my boyfriend of 10 mths is getting a female house mate,should l be worried. we dont live together but l feel that its a bit strange that another woman will be living with him and l dont, am l over reacting? how would you feel? what should l say to him?
2007-11-25 20:32:29 · 5 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to make it worst shes coming over from russia with a work visa. which makes me think that shes looking for a house and a man. where as l`m a single mum with two boys.
2007-11-25 20:48:04 · update #1
Personally I wouldn't worry, because if you start to worry you are putting yourself in a no win situation. Your boyfriend will lose respect for you (mind you, I'm not sure if he had any originally he would be putting you in this situation) You have two choices here, you either put up, and ignore it, and try to get on with his housemate, or you dump him. If you start to get all jealous about it you will end up losing him anyway, because it doesn't sound to me like he is really that concerned about your feelings.
2007-11-25 20:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definately over reacting!! Im a female and I live with a male, the good thing being different sexes is that we respect each other more. You get to see each other looking their worst, and see all their faults. The most annoying thing is when a partners of my housemate gets jealous, its silly. Why would anyone want to sleep with their housemate? it would make an awful situation. Really dont worry, you'd probably feel worse if he moved in with another male who was constantly bring random girls home all the time!!
2007-11-26 04:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by KJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not overreacting. Yes, I would be worried. Familiarity breeds contempt only sometimes. It also breeds, period. I guess there isn't much you can say. It is his ife and his decison. I feel bad for you.
2007-11-26 04:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by dallas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are NOT overreacting. talk to him about it. but try to get him to avoid it at all costs. chances are that something will happen. its a guy thing. yes. be worried.
2007-11-26 04:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by allanchanziwei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would tell him to evacuate that house.,
2007-11-26 04:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by reza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋