Singles & Dating - 25 November 2007

ok i been with this guy for 3 years, and we were gonna get married but things changed and he had to move away. i haven't seen him in 7 months but we kinda still talk on the phone but we are not together anymore. He tells me he loves me still once in a while then doesn't call for days. I can't move on because i feel his going to come back to me. I love him so much, i tried dating but i failed and let the guys down. I can't handle myself in any other relationships. I feel that if i don't marry him then i can't never be a good girlfriend to anyone and just hurt the guys....and i know time heals everything but its not working for me, i have too much memories around me nad i can't bloank them.......what should i do?

2007-11-25 16:22:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so i ran off with another woman & my ex-girlfriend just cant seem to get over it! weve been split up over a month now & she's like really weirding my girl & i out something fierce! we went to the movies the other day & the ex tried to call, but i never answered right! so get this, she starts texting my current girlfriend (niether of us know how she got her cell #!) saying that she knows were in the movie theater & that she knows what movie were watching & what time its ending! so we leave early! only to text again to tell us what were wearing! that was a week ago. yesterday i took her out for breakfast at like 6:00 a.m. just to see if we were gonna be followed right? we had just gotten our food when our waitress walks up to our table & tells me (by name) that i have a phone call at the front of the restaurant! i dont even know this woman! so i answer the phone & my ex asks how my omellette is & hangs up! what do i do? i think i have a fatal attraction here! help!

2007-11-25 16:19:09 · 31 answers · asked by snooteriffic 1

what do you do when he finds another girl to 'get the job done' and you still are in love with him afterwards?

2007-11-25 16:16:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 16:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know him through a class we took together. We don't talk to each other that much. we help each other with homework and such. He asked for my number one day and called me that night and leave a voicemail saying that he though he should call since i gave him my number. next day, he called again and asked how was my day. Then, he called again the next day. But now, he stopped calling. ??? huh???? idk, i'm confused. I will never understand guys.

2007-11-25 16:05:13 · 10 answers · asked by nn 2

We have been on and off for about one year now and I love him, but I am not sure if he feels the same way because he does not really show it. What should I do?

2007-11-25 15:55:08 · 43 answers · asked by Princess 1

ok, so i just got a text from my bf, "what's goin' on in idaho?" because i'm visiting family in idaho right now. i've also been sleepin' with this guy i met there!!! what the heck do i say?

2007-11-25 15:52:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok me and my girlfriend have been gonig out for over a year, and she still keeps thinking guys are cute and hot, and thinks its ok, but i thought one girl was cute and she got all mad at me, I dont know what to do, i want to be with her but i dont want the part of her that thinks that stuff about other guys, What should i do?

2007-11-25 15:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by Joe J 1

2007-11-25 15:48:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i guess i might be "prude" cause i get too nervous to kiss a girl, and it's bothering me. i see all these predicaments, like where a girl wants to kiss a guy and i picture my self there and if a girl asked to make out with me or soemthing, i'd feel really nervous or something and it bothers me, i'v eonly had 4 girlfriends, and the last one i had i kissed and all, but i always asked her, and i always got nervous and didn't know what to do, it's so annoying i need help?

2007-11-25 15:39:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 19 yrs old, and i got a lot of money, but i wanna find a girl that i know is not cheap with her money.... so whenever i wanna ask a girl out i say "hey i'd take u out, but i dont have money. im saving up for blah blah blah" do u ladies think this is a good idea to sort of weed out the golddiggers?

2007-11-25 15:37:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

im confused because about a year and half ago when my boyfriend and i broke up from a 5 year relationship. almost every night i kept having dreams of him cheating on me and i'd feel very upset and aggravated. 2 months later from then; he broke up with me. he told me that he wanted space and his feelings for me had changed. three months after we broke up i found out that he has a girlfriend. i still think about him which i think is normal because he was a big part of my life....i've moved on and dated other guys. but, lately for the past 2 months i've had dreams of him desperately wanting to get back with me and he is unhappy with his current relationship.... i dont know what to believe...

by the way he called me about a month ago. he was just trying to see what i was up to. his first question to me was" how come you never call me?" then he went on asking how everybody in my family was doing.

pease give me serious thoughts......no clowning!!!!!!!!

2007-11-25 15:35:49 · 12 answers · asked by sexxxxyyyy 2

especially weight. because i see a lot more skinny girls with bigger guys then i see skinny guys with bigger girls.

2007-11-25 15:30:16 · 4 answers · asked by chrismiller1331 1

when you don't seem intersted in talking to him and invites you to lunch, do you think he interested in you or is just trying to be friendly?

2007-11-25 15:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by person 1

why do you think it is that i haven't felt attractive lately but i still want a boyfriend or someone to love ,i have been rejected recently and its affected my self esteem ,i look like crap lately but i still wish i had someone is that wrong of me ?do i have to start looking better in order to find someone to love me?please don't call me an idiot for asking

2007-11-25 15:26:20 · 24 answers · asked by ocean currants 2

ich leibe kaleb.... but i dont know why... he seems so sweet and cute but he doesnt llike me how or why do i like him

2007-11-25 15:26:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm smart; I'm fun; I'm outgoing. I love the arts, film, good music, laughing...
But I'm plain and guys find me repulsive. I'm in college and one day soon, heading to law school. I think I might intimidate guys, but I don't mean to!!
I just don't think intelligent, ambitious guys with a passion for cinema exist...I don't care about looks that much, but I'm young and obviously need someone within my demographic.
Maybe I'm just shy, but guys eagerly pass me over even though I smile, laugh and make direct, freakin eye-contact!!! =) Maybe I just scare them away...
http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd287/anagavalda109/MyPicture.jpg
http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/dd287/anagavalda109/MyPicture-2.jpg

2007-11-25 15:25:50 · 7 answers · asked by Carolina P 2

i've know this guy for a year and he is on the shy side. i'm certain he will say yes So im planning on asking him out. i know that guys say they wouldn't mind but what would it make me look like to him? does it matter who does the asking?

2007-11-25 15:24:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If u ladies liked a guy, and he said "i'd eat with u but i dont have $" would u take him out to eat? I wanna take this girl out to dinner but i dont got money so i gonna say that... do u think she'd offer to pay

2007-11-25 15:21:48 · 22 answers · asked by puaporn3 1

If you saw my other question im having a 13th bday party and inviting a crush but the twist is i havent told him i like him yet and..... ive been absent from school for like forever so i cant tell him what do i do?!?!?!?!

2007-11-25 15:21:01 · 4 answers · asked by cheergurl5678 2

We hit it off really well. It was like we were perfect for each other.He was what I was looking for in a guy. He is afraid of getting hurt. He's been divorced for 5 years. He is afraid of commitment. He has no kids & was married for only 2 yrs. We are 10 years apart in age. He came on real strong which I didn't mind though I was a little reserved/nervous. We were together from 8/07 to 10/07. We both have a lot of loose ends to tie in our personal lives. He wanted me to be divorced & turn 30. He wanted me to have alone time-from men. I ended it b/c he didnt always call me. He sent me text messages. We spent weekends together. One week in Oct. He let a whole week go by before calling me-he just sent text messages. He is currently changing careers-stressful. I found myself always staring @ the phone. He wanted to wait til Dec. to move forward. His actions were inconsistent which drove me crazy. I was insecure & ended it.He said I feel sick when it ended. He hasnt called-miss him

2007-11-25 15:20:09 · 10 answers · asked by worrisome96 1

ok so my boyfriend and i broke up a few months ago and since then i've met this other guy and we've been casually hooking up. but just for fun, we arn't boyfriend and girlfriend. today my boyfriend asked me to get back together and i said yes but i'm now having second thoughts because even though i miss my boyfriend i'm starting to have feelings for this other guy. i don't know what to do. any suggestions?

2007-11-25 15:18:52 · 1 answers · asked by girl in boots =) 1

I've been using many online dating services within the last few years. I wondered if maybe I am doing something wrong. It seems my profile doesn't get many hits. I have posted pics and written about myself in the sections where it says to do so. Is there something that I should know? How can I get noticed more? Does anyone have any tips on writing a profile essay that really gets you noticed? What has worked for you? Any advice here would be truly appreciated.

2007-11-25 15:17:44 · 5 answers · asked by SoAZ Gal 6

2007-11-25 15:14:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a girl in one of my classes that I like. She seems kind of shy, the only person that she initiates a conversation with is her best friend, who is in the class. Whenever I talk with her she has a huge smile on her face and seems very interested. Recently her friend has been glancing at me. I have no clue what this means. I am shy too, so its hard to know if she is interested in me or not. What are the chances that she likes me?

2007-11-25 15:10:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not a big hugger with anyone other than my girlfriend, and close family. In one of the groups of friends I hang out with, some of the girls will come up a lot and hug. I just don't like that, especially because some of them seem to do it because they like me, and I am not interested a bit in them. In any case, would it be okay if I told them I just am not into the whole "hug everytime you see someone" thing.

2007-11-25 15:09:49 · 16 answers · asked by lend322 4

I have only ever been able to orgasam when a man goes down on me, never by regular intercourse, I know ithas to be somethig wrong with me, it's not the men that I have been with, well at least not all of them. I can't help but feel that I am missing out on something...any ideas?

2007-11-25 15:07:15 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany W 1

Im 17 and i have dated a few guys in my life... the ones that ive dated i liked alot and always got those butterfly feelings and that love struck stuff... but the boyfriend i have now.. i have like for a long time and never thought i would have a chance with him and whenever i saw him i got those feelings but we never really talked... now that we are dating i dotn get those feelings... i really do like him i mean i LOVE HIM! its almost been 2 months now... but y dont i get those feelings inside like i did with the other guys???????

2007-11-25 15:04:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

fear and worries if the time comes that we will meet in person.. im scared and so is he... he is in US and im here in the phils..

we want to get married also.. he will file for fiance visa..

2007-11-25 15:01:51 · 3 answers · asked by Kiss 2

this boy who was my freind asked me out pretty much every day in one way or another i kept flip flopping and giving him mixed messages about where we were and finally i confessed some emotions this weekend and he aksed me out and i said yes. i told him that my parents had a problem with me dating him. but anyway i met him at the park to tell him that I couldnt see him so my freind went with me and forcing us to kiss. ( he was a lip vrgin) and so then he kept looking at me and then looking away all nervous then i was like for crying out loud and i pushed him against a fence and kissed him and he kissed me open mouth and bad and then i backed away and said what am i doing and then i kinda ran away. that is the oppositeof what i came to the park for)some animalistic this came over me( i called and apologized to him and it will be all over school tomorrow. and i NEVER do this EVER im very conservative actually. what do i do about him and the rumors that will be going around school tomorow

2007-11-25 15:00:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous