Well i've been friends with my boyfriend since the beggining of high school and we liked eachother for a long time. We were always caught up with other people and could not be together until about 9 months ago. when i was 15 i wanted to go out with him and i reall y liked him but apparantly his brother liked me at the same time. he told me to go out with his bro becaue he really liked me. my bf was not ready 4 a relationship. I went out with his bro bc i was upset about him rejecting me and i did what he wanted. went out with his bro for a year and 3 month until grade 12. it was a shitty relationship and he hit me and abused me and treated me like ****. By the end of the relationship i was an emotional wreck because of his torment and he broke up with me. Then sometime later his bro asked me out and treated me really well and i found out he is the perfect guy for me. Problem i we have to keep it a secret and have been for 9 months. i want to tell my ex,but my bf wont let. what do i do?
2007-11-20 17:37:29 · 4 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
truthfully i would keep it a secret,
why? because they are blood brothers, and your bf respects his brother ( rejecting you even tho he liked you for his brother) and your boyfriend probably already feels bad enough about the situation, they will be family fights possibly could lead to them not talking, his brother was an asshole to you, but respect your boyfriends wishes because blood is thicker then water
i dont mean this in a mean way, i just think that you love your boyfriend and he has done alot for you ( you said he is the perfect guy for you) and i think it would be a shame to wreck it. its up to your boyfriend to tell him, and i am sure he will soon.. but just wait a little longer and have a proper talk to your boyfriend about it.
goodluck, an choose what you think is right
2007-11-20 17:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you need to keep it a secret and why do you have to tell your x anyway, if your happy then just enjoy your life and each others company that is the main thing.
2007-11-21 01:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OPEN IT UP. CONFRONT THE INEVITABLE OF LEADING ONE AROUND WHILE THE OTHER IS THINKING YOU ARE HIS.
CLOSURE IS WHAT YOU NEED WITH ONE TO MOVE ON WITH THE OTHER.
2007-11-21 01:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by ahsoasho2u2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i hate women sometimes. dont tell him! unless u want ur bf to get his *** beat
2007-11-21 01:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋