ok, so i just got a text from my bf, "what's goin' on in idaho?" because i'm visiting family in idaho right now. i've also been sleepin' with this guy i met there!!! what the heck do i say?
2007-11-25 15:52:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I-Da-Ho! LOL
2007-11-25 15:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by eagleman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have several options, but you gotta get your hand out of the cookie jar unless the cookies are just too good to let go of. Is you b/f truly your boyfriend? Will you be making more trips to Idaho to visit your family there? No matter what you tell your b/f, a breach of trust has occurred. Restoring it, will be very hard and even if he does not know, you do.
2007-11-26 00:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you aren't going to tell him that you have been cheating on him with another guy are you? You just go over the day to day family events.
The trouble started when you were unfaithful- you seem to indicate guilt over this, so obviously the bf has some expectation of fidelity. You won't solve anything by telling him what you did.. It may unburden your conscience but you will make him feel terrible.
I suggest you rethink your relationship if you promised to be faithful and couldn't.
2007-11-26 00:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should be honest and come clean to your boyfriend about cheating on him. The problem is that's not something you should tell him via text message.
So for now, just tell him what you've been doing in Idaho...leaving out the part about sleeping with another guy.
2007-11-25 23:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well ...
A. Your cheating (recipe for disaster)
B. I hope he found out (no one deserves to be cheated on unless they are doing the same)
C. You could tell him you are having a lovely time ******* the man next store.
D. You could lie. (and liars get caught. Karma Baby!)
Look.. i'm not trying to be rude its just i have been cheated on and it hurts. You have no idea what you did wrong... and BAMM. Its not fair and its heartbreaking.
Good Luck.. plus he was probably just asking what was up and how idaho is... is there any way he could find out about this guy?
2007-11-25 23:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens in Idaho stays in Idaho. It may be wrong, but if you want to keep your man don't confess that u been da ho in Idaho... lol No disrespect. Trust me he knows nothing. Smart girls never tell on themselves.
2007-11-26 00:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mesosweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who told you to go around sleeping with other people? I'm so sure you wouldn't mind him sleeping with another girl. *rolleyes* You could lie of course, but he'd find out soon enough. You might as well break up with him. Apparently he's not good enough if you're sleeping with someone else.
2007-11-26 00:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by coloRED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that everything is fine, your enjoying yourself, and you will catch up with him when you get back!
i don't believe in cheating, but it's a little harsh to tell him whats been going on via sms or phone, wait till you get home, then i would be honest with him and tell him what you've been up to while you were away! then let him make the decision on whether to stay together or not (unless you just want to break up with him)
2007-11-25 23:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by glorybnaughty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd tell him you are sleeping with someone in Idaho. It's not right to cheat and how would you feel if he left the state and did that to you.......FOOL!
2007-11-25 23:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by ~Sara~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess what you say depends on if you want to keep the bf or not. If you hide it and stay with the bf you risk being found out someday. If you confess you risk losing him. If you want rid of him confess and let him move on with his life.
2007-11-26 00:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by MISS H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say anything untill u figure out who u want. If u decide ur gonna stay with the bf.telling him now could be more trouble then u want to deal with at this time in ur relationship.trust me trust issues are hard to overcome.
2007-11-25 23:59:21 · answer #11 · answered by ladybeach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋