ok so i need some advice, me and my boyfriend were kinda low on money and its around christmas. i had just gotten a new job but they were working me like 12 hour shifts and i would do a close and then an open the next morning well it was just honestly too much and so yesterday my foot was so swollen i couldnt even get my shoe on. well i call into work and they yelled at me and were kinda mean to me for missing. some other stuff has gone on there too. and i just needed to quit. this morning when i dropped my boyfriend off at his work i could tell he was dissapointed in me. when i go to pick him up how do i tell him i quit and have him feel compasionate for me. i'd work in a factory for him , id do anything, it was just too much to handle. so how to i make him see im not a bad person or a failure , it was just too much.
2007-11-25 07:04:14 · 3 answers · asked by peggy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww, im sorry! well, guys do take thingz seriously some times so heres wat i would do "so and so, im sorry but i quit my job... i know it may be hard for u to understand, but it was just too much!" then, explain to him wat has been going on... he should understand, but if not, then say "i would do ANYTHING for u, but that job was way too much! i hurt my foot, and they got mad at me for it... and it was just uncomfortable! please dont be mad!" then he'll say sumthing... then u should say "well, wen we get home im gonna look in the paper for jobs so dont worry, ill be working again,soon." i hope that helped!!!
2007-11-25 07:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ladii emo♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he can't understand that you needed to quit for reasons like that than he ain't much of a man is he? He should tell you baby I get that you'd do anything for me and I love you for it!
There are plenty of jobs out there and just reassure him that you haven't given up looking but you need something that works for you too. Try to sit him down and talk to him about it and see where that gets you. Good luck!
2007-11-25 15:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK IF HE DOES NOT SUPPORT YOU WHEN NEEDED , THAT
RIGHT THERE SHOULD MAKE YOU COME TO A HAULT AND THINK FOR
A MINUTE. YOU WERE ILL FROM SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE NO IDEA
OF WHY OR HOW IT HAPPENED..... INSTEAD OF SAYING TO YOU DO U
OR WOULD U LIKE TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL ? IS THERE ANY THING I
CAN DO FOR YOU OR GET YOU....... WE ALL FALL AT ONE TIME OR
ANOTHER AND IT IS A WONDERFUL THING WHEN THERE IS SOMEONE
TO FALL BACK ON...... AND AS FOR YOUR JOB THEY SHOULD BE SOME
WHAT UNDERSTANDING...... AND IF THEY ARE NOT WELL THEN SCREW
THEM.........AND YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON OR A FAILURE........
WE AS HUMANS CAN ONLY TAKE SO MUCH , SO DON'T BE TO HARD
ON YOURSELF...... YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE TO PROVE YOURSELF TO
ANYONE......
2007-11-25 15:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋