This guy and i have been friends since school started. we started to talk to each other, and then i began to like him more and more each day. He knew it, I could tell he liked me a little. And then now he wants space. I was sad when he said that, b/c i dont know what i did. why do u think he wants space now? he's not mad or anything, but do u think he'll ever contact me again??
2007-11-20 07:02:15 · 4 answers · asked by aminallover29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-20 10:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that answer isn't known yet, now is it? Let him go his path for now, give him his space. If he's interested, he'll be back, and in less than a month. If he's not, then chances are he just isn't all "that into you" as they say. Learn to accept this and realize this happens to all of us in this life, men and women alike...no one is immune dear...NO one.
Life is a real crapshoot...people come in and out of our lives and often, don't "stay" long but teach us something, or bring something out in us we hadn't noticed before. Just another life experience, if not lesson.
One day, they'll be someone who walks in...and stays...and the time will be right.
Sincerely,
Grace
2007-11-20 15:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go. If he really likes you then after his space is fullfilled, then he will come back to you. If he's just trying to blow you off in a nice way, then he won't come back and you should just let it be and walk away for good and find someone new.
2007-11-20 15:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll probably talk to you if you give him a little space for awhile
2007-11-20 15:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋