Singles & Dating - 20 November 2007

she gave me her gum to put in the trash and my first reaction was not to touch it, I felt bad because I didn't have enough time to think that was going to upset her, she is single but in general she have a lot of chances with boys and I have none with girls.

2007-11-20 20:11:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 20:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by shalababes 1

i just got a new job. its a very small staff of four people. so far, i really like everyone i work with. my boss is new as of three months ago. she's not very professional, but she's very nice. one of the other people i work with is a very attractive male who is my age. i wasn't initially interested in him, he's not my type. he's athletic and i expected him to be a narcissistic jerk (bad judgment i know). he's actually very nice. but i still wasn't interested in him because i would assume he'd be taken or he wouldn't be into me, i really just hadn't considered it. then my trouble maker boss made a coment suggesting that she's never seen him talk so much before i came. she asked me if i was dating anyone. (she's funny). i said, "no, i'm VERY focused on school and work and men are distracting". i wouldn't make a move myself, but if he were to make a move on me, i don't think i could say no. does he really like me or is my boss just causing mischief? i hope he doesn't. i like this job.

2007-11-20 19:52:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 19:50:55 · 18 answers · asked by sheetal k 1

I mean people you've met either to date or as just friends. Just wanting to hear other's experiences. Bit chicken to meet people that way myself.

2007-11-20 19:48:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a girl over the internet. She send me a photo last week. I don't think I can say that I feel attracted to her but on the other hand I believe I must wait til I see her in person. She might surprise me when I see her and maybe I see things that make me attracted to her physically.

2007-11-20 19:46:03 · 3 answers · asked by Maxwell 1

We're very much in love, things have been gold for years now. We looked at rings a few weeks ago. I'm committed to this. I love her and I love our life together. The problem is that I have this amoral approach to sexuality and I want this other girl very badly. I still think I should marry my girl. But I don't think I'll always be faithful.

2007-11-20 19:30:37 · 44 answers · asked by Ginseng 2

My GF lives in the Phillipines.Shes awesome.Weget along great.We love eachother.Im very poor.She's very poor.Im going to be starting college soon.What must I do to get the woman I love?

Can I get a star folks?PLEASE?

2007-11-20 19:23:42 · 7 answers · asked by SHOCKWAVE 3

The thing is I see loads of pretty girls on the streets. I know how pretty a girl can be and therefore I feel like I need to be with somebody that its attractive. Unfortunately I am not too pretty myself and I always end up with girls that are not attractive. I know I need to be more open when it comes to a girls physical appearance but I can't help it to look for a pretty face.

2007-11-20 19:23:38 · 22 answers · asked by Matt 1

I like to get up and leave when we're done. What's the big deal?

2007-11-20 19:09:24 · 12 answers · asked by Vinnie Sciurini 1

I've heard many stories of people finding love online. How does it work? Where do you go to meet people online who live in your area?

2007-11-20 19:04:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a single, straight, 28 year old male. I am decent looking, have a good personality, job and education. I didn't have a party mentality in high school or college, so I pretty much missed those opportunities to meet someone significant. I have gone on maybe two dates in my entire life (when I was 23) and to be honest, I am debating whether or not they can even be considered dates. I have not even experienced my first kiss let alone a girlfriend. I have put much focus on my education and my career, so dating/relationships were put on hold as no major successes had been achieved. I was wondering if getting back into the game is a good idea, or if I should wait until I am a little more financially secure with my own place. I currently live with my parents and other adult siblings and I do in fact love being around my family and of course having very few bills. This I believe is hurting my date-ability as many girls my age are overcome with jealousy regarding this.

2007-11-20 19:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

chase after badass guys, even when they know it won't work? why don't they go for the nice guys...? i never understood this concept...

(and yes i am a guy on my girl friends account)

2007-11-20 18:48:20 · 21 answers · asked by Polygonia 3

I have 6 different kinds of love

2007-11-20 18:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by what ever ? 2

thts all he talks about.is babies

2007-11-20 18:42:51 · 4 answers · asked by need 2 know 1

I have been with the same guy for about three years already! No engagement yet either! I believed in what he told me when he said I love you! I was weary about it at first but I was soon convinced that he did love me! He did things that showed he loved me. But then there were times like now where I feel that he doesn't care about our relationship? I'm fighting with him because he didn't send me the usual messages before bed! He still doesn't respond, I now have decided to stop bugging him about it! It hurts though because I thought he would care enough but he seems like he does not! I guess he is not that into me and that's what I am afraid of! I realized that I should let him show it without me nagging and see if he really means it when he says he loves me! I'm afraid that I may learn a truth that will hurt me! (I'm so scared and sad)

2007-11-20 18:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by I'm going crayyyyzeee! 1

There are so many dating help-books that tell you that you should be a listener and not a talker, i.e. you should listen more and talk less. Well, how do you do that when the girl you are dating (or trying to date) is a shy silent type who doesn't talk much? For such a girl, what should I do?

2007-11-20 18:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

or if have you heard of them or know anyone whos been on one? if so, whats it like?

2007-11-20 18:33:30 · 1 answers · asked by bluestar 3

i'm 15 i lost my virgity about 6 months ago, i've been having sex very often with my girlfriend about 6 to 7 times a week.......
she's on birth-control but i'm still using a condom most of the time.......

is this wrong???????

2007-11-20 18:33:07 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sooo...I have been dating my boyfriend about a month. We had sex for the first time a few days ago and the lights were off.

What worries me is what guys think about the appearance of the external vaginal area.

My vagina does not look at all like the ones in Playboy...my inner lips extend beyond the outer lips and while they are not long and hanging they are puffy and visible. I am really nervous and having anxiety about what he will think when he sees it if the lights are on or if we have sex during the daytime.

I hate feeling so embarrassed and wonder what guys really think about vulvas that don't look like the ones in Playboy. Do you think my bf will be grossed out?

2007-11-20 18:28:54 · 35 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1

so i was seeing this girl for over a week. then she thought i had a girlfriend and told me to "get your **** and get out of my place"


did i get dumped?
even though we were not officially together.

2007-11-20 18:15:07 · 8 answers · asked by jp4smiles 3

i have been in an intimate relationship with this guy from work.He came out of a 8yr relationship 9mths ago and said that he wasnt yet ready for a serious relationship though we were always with each other and did everything like a couple would.But as of 2weeks ago he has suddenly became very "attached to me".We started making decisions together and he actually came out and said "i love u".He has become very romantic and cant get enough of me.We have even started carrying our kids out together and talking about moving in. i cant help but feel as though something is amiss even though i truly believe that he is genuine.Am i trying to wreck my happiness by being pessimistic?Or am i right to think that after not wanting to have a serious relationship and suddenly do want one now that probably something is wrong?

2007-11-20 18:04:23 · 1 answers · asked by Empress 1

2007-11-20 18:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy that I've known practically all my life and have been cool with and I recently got buzzed on a school trip and got a little too close. One of his best friends told me he liked me in the 7th grade but that was two school terms ago. Everybody thinks we are in a relationship but he keeps stressing to me that we are "close friends". He acts interested and he even asked for my number but theres that "close friends thing that is killin me. I'm so confused is that just to show me he is not going to rush into a relationship or is he just not interested in me that way. He is very protective of me and he's always askin for hugs and stuff but I don't know what to think. Some days he ignores me and some days he acts totally interested in more than being a friend. I don't want to come right out and ask him about what we have because I'm afraid he might not give me the answer I want. I'm losing my mind over this!!!

I need help please!!!

2007-11-20 17:59:22 · 1 answers · asked by KAI 2

Think about you and all of your girl friends...if yall cheat once...would you do it again? and How likely is it if you do have a boyfriend and you go out with your girlfriends or just some other people to a club or where ever....would you cheat? If you wouldn't, do you think your other girlfriends would?

2007-11-20 17:53:09 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1

I have (in my opinion) the best b/f a girl can have. He is smart, good looking, loyal, caring, ect... I love him to death but he has the WORST breath. I don't even like kissing him because of it. I know he brushes his teeth daily (he doesnt floss tho). I have hinted to him before that it smells in subtle ways hoping he would start paying more attention but ...nothing. How do i deal w/ this? has this ever happened to any1 else? He is a great guy and i dont want to hurt his feelings... but i cant handle being close to his face sometimes.

2007-11-20 17:49:21 · 30 answers · asked by anibelleaz1 4

my formal is soon, and i have a yellow dress ( like the movie how to lose a guy in 10 days) , its ok because im not fair skinned but i have no idea what shoes to wear? i was thinking black stilettos but i dont want to end up bumble bee like, so i was thinking brown shade colours? like woodish colour brown?
please help, much appreciated

2007-11-20 17:43:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, how did you move on..?

2007-11-20 17:37:31 · 9 answers · asked by William N 1

Well i've been friends with my boyfriend since the beggining of high school and we liked eachother for a long time. We were always caught up with other people and could not be together until about 9 months ago. when i was 15 i wanted to go out with him and i reall y liked him but apparantly his brother liked me at the same time. he told me to go out with his bro becaue he really liked me. my bf was not ready 4 a relationship. I went out with his bro bc i was upset about him rejecting me and i did what he wanted. went out with his bro for a year and 3 month until grade 12. it was a shitty relationship and he hit me and abused me and treated me like ****. By the end of the relationship i was an emotional wreck because of his torment and he broke up with me. Then sometime later his bro asked me out and treated me really well and i found out he is the perfect guy for me. Problem i we have to keep it a secret and have been for 9 months. i want to tell my ex,but my bf wont let. what do i do?

2007-11-20 17:37:29 · 4 answers · asked by Lisa 2

my boyfriend and i are always talking on the phone and most of the time we dont know what to talk about.... and now he is like i have to go so think of something happy to talk about when i get back... but i dont know what to talk about...! what should i talk about??? please help! thank you.

2007-11-20 17:31:51 · 8 answers · asked by hailey 1