Singles & Dating - 20 November 2007

Would you mind if a guy got hard during a dance if he was really attractive?

2007-11-20 11:45:32 · 6 answers · asked by ryan 4

I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over a month now, and the whole time I've been having to deal with her and her recent exbf.. he's still obsessed with her and talks with her about getting back together with her. Well, I'm tired of dealing with it all, and today I threatened him if he wouldn't quit being an *** to my girlfriend. I have a porn video that he made and sent to her A WEEK after me and her started dating, and I threatened to use it against him if he doesn't stop trying to get back together with her! And to make things worse, she wants to be good friends with him... they even hung out alone the other day.

Am I wrong to think that it's a had idea for them to be good friends when he so desperately wants to get back together with her?! She's pissed at me now for "getting involved in matters that don't concern me" ... when obviously it DOES concern me..

2007-11-20 11:43:51 · 24 answers · asked by Mike 2

i like this guy and HE told me that he likes me but he never asked me out...what should i do??

2007-11-20 11:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had a crush on her for a really long time. We dated and we decided to be friends because she wasn't ready for a 'relationship' yet. I really would like a relationship but she revealed to me that she is really interested in just 'having fun' right now. By having fun, she means having one night stands where she doesn't ever have to see the guy again. She told me she wanted to sleep with me but she couldn't bring herself to do it because she sees me every day in class. Well, a few days ago she started hinting around that she wouldn't mind sleeping with me after all. I really would like to, but I'm afraid that it will only make me want her more. It will make me want a relationship even more but I know she doesn't want that. I know this sounds unmanly, but I'm afraid that by sleeping with her, I will be setting myself up for a lot of pain and heartache. I care about her deeply. What should I do? Should I just keep going with my life and try to forget her advances or...?

2007-11-20 11:40:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you dare a Porn Star and who would it be? I would go out with Vanessa Blue she is so fine!

2007-11-20 11:36:31 · 20 answers · asked by Daryl A 3

I'm just curious and if anyone makes any racist remarks I will report you. Also I give Best Answer to people who have a full explanation!

2007-11-20 11:28:58 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

Firstly we love each other deeply. So pls no suggestions like 'leave her'!! We love each other and have a great time. But its one thing being a lover with your wife and another being her friend. In terms of the 'lover' side, all is fine. But in terms of the 'friend' side when we are not saying 'hey your beautiful or i love you' etc. etc. there just seems like we dont have that much to talk about. I mean so many times we just get silent (its a comfortable silence).

We are JUST married. I want to open up to her and want her to open up to me a lot more. I feel like if we both do then there wont be that many silences. But I think she has great difficutlies in opening up with me I really dont know y. Ive said it SO many times, please open up with me. I know she thinks of her close sisters and brothers A LOT. I told her tell me what shes thinking about them but she doesnt that much.
When we talk we hover around topics we never go in deep.


What to do? How to become better 'friends'??

2007-11-20 11:10:59 · 13 answers · asked by K B 1

2007-11-20 11:06:56 · 36 answers · asked by bright 2

nothing hurtful and something that she and he wants to do

2007-11-20 11:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i hate to ask this but does having foreskin gross a girl out??

2007-11-20 11:00:10 · 3 answers · asked by slayter19 2

Both of our parents know that we are dating and they are fine with it- but is it illegal for us to date?

2007-11-20 10:48:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really need your help with this plz. ok so here goes. i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me too with the way he has been acting around me. the usual signs(staring alot and going out of his way to do stuff for me). and even tho we only talked a couple times i think that he might like me. idk how long he has had a gf but i only kno this cuz my friend told me he has a gf. he had a hickey on his neck but im not sure if he could still possibly like me. boys, i need your help, wud u ever consider leaving ur gf for another girl or wud it just be to risky. btw i m a hard to get kinda girl and so far that seems to be going well

2007-11-20 10:37:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

met this girl and she texts me at least 8 times or more a day. Its the first girl I have dated since my breakup a year or so ago. She's really nice, sweet etc... but I feel like its a bit much. Am I wrong about this? We went on a few dates and I kind of like her and she is really diggin me but this bothers me a little. What do you guys say??

2007-11-20 10:35:25 · 11 answers · asked by wa8n4her 2

What should I buy my 15 year old girl friend for Christmas? I am 16 and I don't know how much to spend and I also don't know what to get her, we have only been going out for a few months and I want to get a head start on and idea.

2007-11-20 10:35:09 · 11 answers · asked by joe joe 1

eg .these men i'm sure have never had a girlfriend

2007-11-20 10:31:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does my gf mean when she says she feels akward around me, like she doesnt like to be seen with me in public, becuase i argue with her, but waht is the best way and fastest way to get her to not feel akward around me.

2007-11-20 10:31:16 · 26 answers · asked by Journy 1

2007-11-20 10:22:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with this girl for over a year, we were together in high school, separated for some time, then got back together after we both had bad relationships and had a child together. So together we have three children, one mine, one hers and one ours. This is our first thanksgiving dinner that we're supposed to go to her families. I'm having a real problem with this because her grandfather molested her and likely others, but the family has always tried to hide it. I don't want my children around him at all. I've tried seeing about us going to visit some other time when he wont' be there, hell I'd rather trek all around the state than have my children around him(Or any child molester for that matter). She doesn't seem to understand why I do not want the kids there, she gives an excuse like "He doesn't do it to boys" and i can't help but think... *the family hides that he did it to anyone.. How does she know he doesn't do it to boys?*
What should I do? Am I wrong in my thinking?

2007-11-20 10:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by Zippy 2

with a 31 year old guy who is a virgin? He is not gay

2007-11-20 10:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can i do to get a boyfrend im 17 in highschool nevr had a boyfriend or been kissed... and no im not ugly i have a great personality too........ what can i do to get them interested other than dressing like a hoe

2007-11-20 10:08:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 17 and a virgin, and people always putting pressur eon me like oh u a virgin still n stuff, so just wanna know u if u girls really care if someone is a virgin?......and i no how to spell its called improvising

2007-11-20 10:06:05 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

at the time he was dating his girlfriend and thoguht that she wasn't pretty and he thought that he could be better soo then, a while later that same girl is really pretty that she becomes a supermodel. wouldnt that guy just be really mad at himself for breaking up with her? ahaha me and my friends were giving advice like this today to a very good friend of mine who wants to be a fashion model.

2007-11-20 10:03:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 15 years old and never had a first kiss before, my boyfriend keeps talking about kissing me and how he wants to do it so bad. I dont know when, but im pretty sure the next time i see him it'll happen.I dont know how to kiss, can anyone give me tips or something and do first kisses always suck?Share ur first kiss experiences

2007-11-20 10:03:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I really like. He's really cute, but he's a cheater. I really want to go out with him. What do I do?

2007-11-20 10:02:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

We took a 'break' 2 months ago. We didn't really talk for a while after the initial break because I didn't want to, then she didn't want to. But now she'll talk to me online during the day maybe once or twice a week. And she'll call me at 2 or 3 in the morning drunk telling me she misses me, still thinks about me all the time and that she'll be home from college in a couple of days and wants to hang out and tells me to call her. Then when I call she ignores my calls and she'll ask for help in her classes and never gets back to me on it. It's really confusing and annoying when you're trying to get over someone. I try not to pick up the phone or answer her online but I really want to know how she is doing at the same time.

Does anyone know what could be going on in her head?

2007-11-20 09:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm feeling very embarassed at this moment... I was checking my boyfriend's myspace and I saw this girl who complimented him (she said that this color he was wearing looks so good on him)he's just a friend I know who she is but I don't know what happened to me I just called him and yelled something like you know what is it with this girl blah blah go take a look on what she wrote there and I was mad... He was calm and said honey why are you arguing about something so unintyeresting... you know she's just a friend... you know I love you..

In fact I know who she is and I trust my bf but I just got jealous

Now I feel ridiculous.. what do I do to rectify my stupid action ? What is he gonna think of me now ?

2007-11-20 09:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by leave me alone 1

Why would a girl ask out a guy? I dont think its the proper thing to do. Is this just my opinion or does anyone else think the same? No offence to anyone...

2007-11-20 09:45:15 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a guy at work who really likes me, and i like him, and right now we are just getting to know each other. The only thing is is that in my church we can't really date anyone who isn't in our church, and normally i've always told myself the same thing because it would only make me rethink where i am in life, i want a strong and faithful helpmate, well...this guy is someone i know i can see myself with, and we have been able to talk about so much and just basically get each other by day to day, i like him, and i know he likes me, is there anyone who has maybe gone through something similar? Maybe not as far as church wise but along the same lines?? Anything is a big help. thanks

2007-11-20 09:43:52 · 1 answers · asked by L.R. 2

This is for guys and girls. There's this guy that I've been dating and when we got on the topic of sex, he told me he's slept with 10 girls-some of them one night stands. Is this normal for guys and ok, or is this a warning sign? Your advice would be much apprectiated!

2007-11-20 09:33:45 · 9 answers · asked by <TiGerEyes> 2

2007-11-20 09:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous