Me and my broke up a year ago and he ended the relationship. I begged him for 3 weeks to take me back before giving up and walking away. It took 2 months to finally feel slighly normal again and I am finally happy again. Ive been with my new boyfriend 6 months and hes amazing and I wonder why I cried over my ex. Not worth it. Now my ex calls constantly after me already changing my number once and texts saying he loves me and misses me and my boyfriend doesnt love me. Hes also threatened me. What do I do? This is getting out of control.
2007-11-25 06:59:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please read this book " The Gift of Fear" by Gavin DeBecker. Go get it today it tells you exactly how to deal with stalkers and when to be afraid
Do not get a restraining order before you read this book. If you are in immediate danger call 911 ( of course ) but otherwise get this book. This man was a leading FBI profiler and an expert in these areas
2007-11-25 07:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a way you can block his number? If not, just stop answering his calls. Try that. that's the only solution I know of. If things get real bad though you could try a restraining order. He is not to contact you in any way. If he does, you record the times and give it to the police to have a record like a stalker, but I think it would be easier to follow number one. Just stop reading his text messages and phone calls if he's that persistent. But maybe he realized he made a mistake, even he is confussing me. He broke up with you but now he wants to get together with you? I say: his loss.
2007-11-25 15:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a report with the police requesting a restraining order. You may not think it is needed, but if he is threatening you, you never know what he is capable of. If he is tracking you down after you changed your number, then he means business.
Don't be wishy washy. Be firm and tell him you don't want him to contact you anymore. Do not give in ever.
Guys are like dogs, if you give in once, they expect that each time will be the next time you will give in again, and it causes them to keep trying.
2007-11-25 15:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by lilc0ntrygrl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fiirst you show some one the threats if he texts you. Tell him in front of some one to leave you alone and to stop harrassing you. If he doesn't get the message and leave you alone then either tell your parents or phone the cops and get a restraining order.
2007-11-25 15:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Moe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get a restraining order. It may sound drastic, but it sounds to me like your ex is a real loser.
He didn't care about you until you started dating someone else.
2007-11-25 15:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Angus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a restraining order, these people dint stop until they are made to, trust me!
2007-11-25 15:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know about this girl whos ex shot her in the head because he was mad she was with another guy no joke i dont no them personally but it happened in my town.well the next town over & then he shot himself so i think u should be careful he was waiting in her hallway one night
2007-11-25 15:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by mtnhotte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u say restraining order???
2007-11-25 15:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by pokvet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call your local authorities. DUH
2007-11-25 15:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋