I have an absolute crush on this girl who lives in my house (with a couple others), I liked her since April last year and about 3 weeks ago I told her about it, and was rejected. I thought I got over her and went on a date with someone else and about a week ago she got toegther with someone else in my house, this happened after my date with the girl. I realise the person I really fancy is not my date, but it is still her and it absolutely breaks my heart that she ended up with a not really nice guy (personality and behaviour wise). Unfortunately, I have not moved on and I think of her and care for her even more now. I tried ignoring her as most have advised me to, but two days into it, she just become niceer towards me, she absolutely knows that I care for her a lot and she knows how much I have done for her. But it is not fair for me if I have to hang in there when she is in love with someone else. I am still not over her and I hugged her saying that I am happy for her! Right or Wrong
2007-11-20 21:25:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks so far for the message, I don't think she realise I am not over her yet. Everytime she tries to be nice to me, but I just can't accept it, I really don't wanna ignore her and stop being friends, but its just too hard to sit there and watch her and that guy snuggling up and kissing. I don't wanna be an as*hole and ignore her, but this is the only effective way so far! What do you think?
2007-11-21 07:59:11 · update #1
You did the right thing for now.
But hang on, don't let go of your friendship. It will surely earn you at least a life-long best buddy. And may be more, who knows :)
2007-11-20 23:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by ihrobin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong by telling her you were happy for her , you told her what a friend would tell her , and at this moment that is what you are to her a friend ... if you live in the same house as them you might consider finding a new place to live , that way you wont have to see them together on a day to day basis ... just a thought.
2007-11-20 22:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should continue to be there for her, it sounds like she still needs your friendship, but don't expect that she will be with you one day. The most important thing you should do nw is to stop dating others for the time being so you can get over her first. =)
2007-11-20 21:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by I dunno wad to do.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did a very nice, polite jesture. Please don't put your life on hold waiting for her though, she seems to have made it clear that she is not interested in you that way. Give her credit for being honest. Being there for her to support in anyway you can, may bring you closer together as friends. Best of luck!!
2007-11-20 21:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Racer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't think there's anything wrong with that. but you do have to start moving on knowing that she's already in love with someone else.
2007-11-20 21:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by peejee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
notthing wrong. you told her how you feel..
girls or ladies!!! is it right to say that you all will feel good if you found a guy (dont bother who it is) having feeling for you??
2007-11-20 21:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was the polite thing to do.
2007-11-20 21:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋