My BF is funny, cute, smart and a great dresser. BUT he is friends with all of his exes (including one that he was the "other" guy with), does not like to share his thoughts and feelings, can be selfish, immature and somewhat verbally abusive. I am somewhat sensitive, but some of the things he has said (all disguised as jokes) have really hurt. I tell him this and he responds that I am too sensitive. He says I love you, cuddles with me all the time, but just does not know how to express himself. I get frustrated and sad. He has said "It's not fun to talk about your feelings" Am I wrong to need that ? It seems like an awful thing to say. He also has said that when I want to have sex often, it makes him not want it. He does not want to go away with me for the weekend, does not seem to like my friends, and can be detached. I fear I am too needy, but we cannot communicate and he does not want to compromise. I need some solid advce because he is not a bad guy but I don't feel good.
2007-11-23
06:37:55
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