Im a call center agent and my boyfriend is still a student and is 2 years younger than me.And were apart right now because Im working and was assigned in another location. Its my BF b-day tomorrow and Im a very busy person and instead of buying him a gift I send him money for him to buy something that he like. Am i too rude, lazy or unethical sending money to my BF as a gift rather than buying a gift that maybe he wont or would like. What do u think?!
2007-11-20 21:09:04 · 9 answers · asked by girl ur looking for! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you do what is right for you, because it'll be right for him too. Your money could buy him a slap-up meal and maybe clothes so it's benefiting him. He won't call you rude or lazy!
2007-11-20 21:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, I wish everyone would send me the money. Instead of buying things I must return for better fit. Or useless stuff I don't need or want or can't use. If they sent the money instead, I could buy what I want or need then. I think it was pretty smart of you.
2007-11-21 05:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may enjoy it more, but i would have sent his a gift certificate to Best Buy or something. as long as you sent a caring card, it probably won't matter to him. Guys usually aren't so sensitive about things like that as we are. Just don't be surprised if he ends up doing that for you one day.
2007-11-21 05:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would buy a person a gift.. It shows you took time and made an effort..
2007-11-21 05:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself: would you be upset if he just gave you money. at least get him a gift card from his favorite store if you have no idea...that way he'll know you put a little bit of thought in the gift.
2007-11-21 05:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by miss macy zane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think giving someone money for their b-day is super lame, but that just might be me. Maybe I am wrong and it's OK, and the Earth is flat, and the sky is green.
2007-11-21 06:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you I'm sure he will understand but as people havew said before its maybe best to buy him a present.
2007-11-21 05:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not and besides you can buy him that special something for when you do see him
2007-11-21 05:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it......................you can help him but prioritize first your family..........parents..........brothers and sisters..specially does who are still studying,,,,,,,,,
2007-11-21 05:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋