Singles & Dating - 20 November 2007

i really want to ask this guy out im 13 hes 14 ive been trying to ask him out since august im thinking of asking him when our youth group goes ice skating but cant find the words to do it

2007-11-20 08:22:44 · 17 answers · asked by my imperfections make me perfect 2

k theres this guy. he is probably the shyest guy i have ever met in my entire life. he is attractive, very smart and is amazing at sports. but he only talks to people that are his friends (so people think hes stuck up). when i first met him he would not talk to me first and just nod his head. then as he got to know me, he talked to me more.. and by the end of the day we were both crazy and laughing. he still barely talks to me (just hi hows it going). so it is impossible to read anything from him. how can i find out what hes thinking without asking him (his cousin asked him who he liked and he said nothing)

2007-11-20 08:19:16 · 4 answers · asked by T.G. <3 2

okay. i have this guy friend who is really cool and everything. i dont see him to much, but i talk to him almost everyday online. when he has a problem or something, he always opens up to me, like im the only friend he has. and that isnt a bad thing, but the first time i met him in person ( he is my friends friend so i knew he wasnt like, 43 years old!) it was too clod by the door so i just said hi and backed away from the door. he only saw me for like, 4 secconds and the next day online, he asked me if i liked what i saw when i saw him. i just said what did u think? and he was like come on u know what i mean. but he wouldnt really say anything like that to me. and another time, he asked me what i would rate him on a scale from 1-10. i tild him i didnt really know. and then later on in the conversation like 15 minuetes later, he said, "if i were to ask u out, and im not saying that i like you, would u say yes?"

2007-11-20 08:17:25 · 15 answers · asked by Mellllers 2

There is this guy i like but i don't know if he likes me too. i want to ask him to go steady, but i'm not sure yet. he barely gives me the time of day, but we've slept together 4 times at parties. should i ask him out? My best friend says I should totally go for it, she was hookin gup with him at the same time as me, and she says he defs likes me better......

2007-11-20 08:15:13 · 16 answers · asked by Princess Ninja 7

does everybody wants to have sex at ages 13-17??

or are promiscuous by that age!

whats wrong with you people

2007-11-20 08:13:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

like should i sit back and relax even though he's right there and i like him and i think he likes me but we're kinda both too scared to say anything, should i do something that won't scream i love you, but says i like u and dont want to ruin our good relationship. please help......

2007-11-20 08:10:02 · 11 answers · asked by lois 1

I am going to have first time conversation with a girl on the phone today.

Can you recommend what are the things I should ask her so that I can impress her and keep the conversation going? As many as possible ideas pls

2007-11-20 07:55:34 · 18 answers · asked by Nat 1

my best friend is going out wiv this boy i have liked him since year 7 and she has liked him for 3 weeks
please help ....x

2007-11-20 07:54:16 · 13 answers · asked by fayzyblazy 2

I'm 16 years old, 5'1-5'2, about 98-100 pounds. I'm no where near flat, but I'm constantly told, "Your legs are so skinny!" It's kind of annoying. I have a fast metabolism and it's hard to gain weight. Is this a bad insult? It hurts. :(

2007-11-20 07:46:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 07:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got back from a 3 year "vacation" courtesy of the state, an she sure looks a lot different that when I saw her last. Course, she never came to visit, so I was kinda suprised at the change. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I didn't wait 3 years to see what I'm gettin now.

2007-11-20 07:39:20 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys answer too..would u rather a girl act really desperate or a girl that is playing hard to get? and why?..saying neither is not an option.

2007-11-20 07:34:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, what if you don't want people to know what you do for a living? like if you're not proud of what you do. How would you respond????

2007-11-20 07:33:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 07:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I hadn't talked to my ex for about a good month or so. I quit talking to her, took her off my myspace ect. . .just so I could get over her. She is the one who left me. Last week, I sent her an email saying "Hi, I just wanted to see how you and your little girl were doing." Cause that was really all I wanted to know. I still care alot for both of them. She responded back were doing fine, and asked how I was doing. I told her I was doing okay and that I missed spending time with her and her daughter, but I needed time with no communication with her so I could get over her. She responded back with "If you ever need to talk, let me know. And I mean that." I never responded back.

I still love this girl with all my heart, but I don't want to misinterpret anything she says. Is she just saying this to be nice? Or is it possible that I should pursue talking with her and maybe things could work out? As much as I'd like to be just friends, I can't look at her that way, so I hope that isnt

2007-11-20 07:33:06 · 26 answers · asked by Roland of Gilead 3

Would you tediously analyze it so see if it meant anything special???
I'm the guy btw...and I really like this girl, but I'm one of those "intellectuals" and she is a friend. So I sent her this really good poem by Robert Frost just to ask what she thinks about it.
I'm just about 98% sure this girl likes me...

The poem was definitely NOT love poetry though. So I'm wondering...did I make a mistake by sending her poetry that had nothing to do with love??

2007-11-20 07:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

so I met this girl that lives kinda near me on myspace, (lame I know) we've been talking and are supposed to meet soon. Has anyone out there had a serious relationship that started on the internet? What should I expect?

(she's 19, I'm 20 and we work/go to school in the same small town)

2007-11-20 07:28:50 · 1 answers · asked by Nate 6

I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 months (1 month "officially"). He's 24, I'm 21. He is a very "sexual" person (if that's the right word to use). I have experience, but not a lot. I haven't really ever given head (except for once or twice). The only thing I have a bit of experience with is sex. I don't want to jump in the sack with my current boyfriend right away, and I know there's other ways of pleasing him. However, the thought of touching his manhood with my hands or putting it in my mouth... kind of makes me terrified that I'll be bad at it, or that it will be disgusting. I don't know if I should just do it already or if there's something I can do to get over the fear/make it a pleasant experience for myself. Any suggestions?

2007-11-20 07:25:31 · 3 answers · asked by Danielle M 1

We've been together for a couple of years, and he comes out and says he's not in love with me. He does say he cares about me though, and isn't breaking up with me because of it. Is it necessarily bad? What do you think?

2007-11-20 07:17:31 · 32 answers · asked by jade 2

2007-11-20 07:17:30 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love him and i want to be with him forever and we belong together but he's in egypt and i'm in michigan and he's 20 and i'm 14 and i don't wanna break his heart

2007-11-20 07:16:45 · 16 answers · asked by cherry h 1

We're both in college, living at home with our parents.
So often, we can't have sex in our homes.
I won't have a car for another month or so.
I've already tried changing rooms of a store...
I've booked a hotel, but I can't afford that as many times a week as I'd like sex....

Any ideas, please? =P

2007-11-20 07:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy and i have been friends since school started. we started to talk to each other, and then i began to like him more and more each day. He knew it, I could tell he liked me a little. And then now he wants space. I was sad when he said that, b/c i dont know what i did. why do u think he wants space now? he's not mad or anything, but do u think he'll ever contact me again??

2007-11-20 07:02:15 · 4 answers · asked by aminallover29 2

i've been in love with my best friend for months now but because she is with someone else she basically told me the other day that we will never be together, despite the fact that she told me she liked me before she started with this guy.
i had thought that we might eventually get married and because she wants to save herself for marriage then that would be when i finally had sex
but now there is another girl who has already said she wants to have sex with me. i dont love her and i never will. and i know it sounds kinda gay but i always thought my first time would be with someone i love.
i dont know whether or not i should have sex with this other girl
i'm not very physically attractive so i may not get too many chances
your opinions would be appreciated

2007-11-20 06:59:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this girl but i don't what to say i always freze up.


help me plz

2007-11-20 06:57:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

...nothing. Well at first I didn't give him a chance to say anything, I kissed him because I felt nervous having just said it. After the kiss, he just said, "I'm so happy, I'm so happy," and then said that I was his favourite person in the world, and the best person for him. He didn't say I love you back though, and we spent the whole rest of the evening and the next day together. From his reaction, can I assume he does love me back, or is he just happy that someone loves him, but doesn't really love me back?

2007-11-20 06:56:56 · 50 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

I don't think, I know that I have found someone that I really would like to move in a forward motion with in all aspects of my life. We ran into a snag, where emotions were starting to get involved. He scared me & we both took a step back, then briefly talked & thought to try to be FWB. This also did not come to play. Now, it's been almost 2 wks & we haven't spoken other than a couple of text msgs a week ago. I care, but I don't want to be selfish & ask "what or why?" I don't know how to approach him if at all... I want my character to stand out to him again as it did in the beginning. He is a pyschologist & so he will analyze every detail of this & form an opinion. He is a truly amazing man who I can relate to like none other. I need some advice on how to handle this without losing a great friend in the process. How do I approach this to see if we still have a chance or if it is over for good?

2007-11-20 06:54:25 · 7 answers · asked by T. 6

I've been with my boyfriend for four years. We've planned for the future, and he's even mentioned a wedding date he would like. Problem is, whenever I bring up marriage (which is rare), he gets irritated. We were at a wedding last weekend and I caught the bouquet, only to have it ripped out of my hands by another girl. When I looked over at my boyfriend, he looked relieved that it was taken from me. He mentioned later that his heart stopped when he saw me catch it.
Just when I lose hope, he'll say something that makes me wonder. In the car on the way back from the wedding, he asked me what type of wedding dress I wanted for our wedding. When I mentioned that I've never about it, he told me I should start looking. Then said he wanted to help plan it. He called me his spouse recently, and when I corrected him he said that I might as well be.

How do I talk to him about it? I know that he 's serious about our relationship, but I need to know if it's ever going to happen.

2007-11-20 06:54:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

right ...
so i've been talking to this girl ( I guess, she really nice girl, amazingly intelligent... I mean like super way smarter then me but hey i like that .. anyways started out going back and forth on myspace .. btw i knew her from a friend of mine and i saw her there and talked for little , xchanged myspaces (lol), anyway it graduated to "textin" each other to the point now we are gym buddies. we probably talk to each other least a couples times a day through text and if lucky over the phone but its all friendly type conversation. her bday came and i sent her a gift certificat and and she responded to me in text how i shouldnt have have and that she's glad we are friends... yadda yadda. I just dont blieve it .. we hung out out a few times doing classes at the gym (mind you i dont take classes but now im begginingg to like them lol ) and one time at a party ... i just dont get it. IShould i Just move on.. or what..

2007-11-20 06:52:07 · 23 answers · asked by Rufwon 2

Me and my boyfriend have dated off and on for over two years now. At first it was nothing serious, but at the beginning of last year it got more intense. We were very much in love with each other, but we weren't quite mature enough to handle dealing with problems. We held a lot in and I caught him downloading pornography onto his computer, something he promised he wouldn't do anymore, and I broke up with him over it. I was really hurt that he would look at it in general. I shared this with my mother and she was proud of me for getting away from a relationship where pornography was involved. This past few weeks I have been seeing him again, and I still feel very strongly for him. I want my mother to be involved in my life, so i told her about my feelings and wanting to get back together with him. She told me that she felt sorry for me and like I was selling myself short by staying with a man who looked and pornography. Then she told me that she was never going to accept him or love him

2007-11-20 06:52:00 · 38 answers · asked by Nana 3