My bf calls his mom everytime we have an issue. Im beginning to think that I should beat him to the punch and call her first. I feel like biting somebody... this is soooo frustrating!
GRRRRRRRRRR
I think when we have arguements, we should put her on speakerphone.
2007-11-23 06:06:37 · 15 answers · asked by reD4luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is ridiculous. Even if you call your friend, Mom, Dad or brother, it is not their problem to deal with. It is between the two of you. Maybe going to couseling could help the two of you. Arguing does happen between two people, but calling anybody does not help. I agree with the one answer you got: this is a big red flag.
2007-11-23 06:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by bgdizzyjlynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that's the model of a momma's boy.
Or when his mom knows everything that's going on in his life she gives him advice and he tells everyone..."well my mom said ...", whenever he needs anything he calls mom and within 24 hours he has it...it's never gonna change.
My brother is a momma's boy....my mom does everything for him...things she won't even do for me.
Example:
I was running errands for my mom one day while she was at work. I received a call from a possible employer requesting for me to fax my resume asap so I called my mom asking her to fax my resume. She had 20 minutes left before it was her time to go home...She told me that she didn't have time and she didn't want to turn her computer back on. I told my brother and the very next day he did the same thing but he didn't even have a resume to fax...no she did not stay 30 extra minutes to create him a resume, type a cover letter for him and fax it. Top it off he already has a job and did it to prove a point...that she loves him more than me.
2007-11-23 14:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by shhhh_j 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have defined both the momma's boy and the recipe for disaster in a relationship.
I do not know your age, nor you boyfriends, but if you are in your twenties and older, and he is still acting like this, you are dating a boy, and not a man.
If you end up in a long term relationship with him, or married to him, you will not be able to make decisions as a separate, adult couple.
There have been many examples of these types of couples on the Dr. Phil Show and in written articles dealing with the topic of "Can This Marriage Be Saved."
You will not be able to deal with his mothers interference when you are discussing vacations, finances, your sex life, how many children you will or will not be having, who your friends are, how you cook your meals as compared to hers and on and on.
This is a huge warning sign. If you can live in a subservient manner to his mother, and deal with him as a child; continue on with this relationship.
If you want to be in a mature adult relationship, you need to either encourage your boyfriend to grow up and leave his mother out of your discussions and disagreements or you need to drop him like a hot potato and move on to an adult relationship with another man who is capable of making decisions on his own.
2007-11-23 17:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to not call her every time like this, he will get her to not like you, cause all she's hearring is the negatives about you. He needs to deal with you and maybe everyonece in awhile talk to her for advice. That's his mom, so I wouldn't go to her if I were you. She is his mom and will be defensive of him. Mommas boy = relys on mom, takes or accepts money all the time, can't do chores for self cause momma did them all,
2007-11-23 14:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A momma's boy is someone like who you described: calls his mommy for every little squabble. He needs to remember that Mommy isn't going to be there when he gets married.
A momma's boy can also still live at home. At home, is mother cooks meals for him, massages him, treats him like a king, basically. Typically, these guys are too immature for relationships.
2007-11-23 14:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Momma's boy is someone who is past 30 yrs old and still live with his mother Not because he's taking care of her but because he's too comfortable there.
2007-11-23 14:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Star T 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Watch "Baby Boy" starring Tyrese Gibson.
2007-11-23 14:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your bf is the definition of a momma's boy....
2007-11-23 14:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lol for a guy that is pathetic, If he is old enough to date then he must be old enough to take care of little argument, I don't suggest you move on but maybe talk to him about it?
2007-11-23 14:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by YooH8M3? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should interpret this as a red flag. he ahs to go cry to his momma every fight insteadt of working it out like a man? pitiful
2007-11-23 14:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by Rina 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋