2007-11-25 21:19:32 · 16 answers · asked by missmichelleb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can understand how your boyfriend feels. You must be an especially awesome woman to him, which makes him feel inadequate for you. When you care about someone greatly, you only want what's best for that person, even if it means the ultimate cost. I think that's how your boyfriend is feeling right now.
You should just make sure he knows just how you feel about him. He's obviously not secure right now and the only one who can patch him up is his woman! Make him understand that his feelings of inadequacy are unwarranted because you think he's just as special to you as you are to him. Make him feel like he's just as amazing to you as you to him! Only you can raise his spirits again!
Good luck and best wishes.
2007-11-25 21:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Curious J, Esq. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
mmm....we are in the same boat with my ex and my current bf. Am gettin sick being told the same...althou my ex still wants me back til now but he used to say that i deserve someone better. Now my present bf has said that too....well..just like you i keep saying that all is right for me & am not asking anything to change. am beginning to think that iam too good for them or am falling into wrong guys. (i believe in neither of the two- hey! i love my man for who he is & why cant he see that?)
2007-11-26 05:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either playing a game on you so keep your eyes wide open, think about this how long have you and this guy being involved and what suddenly has changed his mind about you as a perfect couple and how long has he been saying this to you. and do this again find in you if you're not getting too comlex for him coz some guys get nervous when such changes occur on girls.
2007-11-26 05:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by sweetberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's either you guy has a very low self-esteem and is insecure about your status [social status or whatever], or he's making up an excuse to break up with you.
Sorry for that.
2007-11-26 05:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by ••Tara•• 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay when a guy says it's not you it's me. That means it's you!
When a guy says you deserve someone much better then him, it means that he is interested in someone else who is much looser then you are!!
2007-11-26 05:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is unsure of himself or he is planning to leave you.. but we don't know for sure so ask him direct what he meant by that.
The thing is - those are just cop-out lines. Maybe you can try to ask him what is trying to tell you under those lines.
2007-11-26 05:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey well girl.. all here i wud lik 2 say is..
its nt abt takin da guy as sum1 who's perfect fr u or stuffs lik dat..bt the point is dat do u really love him..or do u really need him in your life..if yes..thn surely u wud neva wan him to live you n go..all ya nid to do is..talk to him..n mak him see things..mak him feel spzll..n if dis doesn't wrk out jus giv him a tight warm hug n whisper him these wrds.."i really need u in ma life.."n see hw it maks him melt..
all da best..
god bless..
2007-11-26 05:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by punkprinczz... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any1 who tells u that he is doing it because he wants to leave u has a sinical view on this i say this all the time and its because i belive its truue i guess its insecurity
2007-11-26 05:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by mullac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either cheating on you
plans to leave you
is doing something that'll fuk u over.
either way warning bells should be soundin in ur head
2007-11-26 05:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know his bad side,bad things he's done to hurt you behind your back, now he feels guilty. he wants to end the relationship on a good note.
2007-11-26 05:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by thehottestbradpitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋