i guess i might be "prude" cause i get too nervous to kiss a girl, and it's bothering me. i see all these predicaments, like where a girl wants to kiss a guy and i picture my self there and if a girl asked to make out with me or soemthing, i'd feel really nervous or something and it bothers me, i'v eonly had 4 girlfriends, and the last one i had i kissed and all, but i always asked her, and i always got nervous and didn't know what to do, it's so annoying i need help?
2007-11-25 15:39:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your insecurity is understandable, and it may be telling you that you are just too young too date, especially if it gets into serious intimacy. Wait a couple of years until you feel more confident about dating and give it another try. Slow down there is no hurry .....You can still have girls as friends in the meantime.
2007-11-25 15:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The help you need, is to forget about girls and dating for a while. Give your self sometime; sex isn't the only thing in the world.
Do have a hobby? Into sports? Play a musical instrument? Into your studies - like English, Math or History?
Don't worry about it. Some people sexually mature early, others don't; maybe you're just a "late bloomer", whatever; just relax and enjoy being your self.
Wotan
2007-11-25 15:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Alberich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I can say is to wait a little while..... if you have a girlfriend don't kiss her when you first get with her..... chances are if you are nervous she is too. Just go with the flow and when you are ready then you won't be so nervous and it will just feel right to you. :)
2007-11-25 15:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by SumsDeigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it! it will be natural.. if the girl has a problem with the way you kiss shes not worth it... if she really cares she'll think its cute and forget about it.. she'll make your kissing skills better.. haha. i remember most 14 year old boys being sex craving pervs. Your lucky your not.. good luck!
2007-11-25 15:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it your young man enjoy life dont worry about girls untill your done with school trust me
2007-11-25 15:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to do it. Practice makes perfect.
2007-11-25 15:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by hazelkatana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋