when i meet him he told me he wasn't married we went out a couple of times though me snooping around i found a business card with that said pastor his name and a women name with the same last name. when i confronted him about be married he still deined being married until i told him i called his wife then he confessed. I broke it off with him but he still calls and want to take me places what is wrong with him
2007-11-25 20:50:55 · 20 answers · asked by cookie_aprilgirls 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He really does not have God in his life. He is a deceiver on many different levels. In the Bible, it talks about the deceivers that have gone out into the world to deter Christians and believers in God.
2 John 1:7 (NIV) Bible
Many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist.
Please do not let this deter you away from the Lord.
The devil will use many people to keep you away from the Lord's Word. -God Bless.
2007-11-25 20:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he is not a real Godly man. He has some obsession with being an adulterer and has no business being called a Pastor. If I were you, I would stay away from him and let his Church know what kind of man he really is. I don't think a man like that should be allowed to lead people and preach God's word. That I believe is what they call a hypocrite.
2007-11-26 04:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by southern comfort 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, get away from the creep. A person who'll cheat on the woman he SWORE to cherish forever is NOT worth it.
Secondly, just because he's a Pastor, it does not absolve him from being human. People get a weird idea in their head that religious people are above sin, but this is certainly not the case. We are all fallible and it is just dishearteningly regrettable that a person who should be an example of virtue would behave so dishonestly.
Just tell him to back off and move on with your life.
Best of luck.
2007-11-26 04:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Curious J, Esq. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is pastor and married....that is a bad combination.4 some reason married men pursue much more than a single man.he is married and he knows it,he is wrong 4 still calling u,he probably still wants 2 have sex with u,it sounds like he doesnt even care about his vows or his own preachings,this is completely wrong of him.if u want him 2 leave u alone threatnen 2 tell his church.mrried men r horrible ,they lie ,lead u on,just 4 sex and its easy to fall in love with them cause they treat u good and they make u feel important unlike men who r not married.they show apreciation to u more cause they r probably not getting the attention from the wife like b4,so they find it elsewhere,then when they find someone, they string u along 4 their own sexual pleasure.if u r really sure about you ending the relationship tell the wife and the damn church 2.i was with a married man and all he ever did after i left eas calll me saying he wanted me and that he loved me,he even wanted me to have kids 4 him,i was with him 4 2 years and he never left his wife.so i finally let him.he most likely will not leave his wife especially since he is a pastor,he wants more sex thats whats wrong with him,no this one is really screwed hes a pastor he needs to find the lord
2007-11-26 05:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with a pastor been married? in fact all the pastors ive known in my life (going to a Christian school although im not Christian it was simple because of the better education and cheaper than other boarding schools) Point been all the pastors that i knew there 2 with the school and a close friends father was one at the local church all of them where happily married.
any why are you invading his private life?
2007-11-26 04:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Wonx2150 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did great in breaking it off with him. I would tell him next time he calls that if he calls again you are going to his church or the board of the church and tell on him. This is against all the rules and people like him are what gives ministry's and christian a bad name. So I am proud of you . God Bless You, Phyllis
2007-11-26 04:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by ladyangelgreenlady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He uses religion like a crutch to prop himself up! The Church is full of those types of people! Paedophilia, sexual relations with members of the congregation! Where there are females or children, the deviates will be there in their church regalia! It's a haven for them!
2007-11-26 04:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think e is a bad pastor as well as a bad man and you should tell him that he is going to hell for disobeying the rules of God and trying to cheat on his wife.
2007-11-26 04:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by mac_byaah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering his calls. What is wrong with you? To specifically answer the question, men like sex. I still don't understand what women don't get about this. It doesn't matter is they're a preacher, teacher, president, cop, construction worker, or anything. Guys like sex and get bored of only having one partner.
2007-11-26 04:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Codynova 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"what is wrong with him"
He is a liar, a cheat, and a hypocrite. If you don't run a mile immediately, you'll end up having more such words to add to the list.
2007-11-26 04:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by kinning_park 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋