Singles & Dating - 25 November 2007

I've been with him for a year and 3 months. Both his and my longest relationship. Everything had been going fine, but now he says he's bored. I told him to break up then but he doesn't want to, because he says he loves me. I asked what has him bored, he said he doesn't know, but it's a feeling of not being totally satisfied. He doesn't want to see me. He says this happens with me, not in general as if he was stressed. He has been quite busy with school though, but why doesn't it happen with his friends also? He says he can't really describe what bores him about the relationship. All this happened all of a sudden.

I'm so hurt, but I doubt that'll make a difference if I tell him, it'll probably make it worst actually (he'll say I'm a drama queen). What should I do? Will this pass? Is this normal? I'm so sad right now :(

2007-11-25 07:36:24 · 8 answers · asked by _whatever_girl_ 2

the story is my bf can get a little hefty handed at time and can realy hurt me?? i kno he dunt mean to hurt me bt he does and i ask him to go easy i mean we are only play fighting but he wont go easy i dont kno if hes doin it by accident or on purpose??? what shud i do??
he doesnt beat me btw!

2007-11-25 07:33:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend & i planned that i will move in wit him wen i turn 18. he lives wit his sister & his sister r really cool about me moving in to their house. i am planning to stop goin to school for a year so i can work full time to wer im working at & share some money for the expenses at their house. btw, im a junior HS. pero can u guys give me some advice about what else to do when i move out? & yea, i dont have a car. lol. but im planning to get a crappy asz one. ;D

2007-11-25 07:28:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 24 yr old female. My dentist is 28 yrs old.
I know he is not married, but I am not sure if he has a girlfriend. He is extremely flirtatious when I come in for appointments, but I have a hard time telling whether he is like that with everyone, or me specifically.
I am afraid he may never confront me because he is at his place of work and he may not think it is appropriate to ask me out while he is at work.
My question is : How do I let him know I am interested in him?
Should I wait for him to confront me? Or, should I confront him? If so, how?

2007-11-25 07:25:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do when your exgirlfriend is hanging all over one of your friends? I know that he likes her and shes always hanging around him now. Any personal experince?

2007-11-25 07:13:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's so easy to say and almost IMPOSSIBLE to prove

2007-11-25 07:12:51 · 14 answers · asked by Chrome Kitty 2

and i am 40 stone and size 52, does he think that i am beautiful?

2007-11-25 07:11:30 · 16 answers · asked by Father Christmas 1

Im 19 years old, and am curious what would you do differently. Maybe i can learn something from this. Cuz i know if i could go back to age 10 i would have done everything differently!!!

2007-11-25 07:04:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i need some advice, me and my boyfriend were kinda low on money and its around christmas. i had just gotten a new job but they were working me like 12 hour shifts and i would do a close and then an open the next morning well it was just honestly too much and so yesterday my foot was so swollen i couldnt even get my shoe on. well i call into work and they yelled at me and were kinda mean to me for missing. some other stuff has gone on there too. and i just needed to quit. this morning when i dropped my boyfriend off at his work i could tell he was dissapointed in me. when i go to pick him up how do i tell him i quit and have him feel compasionate for me. i'd work in a factory for him , id do anything, it was just too much to handle. so how to i make him see im not a bad person or a failure , it was just too much.

2007-11-25 07:04:14 · 3 answers · asked by peggy 2

I know that he likes her and shes always hanging around him now. What would you do? Any personal experince?

2007-11-25 07:02:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my broke up a year ago and he ended the relationship. I begged him for 3 weeks to take me back before giving up and walking away. It took 2 months to finally feel slighly normal again and I am finally happy again. Ive been with my new boyfriend 6 months and hes amazing and I wonder why I cried over my ex. Not worth it. Now my ex calls constantly after me already changing my number once and texts saying he loves me and misses me and my boyfriend doesnt love me. Hes also threatened me. What do I do? This is getting out of control.

2007-11-25 06:59:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my b/f and I went to a dairy farm about an hour away.
He used his car but asked I pay gas and tolls since it was my idea. When we got to the farm, I paid for over $20 in goods we both like. He wanted some things for himself and asked I buy them too since the trip was my idea. I told him he's crossing a line, especially since I brought us to a fancy Thanksgiving dinner at an upscale hotel that cost about $80.

Now I don't mind being the one to pay for special occasion things because he pays most of the rent and it is his car. But I pay all the food, and he likes to eat out a lot, and his gas and oil changes, and charges thousands on my credit card for his music equipment.

So when we were driving home, he said he was starving and wanted to eat all the food now. I told him I bought the salad, soups, and rolls for now, but the sandwich and two pastries were for dinner. He kept arguing he was hungry like a horse and wanted them now. I said if we eat all this now, that will be like a...

2007-11-25 06:47:48 · 9 answers · asked by Lil Blousou 3

a few weekends ago, i got really pissed and went out with a few friends into town. and like i ust said i was so drunk, and i ended up in bed with my sorta bf stephens best friend.
thing is, me and that sorta 'bf' were on a break.
but he called me a few days ago asking to talk about things and see where that goes. we're going out for dinner tomorrow night. and i cant help but feel guilty for having sex with his bestfriend, ryan.
ryan's been ignoring stephen but he cant do that forever,
i dunno what to do. should i come clean and expect things to go right? or should i not, cos after all we were on a break?
it does change things doesnt it? :/
confused. :s help? :)

2007-11-25 06:40:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 25/m/single,i developed quite a liking for this girl at my workplace,i'm a shy individual when it comes to talking to girls i don't know that well,i had a few conversations with this girl at office,a few long eye contacts,a few smiles (not very prolonged though),'I thought' she liked to talking to me, 'I happened' to notice,her paying attention,smile when i talked to anyone,though on a very few occasions.I'm a sensitive & loving/ caring kind,i developed feelings for her,a few days ago i gathered enough courage to ask her for a cup of coffee in office,she told me that she has had a bf for a very long time & doesn't want to change anything on that front.Now i just can't stop crying whenever I think of her,I like her a lot,it hurt me a lot inside.Since she works in the same place as i do (our paths don't cross very often)what should I do now?Where did I go wrong?What should I do in the future?It'd be great to have a girl respond to this but i'm open to anyone's thoughts. Thanks...

2007-11-25 06:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by piscean m 1

So, all of my friends say I'm really weird. I want other opinions from other people. Here's what I do:
I say stuff like :OMG!! THERES A MEXICAN BEHIND YOU!!
and EAT THE PINEAPPLE PANDA!!!!!!!
and me and my friend call each other dede all the time.
I came up with this: I feel the bubbles!!! I see the light!!!!!!
Does that mean you can see again?????? YESS!!!!!!!!

So tell me if you think I'm weird.

(Be truthful)

2007-11-25 06:37:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy really likes me alot and I like him too. His ex is still has feelings for him and she won't stop flirting with him. She knows how he feels about me. He's made it clear that he's not interested in her. How do I get her to back off?

2007-11-25 06:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by Sunshine 3

Hi maybe someone can help me out or something,
My X wanted to break up with me because he said I was "annoying and boring". (I dumped him first) But anyways, it started to get to me so I asked a different X if he thought this was true. I have feelings for this guy still and I know he likes me and everything but I guess he was in a horrible mood because he told me I was and before he hung up he called me "Fatty". This has my self-esteem like down to nothing. I didn't really hurt that he agreed with my X but it hurt that he called me Fatty. I don't think I'm Fat. It sounded like he "might" have been joking but I don't find that funny at all. What would you do in a situation like this?

2007-11-25 06:36:58 · 1 answers · asked by Pay Back Kills 4

Tall girl. Dirty Blonde sholder length kindof wavy hair. Tight black shirt with straps. Tight jeans. Is skinny. Wearing black eyeliner, mascara, and eye shadow, but not to much.

2007-11-25 06:36:27 · 32 answers · asked by KYSLlover 1

2007-11-25 06:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by girlgirl 1

My new best friend was coming over with her live in b/f last night to play board games with me and my husband and let our son's play together. She has a 4 and 5 year old. I have a 6 year old and a 4 month old. She calls and is mad and says that her b/f is not coming, just her. so i am like whatever ....... He ends up coming anyways thought but she whispered to me that the reason he was being a butthead was because we have a new baby and he thinks babies smell funny and didnt want to come over cause he just doesnt like babies.

can u believe this? My baby is good too.... doesnt even cry really....... and my baby smells good..... lol

He is 33 and has one kid but his kid is 14..... so it's been awhile.

Is this shallow? what should i make of this? I feel offended.

2007-11-25 06:30:22 · 12 answers · asked by Cutie 3

i was dating this girl , she said she likes me..when i kissed her, it was horrible. It was horrible. I told her if i can do it again ,and she says yes. and i dit it even worse. she just laughed and laughed because ... she was like: WTF... she still likes me and call me , but im affraid the next time i kiss her it will be just...lame.

we are both 17 , i´ve never had a gf. she had a couple of boyfriends

Ps: My bestfriend who is also hers. told me that she says i kiss like a chihuahua

2007-11-25 06:27:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have long hair beautiful eyes clear skin skinney but nobody likes me. i hope to find an answer soon. HELP!

2007-11-25 06:27:07 · 36 answers · asked by moggiepoo12 2

Why does it hurt so much? I have my love torn 2 days ago and I'm still upset today. How do I make it go away? Please be honest! DON'T EVEN REPORT ON THIS! I'm serious here. Thanks so much for answering this!

-LuckyGirl831 (Denise N)

2007-11-25 06:26:30 · 4 answers · asked by DELETED 3

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months. He's 24, I'm 21, and I am happier than ever with him. I'm a bit jaded from past relationships, and it's hard for me to express my emotions. I'm also just not good at that.
Yesterday he got upset with me and told me he doesn't like the fact that I never give him any compliments and I don't ever express my emotions. How do I do this? What should I say to him? He always compliments how I look and stuff, should I start doing that too? I'm really confsued - I don't want to lose him but I also don't know how to express myself. Thankss~!

2007-11-25 06:26:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm gay and I hate looking at porn, I find it degrading to the people involved with it. I could easily date a guy who looks at porn, but when the relationship gets serious and we both feel ready to have sex , I would not permit it. Does anyone else (gay or straight) feel this way too?

2007-11-25 06:20:32 · 9 answers · asked by noituloeve maerd 2

i have this gut feeling like something isnt right i love this girl to death buti donno if she feels the samei dont wanna lose her and i feel like she dont loveme like i do her i donno what to do to keep her in my life?????

2007-11-25 06:20:14 · 6 answers · asked by cody d 1

2007-11-25 06:18:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think feelings of intense romantic love are necessary to have sexual intercourse with another person? Many people want to "get their first time over with," and be 'in love' with that person, and then it doesn't matter who they have sex with. What are your personal guidelines reguarding sex?

2007-11-25 06:15:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 14. i really really really REALLY want to have se.x with this guy. hes so hot. and he loves me and i love him. its true love. really. should we? we would go completely naked and actually do the real thing; not up the bu.tthole. i didnt have my period yet so i dont think ill get pregnant.

2007-11-25 06:13:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, throughout my life I have had terrible, unhealthy relationships. I feel like I blew it for life, and that I will never learn my lesson. Truth is, I am more than likely the one to blame for these endless relationships. Is there still hope for me in meeting a guy and having healthy relationship. What can I do to improve my future relationships?

2007-11-25 06:11:05 · 6 answers · asked by mellisa 2