something happy!?

Question

my boyfriend and i are always talking on the phone and most of the time we dont know what to talk about.... and now he is like i have to go so think of something happy to talk about when i get back... but i dont know what to talk about...! what should i talk about??? please help! thank you.

Answer 1

talk about future plans, celebrities, tv shows, something he can relate to

Answer 2

Lol well I'm not sure what kind of couple you are but my boyfriend and I are always very easy going and don't take offense very easily, so one day when were talking, about 4 years ago, he said, "you know we run out of things to talk about. So we are going to play a game I played when I was younger." And I said, "Okay what is that then?" And he said, " So what we do is I will start a conversation about anything. Then we will talk about it and when we reach an awkward silence then you have to come up with another topic, then we'll talk about that. And if you can't come up with any topic , any topic at all it doesnt matter how weird or strange it is it can even be a questions, then you lose. And when you lose you have to do something embarrassing or weird or stupid picked by the winner." And so that's what we did. It might seem like a juvenile thing to do but it was actually really good. It worked on lots of problems like:
*Some of the topics were so off beat it was hilarious and we would start cracking up and it released so much tension and it became so comfortable when we hung out, talked on the phone, saw each other at school, etc.
*By the conversation starters we said we learned a lot about each other which was useful when it came to Christmas and Birthdays and just everyday things.
*After time there was barely any pauses vbecause someone would say something and that conversation would go and then instantly someone would bring up something else. It slowly helped our conversations become better and grow (Just like our reltionship did.)


If you don't want to do that game (We ended up calling it "Ice Breakers" lol) do it by yourself. When there is a silence say something, ask a questions, try to relate. Dont just sit there thinking how gay that conversation is just jumpstart the conversation and he will eventually pick up. Don't worry even the best relationships get caught in the rudder's.

Get to know his intrests and talk about that for starters too. That will deifantly work.

Answer 3

Ask him about his childhood. Most people like to talk about what they remember from when they were little. If he needs specifics, think of what would be his happiest memories: favorite vacation, favorite birthday party, favorite holiday celebration, etc.

Answer 4

talk about things that happen trough the day of him, focus on the ones he is talking more about, let him talk and don't just say yes or no, listen to what he says understand it so you can follow it

Answer 5

if u have nothing to talk about how come u re still bf/gf? i always thought u come into relationships if u have smth in common, smth what makes u jell. obviously here there is nothing to jell. u should talk about whatever is interesting for u both

Answer 6

Talk about... hee hee hee. never mind. lol, jk. ummm, ice cream!!!! or puppies!!! or marriage. lol.

Answer 7

IF YOU CANNOT TALK ABOUT ANYTHING AND CONVERSATION IS DWINDLING THEN THE CANDLE IS OUT.

Answer 8

talk about...

memories