Hi,
I recently began being sexual with my new g/f. I am very very attracted to her and we are both very in love with one another.
I am, however, having a hard time maintaining an erection. She will give me a hand job and / or a BJ and I will get hard, but then when I enter her vagina, I go limp. It's very frustrating. My g/f understands and is willing to work with me to help, so I realize I am lucky in this regard, but I'm not sure what the problem is. We were using condoms and she said that, if it's the absolute last resort, she would go on the pill and we would have sex in the raw, but I'd prefer to not have to do that, and I don't think the condom is the problem.
Also, prior to meeting my g/f I was / am a virgin (I'm 27, old i know). I also masturbated A LOT and watched some porn (maybe 1/2 hour each night) and was able to c u m no problem. Could this have caused my problem. I will definitely stop if you think this could be part of the problem.
Thanx so much for any help
2007-11-25
12:02:42
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