what do you do when he finds another girl to 'get the job done' and you still are in love with him afterwards?
2007-11-25 16:16:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha tough tittay.
2007-11-25 16:20:51 · update #1
now, reverse the genders in the scenario. would the answer be the same? nooo, it would be 'if he can't take care of your needs, then move on' etc. you people are hypocrites!
2007-11-25 16:24:01 · update #2
Tell yourself that your better than that, and that he never had any feelings for you. Don`t love guys like that.
2007-11-25 16:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I am sorry that really sucks. You never see him. You should keep him away so that you can forget about him. Also hang out with other guys and other people in general. The more the people keep your mind occupied the better.
2007-11-26 00:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Viking799 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize he isn't looking for a mature, respectful, serious relationship with you and move on. Would you really want to be "in love" with a guy who'd use a girl in a most disrespectful way just to get what he wants?
2007-11-26 00:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ashton theKID 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should try to get out of love with him as soon as possible, because he's an incredible jerk who doesn't deserve a second glance from you.
Even if you can't lose your feelings for him that quickly, you should not act on them, unless you'd enjoy being hurt again.
2007-11-26 00:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by Marj 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dump him. If he does that then you two have conflicting values and hence are not compatible. Date someone who will respect you.
2007-11-26 00:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He doesn't love you his only interest was sex. If he truly cared about you he would have stayed and respected your decision, not gone and had sex with someone else.
2007-11-26 00:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You tell him that obviously he isn't in love with you. When you love someone, you don't murder their family...set their house on fire...shoot their dog...and you also don't hump someone else. It's pretty straight forward, actually.
2007-11-26 00:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by achtungbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with saying no. If he can't wait for you, then he's not worth the bother.
2007-11-26 00:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by boss2U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be in love with him if he doesn't respect you like that. You have to force yourself to be strong enough to stand up to his b-s.
Don't be weak. Good luck to you.
2007-11-26 00:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dump him. I'd be disgusted.
He will "get the job done" every single time he feels like it.
2007-11-26 00:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋