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so i've been talking to this girl ( I guess, she really nice girl, amazingly intelligent... I mean like super way smarter then me but hey i like that .. anyways started out going back and forth on myspace .. btw i knew her from a friend of mine and i saw her there and talked for little , xchanged myspaces (lol), anyway it graduated to "textin" each other to the point now we are gym buddies. we probably talk to each other least a couples times a day through text and if lucky over the phone but its all friendly type conversation. her bday came and i sent her a gift certificat and and she responded to me in text how i shouldnt have have and that she's glad we are friends... yadda yadda. I just dont blieve it .. we hung out out a few times doing classes at the gym (mind you i dont take classes but now im begginingg to like them lol ) and one time at a party ... i just dont get it. IShould i Just move on.. or what..
2007-11-20 06:52:07 · 23 answers · asked by Rufwon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course i like her .. duh! everyday she's seems to grow on me
I'm just not a smooth talker and I just go with the flow. She's like loaded with friends though so maybe it's just her personality but I don't think she' shows that much interest with any of other friends as she does me.. Maybe .. I don't know really because I don't see her everyday .
i do fear rejection which is probably why I've had one relationship and that relationship lasted 4-5 yrs so I'm not just looking to *fK*..
I have good friends that I don't even talk to as much as I do her... so this is why I just didn't believe it and believe me I have showed signs that I like her .. Just that one statement she said to me in text through me the hell off cause i tjust ddidn't feelt like it .. anyways..
2007-11-20 07:34:12 · update #1
i'd recommend asking her out if she isn't taken...it sounds like she may like you.
2007-11-20 06:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Hall + Oates 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im kida in the same sitation i met this girl who apparently likes me but she only wants to be friends we went on one date a week ago she told me she had fun so i called her the next day she said she was busy she would call me back but she never did i called her back a couple of days after i didnt get an answer so the the past friday she called my friend and i happend to be with him at that time. and so he asked her if she wanted to talk to me of course she said yes so we talked for about five minites. and thats the last time we talked here its tuesday and i havent heard from her yet. but she tells me that shes a busy girl.so i would have to say try it out if it doesnt work then let her go.i have heard friendship is how a serious relationship starts.
2007-11-20 15:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by CADILLAC MAN 23 M C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems that you guys have a very great friendship. Keep the flow going who knows maybe you might end up going out. But yea it looks that she is happy to be your friend. Don't question it too much... cauz you guys have a good friendship. Well hope this helped. Good Luck!
2007-11-20 14:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by star4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres always the try a little more to show signs and if so yea go for it, but only if you are not afraid of rejection just incase. But you never know she maybe feeling you too. Good luck!!
2007-11-20 14:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by hershey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on. I don't think you should try and cross that friendship line. She said I'm glad we're friends, made it clear. I'm just saying I've said that plenty of times and meant it. But the moment I knew they were intrested I started to back away as a friend. Be her friend nothing more and move on.
2007-11-20 14:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by G2B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are reading way too much into it. So you guys text. You chat. You hang out. Whether she's flirting with you or not, that's all it is. If you want it to be more, ask her out on a date. It's that simple. :) And if she refuses, I agree with what has already been said -- girls CAN have guy friends that are ONLY FRIENDS. But it can't hurt to ask for a date now, can it? :)
2007-11-20 14:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Monica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude why cant you just continue being her friend? what the heck is so wrong with that ? if you feel more for her then eventually you can let her know. if she doesn't feel the same then you can always keep it friendly. but why do you want to kick her out of your life if you guys get along so well? you dont want to feel awkwad when you see her at the gym if you guys are not speaking...right?
2007-11-20 14:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get it? What is there to 'get'? She's not interested in you as anything else than a friend. If she were, you would probably know it by now. Time to move on.
2007-11-20 14:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's happy you are friends and there isn't going to be anything else going on..so you can be friends, but look for another girl for a girlfriend. or make a move!! One or the other.
2007-11-20 14:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, one thing you need to learn is that while the notion is inconceivable for a man, a female can have male friends without wanting to f*ck them.
2007-11-20 14:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mike AKA Mike 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if she dont give u anyother signs then yes move on but if she's always callin u and askin u to go places with her that may be a sign and u may have to ask her
2007-11-20 15:01:39 · answer #11 · answered by purple eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋