I like a girl that i met at a community theatre play (Monique) i did but i will probably never see her again. But I am really tight with her best friend (Kaitlyn) which haappens to go to school with me. I really like Monique and i want to see her again because we became really good friends during the play but i only have her email and her best friend.
2007-11-20 06:18:33 · 30 answers · asked by Jimmy Efron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT DO I DO TO SEE HER AGAIN
2007-11-20 06:19:14 · update #1
mate, no offence, but your just 11, trust me, if you dont follow it up, then after a few weeks or a month or two you will have forgotten all about her, and moved on to someone else. Trust me, make the most of youth, especially at 11. no point dwelling on the past.
2007-11-20 06:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Rich A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell Kaitlyn that her friend Monigue was really cool and you guys should all hang out together sometime. She will definitely tell Monique that you were asking about her and if Monique is interested she will send a message through Kaitlyn. If she is not interested you don't look dumb because you just wanted to hang out and you never asked her on a date or anything.
2007-11-20 14:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by chris03711 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all; I'd just like to mention that being eleven years old doesn't mean you cannot have feelings for someone. Anyone who disputes that may have serious issues. Or, simply forgets what it's like being eleven. Personally, knowing what I know now - I would suggest this to you:
First, find some cash. Maybe even tell your folks that you want to hang out with this girl you met and like but doesn't go to your school. Email her and ask her if she wants to hit some go-karts or mini-golf, or both. I wouldn't suggest seeing a movie on the first date though. It's important that you do something active, where you can talk and laugh. If you guys really hit it off and she maintains eye contact and smiles at you a lot, then ask her out. Why not? Just slip it in like nothing and say "Hey, we should go out. What do you think?" Or something casual like that. I only wish I had this advice when I was eleven. I choked with girls. That was mostly due to lack of confidence.
Just keep confident and there's nothing you can't do. Not that you have anything to worry about there though. Like you said, you 'became really good friends during the play'. Email her now. Set something up. If you take my advice get back to me. I'd really like to know how it went for you. Good luck.
2007-11-20 14:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Pink Panther 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 11 years old, so calm down. You have lots of living to do.
E-mail her a nice little note about how you enjoyed meeting her and maybe....wished you went to school together......maybe say several of your friends are going to be at the park, or movie, or the mall, or something, next Saturday and would she like to come and hang out(or whatever the jargon is presently in use).
NO pressure,just a casual invite. If she responds, be calm and casual. If she says no, then say that's OK, maybe another time. Leave it open so you can e-mail her again. Don't email her every hour maybe once a week unless she encourages more often. Don't rush her (she'll turn off). Just be her friends, be honest, be truthful. She will respect that.
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2007-11-20 14:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lyn B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do emails and eventually that can lead to instant messaging.
That's how a lot of people communicate when they can't be together.
At 11 years old you are way to young to be serious anyway.
Just keep it at the friendship stage and you will be great.
2007-11-20 14:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you could always e-mail her and ask her if you could see her again, but you are really young you should enjoy being a kid and wait till your older to fall in love. You will have plenty of time for that but your only a kid once so enjoy it!!
2007-11-20 14:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all other answrs stupid! except e-mail good answer but i think you should ask katiyn if you monique katlin and a couple of other people wanna go to the movies and sit next to her or share pop-corn or something like that..........when ur hands meet in the pop-corn lol i dunno put a ring in her coke just do something and dont be frightened !!! or you will never see her again !!!!! get talking on msn do something
2007-11-20 14:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by enzo10258 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 11, relax take a breath, and realize that love is something you don't really need to worry about. This is going to sound condescending and I don't mean for it to, but it can't be helped. You're a kid, you don't need to be concerned about crap like that until you hit 14-15.
2007-11-20 14:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mic K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't there an age restriction on Yahoo and Yahoo Answers?
Anyway try e-mailing her or tell her friend how you feel and see if she can get you two in touch with each other.
2007-11-20 14:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Deny_Zoo29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jimmy
How glad I am that I will never be 11 again.....the agonies...lol
Just e-mail her just to say hello and how are you......then wait for the reply. Good luck..xxx
2007-11-20 14:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋