I've been with him for a year and 3 months. Both his and my longest relationship. Everything had been going fine, but now he says he's bored. I told him to break up then but he doesn't want to, because he says he loves me. I asked what has him bored, he said he doesn't know, but it's a feeling of not being totally satisfied. He doesn't want to see me. He says this happens with me, not in general as if he was stressed. He has been quite busy with school though, but why doesn't it happen with his friends also? He says he can't really describe what bores him about the relationship. All this happened all of a sudden.
I'm so hurt, but I doubt that'll make a difference if I tell him, it'll probably make it worst actually (he'll say I'm a drama queen). What should I do? Will this pass? Is this normal? I'm so sad right now :(
2007-11-25 07:36:24 · 8 answers · asked by _whatever_girl_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wait it out that is all you can do it may pass some guys need space so yes it is normal
2007-11-25 07:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he doesn't want to break up doesn't mean you have to stay with him. If he is "bored with you", then that is insulting you. He is stressed with his life, but he shouldn't allow it to make his relationship go sour. He should be able to talk to you about what is going on in his life. If something is so serious that it is affecting his relationship, then perhaps he should be single for a while. If you are not happy (truly not happy), then get out of the relationship. It's understandable that you are hurt. You are NOT a drama queen.
2007-11-25 15:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want?
It's a little difficult to know what will happen because we don't know him any more than you know him. In fact, we know him less.
Some guys get bored with relationships because it's been the same girl they've seen ... like 3 times in a row now! Boooooring!
These guys will move on. They will find another girl, and then another girl, and another girl. And only the smartest of them will somehow twig that there is some underlying reason for it.
I think if you feel you can't tell him your emotions and if he's expressing that he's feeling bored, you really want to think about:
Are you getting what you want out of this relationship?
If not (and I suspect not) - then move on. Dump him and find a better guy.
2007-11-25 07:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how u feel. he is ur boyfriend and he should care. if u feel bored then break up. i have 3 brothers and they say they get bored sometimes 2. they r in school also and they have alot of homework. don't worry about it,it is normal
2007-11-25 07:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's bored, put a little fun back into your relationship, if you know what I mean! But don't go to far! Just kind of show him how fun you can be! ;-)
2007-11-25 07:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ***...if he is bored then u guys need to break up b4 he cheats on u or sumthn...if u love sum1 u dont get bored with them! and if u do then u try to fix it which he is not trying to do...u seem like a good gf let his behind go!
2007-11-25 07:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by breeReal 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will not end well. He is leading to break up with you. "he has lost that lovin' feeling" Dump him now and move on, Believe me, he is going to end it with you in no time. Just break up with him and cry and then move on find someone who will love you. good luck and sorry you have this bum in your life.
2007-11-25 07:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by katie d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy.
2007-11-25 07:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋