How Should I Handle This Situation?

Question

right im 14 and im going out with a 16 year old guy ( i dont want your opinion on the age difference though thanks! =] ) and we have been going out for around 2 weeks now. hes REALLY nice to me when im with him, like always hugging me and playfighting with me etc... just genrally being everything us girls want in a guy :o) butt... everytime i have met him its always me who rings him and arranges it... so i decided that i might look a bit clingy so i played hard to get for a bit.. and basically didnt ring him.. but he didnt ring me either.. and still hasnt after 3 days.. which is a long time for us considering we see each other around 5 days a week. but apparently he called on my door today but i was at dancing so i missed him.. so i know that he hasnt gone off me

the question is how should i be with him? cause i am pretty angry he didnt ring me or text me and i want him to know he cant do that and that im not a pushover.. but i dont wanna fall out w/ him bigstyle.

thanks! x

by the way... i have talked to him about the whole sex thing.. and i told him im not going any further than kissing.. and he respected my desicion :o)

so you dont need to worry guys :o)
xx

Answer 1

Some guys just don't understand that it's important for them to contact their girlfriend, either via email or text or a phone call. They just don't think it's important since they see you already, why would they need to call you later.

You should talk to him. Tell him you'd like for him to call you and set up plans once in a while. Or, when you're leaving school and say goodbye, ask him to call you tonight. Or stop by. Or whatever, just so you hear from him outside of school. Communication will solve 99% of relationship problems, so be open and honest with him.