I am 20 yrs old and the guy i like is 20 as well. He is not a virgin and I am. I know that he is probably going to eventually want to have sex, but I am just so upset and would absolutely dirty. The only reason I would do it is to make him happy. I care about him so much, but i know that sexual intimacy is part of relationships. It's not as if I tricked him, bc I told him that I was a virgin to begin with and he had no problems, but it just seems that he is trying to go further and further. I don't mean to sound like a cry baby, but I am so upset. I really am not ready to give my innocence up yet. I just don't know what to do. I care for him alot and I know that it is normal for a 20 yr. old man to have sexual urges. I don't know what to do. I also know that if I do it once, he is going to continue to want to do it more and more. I would just hate myself, bc I am not ready for this sort of thing. Please help me!
2007-11-20 05:11:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
During the course of your live time you will not be ready for a lot of things when your husband or bf is. It doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. It means you have a time table for your life and he has his. If he doesnt understand this he is not the one. Giving your virginity to your husband is a special gift given first to you and then to the man who will commit to a life to gether. Grampa B
2007-11-20 05:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready don't do it if he cares about you he will understand
2007-11-20 13:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Hirako 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋