anyone second that?
any experiences to share that might relate to my situation?
2007-11-20 08:25:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should let it go. He's your ex, leave it on good term. Why do you have to mess with his relationship?
2007-11-20 08:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've done that. It's basically a power trip. You just wanna see how much power you still have over your ex, even though you may not necessarily want him back. You just want to know that you COULD have him back if you wanted to. I understand. But in the end your gonna end up feeling like dirt and your friends will think your dirt for playing with someones emotions on purpose. I would say stop now, but I know how it is when you wanna do what you wanna do. You'll just have to find out for yourself. There is a bit of a high when you realize you can control some body's life like that. Be careful.
P.s. Ignore all these snooty goody goody two shoes! All acting like they've never done anything mean to another person,cause they've wanted what they wanted. They're all so high and mighty! Jeeze!! people she asked if you could relate to her situation, not to give her a lesson in morals! You all need to get over yourself. I would love to get a peek into your past, since you all seem to claim to be so perfect!!
2007-11-20 08:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by darrigirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experiences of being the girl in a relationship with a guy whose ex manipulates him and tries to sabotage our relationship. It's horrible it hurts a lot. You think you've found someone great and then there's this girl in the background, who doesn't care about you or your feelings, all she cares about is her ex and how she doesn't want to be replaced in his affections. You can't belive this is happening, because you just wanted to have a lovely honeymoon period, get to know your new boyfriend without stress etc, but you can't, because from the word go there's this selfish manipulative person trying to screw it up for you even though you've done nothing to them. You want it to be just you and your boyfriend, but it's like having a relationship with two people instead of one. You think about jacking it all in, even though it could be something beautiful, because she goes out of her way to make you paranoid and upset. That girl is a *****. Don't be that girl.
2007-11-20 08:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Clarence S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex? Husband, fiance, boyfriend, guy I dated for a few months or the pick up at the bar last week?
Why would you manipulate anyone?
Why would you sabotage anyone's relationship?
Maybe a fuller story and explanation is needed here but I would say stop what you are doing and get on with your life.
2007-11-20 08:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are looking for confirmation that what yer doing is OK, when you know it isn't.
You have issues, and you need to grow up.
Truth is, the ultimate way to get back at someone is show that you don't need them and are better off with out them...sabotaging and basically behaving like a jerk only proves that you are a child, and he was right to leave....cuz I'd wager that your behavior drove him batty to begin with w/ your childish and insecure ways.
Grow up, or maybe you'll have to learn the hard way, that being miserable is a very lonely way to be.
2007-11-20 08:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tira A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. I don't have any experiences to share but you are most likely going to be labeled the psycho ex-girlfriend.
You need to get the green eyed jealousy monster off your back and have fun with the people that don't cause anguish on your heart.
You don't want to die a lonely old woman with NO CATS because the cats will even know you're too crazy to live with.
2007-11-20 08:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Marketing 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your a nut. And whats worse out of all the answers you have given on yahoo answers 16% of them have been choosen as best answers. No wonder the world is in such a mess.
We call them exes for a reason MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
2007-11-20 08:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, yea you are usually the girl who gets the crap kicked out of her once the new girlfriend finds out what you are up to.
I've seen this happen many times. Your type is usually pathetic and is conquered easily by the strong once they find out your true intentions.
You also become famous when it happens, the talk of the town. You might wanna rethink what you are doing ;).
2007-11-20 08:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by bo75007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that isn't very nice of you, but if your ex is so thick that he doesn't realise what you are doing then maybe he deserves it. Mind you, you are his ex now, so I guess he was clever enough to get away from you. Maybe when you grow up you'll be a nicer person
2007-11-20 08:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Ellesar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are succeeding, then I feel bad for the new girl.. If you are THAT bored with your own life, that you have to live off of others that no longer want you, then he didnt choose wisely when he chose you, either.
GROW THE F UP.
watch out. karma is coming for you.
2007-11-20 08:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to get back at your ex, a better way to do it would be to find a new man who treats you better. That way you're the one that got away instead of the psycho-b**** ex-gf.
2007-11-20 08:29:58 · answer #11 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋