There's this girl I have a crush on, who has a BF in a diff city, but flirted with me heavily in the beginning- had an innocent mischevious way of talking & she even asked me to have drinks/dinner with her (in return for my help with career advice). But then she turned cold, I contacted her and asked her to dinner, but she didn't even reply to my email. I confronted her a week later, and basically told her that I was at least expecting a reply, ignored her for 2 weeks. Then, she asked me to dinner, and I refused thinking she's just playing games. Since then, she has been visibly jealous when she sees me dancing with other girls at parties, but this one time, she asked me to dance with her, we got very sensual on the dance flr and she said "I want to get to know you". But at dinner the next day, she starts talking about her BF and acted aloof. I got sick of it & didn't contact her, but she called me again after months and again, mixed signals. Why is a girl with BF sending mixed signs?
2007-11-23 21:26:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a massive crush on this girl. I wish I could just hookup with her if nothing else :-) She turns me on so much, it's like I get excited every time I see her. I'm jealous that her BF gets to do things to her!
2007-11-23 21:26:51 · update #1
Leave that girl alone. Don't get involved with a girl who has a boyfriend already. You will be the only one hurt.
You know that more feelings will be involved if it goes too far. Then she'll play dumb again. Who can honestly put up with those games. Find you someone that is actually single and who will not be playing games with you.
Avoid that confused girl and move forward.
The only reason why you are so infatuated with her is because you know she has a boyfriend and it is forbidden.
She flirts with you and your respond to it. -So, do not respond to it and ignore her completely. The next time she tries to chat with you. Tell her straight out that she needs to move on with her boyfriend and stop playing games.
She keeps playing games with you because she has an opponent to play with. -Do yourself a favor and save yourself the grief, and take yourself out of the equation.
You deserve way better than her. -Good luck.
2007-11-23 21:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a good bet as someone to date. You have a crush on her because you don't know her. If you were her bf, you'd be sick that she was flirting with other guys while dating you. If you can just have sex with her, then you could try it, but you won't like her or yourself afterward. You're better off staying away from her, as she will be playing games like this for years to come. It's better to find someone with whom you can have a healthy relationship.
2007-11-23 21:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I reckon that its because you can't have her that is exciting you. If she made herself available to you then you would find her boring and hard to trust. forget her and keep an eye out for someone else who isn't in a relationship.
2007-11-23 21:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋