off?

2007-11-20 06:01:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my high school boyfriend broke up to go to college in different states. Everytime we're back home (for holidays and summer) we hook up. Seriously everytime- even if we're just driving through town....

Neither of us has dated anyone in college. But we have hooked up with other people (not that we talk about it).

I'm wondering if we're just depending on each other "for a good time" or if there's still something. I don't want to get hurt but I can see him back in my life. I can wait until we graduate and move back home in May 08, but I don't want to waste time. There are some decisions I need to make about my life that might not allow us to be together (traveling the world, going to graduate school in another state). Should I talk to him about where this is going or just go along with it until things fade out??

2007-11-20 05:40:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

It all started with fights over not seeing each other enough which was no ones fault. We both work almost full time and both take 5 classes. The fighting then got out of control and resulted in a break. When I couldnt handle being friends that resulted in more arguing which resulted in no more contact. I cant for the life of me figure how we can love each other so much but argue so much. It all started over something we could not conrol and its not like we dont have anything in common, we have a lot in common and before the lack of time we had so much fun together...Why do we hurt the one we love most?

2007-11-20 05:31:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i know this picture may seem
unbelievable
but i took it on halloween.
the party flyer told us
to dress
as the opposite sex or dress as if you were homosexual.


i've done all these guys
&& they're magnificent in bed!

but i don't know which one to saty with.

can you pease help me out?!!?!?



i'm stuck between the guy in red or blue???

http://jerks.puxley.ca/archives/fat_people.jpg

2007-11-20 05:25:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

What qualities do you hate in a woman? Is it true that if your really into a girl you'll ask her out?

2007-11-20 05:24:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

if I were to send you a picture.... could you tell me what you think??

2007-11-20 05:22:41 · 1 answers · asked by -Dr. D 2

I met this girl on october 19/2007 and I left her a text/voice message and she replied back on october26/2007 with a text message" Goodnite Mike, kiss,Michelle and also a 2nd message on the same night-"I have been busy/ready to move and i will write back.And then I haven't heard from her in 10 days and I tried to call her"subscriber doesn't accept icoming call" and then I have received text message on November 6/2007"My phone was stolen,how are u doing?
And from November 06/2007 I haven't heard anything from her.
On November 9/2007 I called her and she didn't answer and then I tried a private call and she answered and hanged up/disconnected.From November 09/2007 until now-I sent a her a few text messages/and a few calls..
Still, I haven't heard anything form her?
I NEED SERIOUS OPINIONS ABOUT THIS!!!

2007-11-20 05:21:51 · 4 answers · asked by Marius O 1

I am 20 yrs old and the guy i like is 20 as well. He is not a virgin and I am. I know that he is probably going to eventually want to have sex, but I am just so upset and would absolutely dirty. The only reason I would do it is to make him happy. I care about him so much, but i know that sexual intimacy is part of relationships. It's not as if I tricked him, bc I told him that I was a virgin to begin with and he had no problems, but it just seems that he is trying to go further and further. I don't mean to sound like a cry baby, but I am so upset. I really am not ready to give my innocence up yet. I just don't know what to do. I care for him alot and I know that it is normal for a 20 yr. old man to have sexual urges. I don't know what to do. I also know that if I do it once, he is going to continue to want to do it more and more. I would just hate myself, bc I am not ready for this sort of thing. Please help me!

2007-11-20 05:11:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been talking to this guy, we've been friends forever, but now things are starting to happen. when i see him we can talk for hours, but on the phone i run out of things to say. any ideas?????

2007-11-20 04:51:53 · 1 answers · asked by Unknown 2

I work in the main office and in walks this gorgeous man, a co-worker confirms he's single. I know the company for which he works and have an email address. Do I contact him, and what do I say. My though was an invite to dinner, your thoughts?

2007-11-20 04:47:06 · 1 answers · asked by dreamer 1

I have it to him yesterday and he put it in his pocket. He barely says anything at all...but he is super hot and I have glanced at him and we met eyes and then we both turned away. How long should I wait before he calls, or if he dpes not like me?

2007-11-20 04:41:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous