...nothing. Well at first I didn't give him a chance to say anything, I kissed him because I felt nervous having just said it. After the kiss, he just said, "I'm so happy, I'm so happy," and then said that I was his favourite person in the world, and the best person for him. He didn't say I love you back though, and we spent the whole rest of the evening and the next day together. From his reaction, can I assume he does love me back, or is he just happy that someone loves him, but doesn't really love me back?
2007-11-20 06:56:56 · 50 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He seemed really genuinely happy and kept hugging me a lot and gazing into my eyes with a big smile. At the time I didn't feel I needed to hear it back because I felt I knew, but now I am being all womanly and overanalysing maybe.
2007-11-20 07:14:43 · update #1
It sounds like he really does like you - maybe he even loves you. It is possible that he is just not ready to say it yet. Give him some time. I would't worry about it. Just enjoy your time together.
2007-11-20 07:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
People are strange creatures, aren't they? It is hard to really know what someone else is feeling and I wish I had the right answer for you. Obviously he feels something for you or he would not be spending so much time with you or display such an enthusiastic reaction. I could sit here and ponder all the possible meanings, but only one person has that answer....HIM. I would ask him. Ask casually...."hey, the other day when I say ILY you seemed really happy and I am glad that it makes you happy to hear ILY (I love you). I am not trying to put you in a tough position, but I was just curious about that exactly made you feel and what you thought?" Maybe he was just tongue tied...didn't know what to say. Asking him in a non-confrontational way after he has had time to think, might help.
2007-11-20 07:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Green Eyed Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never tell a man I love him first, but that's me. You got a great reaction from him after you said it though, so now I would be patient and let him say it when the time is right for him. I wouldn't be showering him with I love you's at this point though---you may get hurt if he can't say it back. If after a while you're still not hearing it, you may want to ask him about his feelings for you.
2007-11-20 07:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Marina 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Id Say He Does But Maybe He's Afraid To Say It If He's Been Hurt in the Past. Give it time and dont push the Three big words. he should eventually come out on his own and say it. Good luck girly and I hope It works Remeber TIME is the main key to true Love
2007-11-20 07:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume that he loves you and don't exactly assume that he doesn't love you back. Telling someone you love them should not be an automated response. He may have those feelings and not be ready to vocalize them yet or he may just be on his way to falling in love. His reaction seems like a pretty good one, so I would be happy if I were you.
2007-11-20 07:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Haley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's not ready to say "I love you" yet. But I would be encouraged by his response, "I'm so happy, I'm so happy." Did he sound sincere when he said it, though?
It's hard to say "I love you" the first time. As you learned, you are making yourself vulnerable.
Give him some time. He might come around.
But no sex, until you're at least in a loving, committed relationship. Remember, "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free!"
2007-11-20 07:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Rick K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the same thing happen to me this boy i have had a crush for 41/2 years we started to talk in august and some time in october he said he loved me i did not know what to say i just looked at him and smile and gave him a big hug but, never did i responded him with the same answer! but, yes i did fall for him too i do ove him! so wht i think is that maybe he does love you but, he want's to wait before he can tell you i did wait i wanted to be sure. :-) hope this helps...
2007-11-20 07:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by flamminghot805 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman should never say I love you first, because men take longer to interpret their feelings, and then you could either break up or things will get awkward, if he or even if the other person does not feel the same, saying something like that should take time to voice. it should show it self in actions first.
2007-11-20 07:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jesus is the best. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress on this to much. You said it you let him know how you felt, now just let things be. Don't pressure him into saying I love you back. He might but maybe he just has to sort out his feelings . The two men in my life that ever told me they loved me I waited almost 2 months on the first one and several weeks on the second one. It wasn't that I did not love them back it was just that I take saying I love you very seriously and not just to say it back. I wanted to be 100% sure it was love before I said it in return.
2007-11-20 07:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by ash 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He might not be ready to say it. The good thing is when he does say it, you'll know he means it. I didnt say I love you back to my now fiance when he first said it. It took a couple weeks because I wanted to be sure before I actually said it. Those are words with a lot of power and shouldnt be thrown around willy nilly.
2007-11-20 07:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's wondering, you have to realize love is something different. When you love someone it's like "OMG! They love me this is so awesome" You have to give him some time if he doesn't respond in like 2 days or after thanksgiving then ask him do you love me too. Most likely yes he's so happy and does love you. Have to remember he's a guy. jk
2007-11-20 07:01:21 · answer #11 · answered by Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋