Singles & Dating - 25 November 2007

Been seeing this guy for 3 months - he keeps saying things like "you're so sweet/cute" ... is this code for I really like you or is it more like saying you are like a little sister?!

I think I can tell he really likes me from the way he looks at me but this phrase seems a little odd!

2007-11-25 10:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you look for in a girl?
1) what size boobs
2) what color eyes
3) what color hair
4) girly or athletic
5) no makeup or makeup
6) skinny, fat, or muscular
7) younger or older

2007-11-25 10:15:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help! there is this guy i would die for, my friends say i should ask him out..so i did. I got rejected..
1. because he basicly does not know me
2. he can't date
3. he doesn't like me.
i look @ his picture all the time. i wish we could just be friends. HELP???

2007-11-25 10:12:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 10:11:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

two days ago, my boyfriend and i had an argument because he asked me if it was ok to meet other people while still maintaining the relationship with me. he's 18 and a marine in florida for MOS and i'm 17 and still a junior in high school. we've been dating for a year and half, and he was my first and I was his first as well. basically the result ended in him deleting his myspace because he "didn't like the url and email it was under" sooo, yesterday he made another email, and i thought to myself how funny it would be if he had made another myspace... well he did, and had basically everything filled out, but his status remained "single". i confronted him about it, and he said he "forgot" [bs!] but then admitted that he did it on purpose because he didn't care and because it would give me the advantage. what was the supposed to mean? I feel disrespected, like he doesn’t even care about the relationship we have between us. What should I do?

2007-11-25 10:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by Elaine 2

i meet my guy in a chat room in 2003 i was only 14 and he was 17 eventually we ended up being friends first and we fell in love now im 18 his 21 he still says he loves me and i love him too although we had ups and down..i live in london and his in california and we have never meet but spiritually he says he know im the one and i know he is as well but im now finally ready to meet him.. i speak to his mom and his friends and family they know about me a lot..we do speak about the future..my question is do yout guys think this will work out u kno..us having a distance and all .....

2007-11-25 10:07:39 · 7 answers · asked by gina 2

i'm 18, and I don't have a car(yes i'm a loser-i take the bus). and i was wondering, does it matter who drives on a (first) date with a girl? if I ask her out, would it be kind of odd for her to drive me-or us-whereever?

and as far as any relationship goes, i am severely limited in schedule. i'm only available from 9-4pm-not on weekends and the time is subject to change every few months-and i have no idea of her schedule? could it work out?

2007-11-25 10:07:00 · 8 answers · asked by razor 1

ok, so there's this girl named felisha in my english class, and we talk but not THAT much, and everytime we talk she seems into it and looks like she wants to talk. Sometimes shes even shy around me and end up blushing which is really cute and she also gets this wrinkle over her nose when she smiles which ends up making me blush haha and I kind of like her and am interested in her. I also asked for her number and she was going to give me her number too and she said come to my desk and ill write it down but i never went to her desk. Now the thing is we have known each other for id say 2 weeks barely and we have only talked about 4 times so would you guys suggest I ask her to hang out sometimes? and should i ask for the number tomorow? or what can I do please help guys!

2007-11-25 10:05:28 · 18 answers · asked by ***KREEM YUNG*** 1

I have broke up with another girl because of her past.

When I was younger, I was taught that i would meet a "nice girl" ( a virgin), and have a happy family with her.

My first real girlfriend told me after we graduated from college (and had been seeing each other for a year) that she had had alot of lovers...I broke it off, and never talked to her again...because I feel she should have been more honest with me.
Every woman I seem to meet has been with alot of people, and now friends try to set me up with women with kids. I feel these women are "marked" by other men, and I can't get past it.
For all who may question, no I do not sleep with alot of people.
I just do not understand how a man could take a woman's hand in matrimony if she has such a past. To find a nice girl for marriage is what i want.
What does the rest of society think? Should I just give up, get into an unhappy marriage and cheat on my spouse like everyone else seems to do?

2007-11-25 10:04:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

u both love each other but theres one problem, he/she doesn't trust u. u have been off and on so many times, ur getting hurt and he/she is getting hurt. u can't be friends cus u have feelings for each other yet u can't be away from that person ever, even if u try ur best to stay away, theres a problem, u just can't( u see them everyday *sigh*) u want to move on and so does the other person but u guys just can't seem to do it. wat would u do then?
p.s he trust his instinct more than u, so u can't work it out

2007-11-25 10:04:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think he likes me?
(Read)

A few days ago, we went on a walking field trip. The guy I like was in the front, and I was a few steps behind him, and sort of in the middle. Every so often, he would look behind him, or from the corner of his eye, and look at me. He would do that a lot! And then on our way back, I was in the back, and he was in the front. He kept looking behind him, and then eventually he slowed down, and started walking right behind me. Occasionally he would step on my heels. Then he started walking right beside me! I was super nervous, and I didn't look at him because I was blushing!! His friends were whispering in the back, too. Does this sound like he likes me?

2007-11-25 10:01:41 · 8 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 6

If you were in a bedroom that no one knew you were in because it was dark, and started hearing your in-laws talking bad about you and your family? How would you handle it or react? I of course busted them, and love the look on there faces...

2007-11-25 10:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by Milo33 2

ok my boyfriend won't let me cut my hair. do guys like long hair or short hair or medium

2007-11-25 10:00:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got put in groups to brainstorm on ideas out "communication games" --i was a lil clueless but tried* to act like i knew sum stuff * lol! this dude near me who used to tease me alot yrs ago started speaking loudly "why can't we just say it out instead of writing" ......i personally hate participating in class discussions but i ignored whatever he was bothering the teacher bout.....that dude started getting more obnoxious sayin "we should just debate on it instead of wasting so much paper! you're killin so much trees" -- he stifled a laugh and looked a lil indirectly at me...
i got a lil pissed & hostile but i tried not to show for the most part --but was he purposely trying to get on my nerves? was he tryign to tease me?

2007-11-25 09:59:28 · 5 answers · asked by hmm 3

theres this guy at school that i really liked at the beginning of the year. i was new, so i didn`t think he noticed me. being the flirty beeotch i am (not) i kinda starting to flirt with him a LOT. i started to think he liked me, so i got WAY over flirtatious (sp??). he was walking home with my best friend one day (i wasn`t there) and she couldn`t help but ask if he liked me. his response wasn`t pretty. he sed...
"gawd, does she STILL like me? shes pretty and all, but shes REALLY annoying."
ouch. i cried all nite. it was the saddest moment ever. after that, i didn`t like him anymore, and i made sure everyone knew. then, out of nowhere, i started liking him again. but i only told my bff and NO ONE ELSE. one day, my bff was talking to him at lunch cuz he sits with her. he was giving her hints on who he liked and sed its someone really close to you (duh its my bff) and her name has an e in it. (my names emma) i think he likes me finally!! but he hasn`t asked me out. what should i do?

2007-11-25 09:55:54 · 29 answers · asked by newyearbaby1231 1

I don't understand why guys can not just tell girls how they feel?

2007-11-25 09:54:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it everytime i do something good no one notices but if i make a mistake the world just crumbles? why is it if a girl takes a guy from me and then i just happen to get him back WITHOUT trying i get **** from everyone? why is it that i hook up with a guy b.c hes my best friend and it doesnt mean anything but my friends pissed because she likes him and didnt even tell me? why is it i get **** from that when i dont even like him and he doesnt like me; and we just did it b.c we were bored ? why is it i always somehow make a mistake?

2007-11-25 09:49:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 09:44:01 · 27 answers · asked by Coolkitty 3

ok the thing is that i have a bf and he moved 3 hours away like 5 months ago and while hes over there one of my closestt guy friends is showing me that he likes me and i think i might like but i think i still like my bf him so what should i do?

2007-11-25 09:43:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 15 and I want her to remember it for a long time

2007-11-25 09:43:00 · 5 answers · asked by Vincent 3

There is this girl that goes to my school. i have at least three classes with her. every class we have together we talk to each other as long as we can and the whole time we talk she is just smiling at me. Also whenever i see her in the halls walking from class to class she smiles at me. But last tuesday in the first class we have together she giggled and put on a sudicing smile. Is she being real or is this just a sick joke to get my hopes up, i mean if shes being serious i would go out with her. ladies plz help

2007-11-25 09:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by J-Man 1

I can't date frat boys. I just can't. And he wasn't but now he is joining one. Is is right to say... me or the frat? If he chooses the frat, i DON'T want to be with him. I've dated a frat boy, I just DONT want that life again. What to do?

2007-11-25 09:41:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been planning to go to colleges for sometime now, and so far he wants to go to this college and I want to go to that. He thinks that if we go to different colleges in different areas, things will be the same between us. But to me its like going to a different highschool. I can't maintain long distance relationships, its too hard. I'm so afraid that if he goes to another college he will find someone else thats always there to be with. And that thought hurts me so much. I've been going out with him for a full year now and I hate the thought of losing him. He says that we could just get an apartment together but I don't see how thats possible if we are going to be in different areas..
What do I do? Should I break up with him ahead of time to prevent any worse loss? I just feel like when we are away from each other and around different people, we may grow apart and I don't want that to happen. Please help me.

2007-11-25 09:37:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should she play hard to get? Please be honest. Will she come across as needy if she calls you first?

2007-11-25 09:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by VJ 1

the other day i was talking to one of my friends from school. we were playing a truth or dare game and he asked who i liked. i said guess he said me? i said which answer will freak you out the least? he said it will freak me out if you lie, so i said yeah i like you. after that he started talking to me more and the next day he sat next to me in my writing class and started talking to me. he had no work done so he kept asking for help and then when i wouldnt help him he erased half my essay. he got it back obviously and i knew it was joke, so no feelings were hurt or papers ruined. Our computers are old so if you press the right code the screen will flip upside down. he kept doing this to my screen the whole class and he asked to look at the songs i write. but i want to know if he likes me. from this story does it sound like he likes me, or just wants to be friends? were both thirteen and he came out and said he didnt know who he likes so im lost for what to do

2007-11-25 09:34:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found out my boyfriend borrowed my money ($15) to pay for his work celebration party. At the time that he asked me for the money, he said that it was to pay back a girl friend from work that he owed. A few weeks after, I asked him if his work place will have a Christmas party like last year... because he asked me last year and i was busy then. I was looking forward to attend this year's party... that is when he told me that the day he borrowed my money was the day he paid for his ticket. He said he didn't want to ask me to go because he says that the people he works with is not the best crowd and wanted to protect me. He did ask me to go to his friend's birthday party who use to work at his workplace but not anymore. Does he really need to go to his work Christmas party? Do you consider this as a form of cheating? If you do, would you still contiue the relationship?

2007-11-25 09:33:30 · 37 answers · asked by Snow White 1

Basically i'm pretty good looking, can get alot of girls but they always want more and I usually don't because they seem gross to me after we.... so far only one girl hasn't and thats because she was gorgeous so can anyone tell me what the hell is wrong with me??

2007-11-25 09:32:58 · 4 answers · asked by blake s 1

I met a guy back in July through friends-we had a ONS. We hung out all the next day, then i mentioned something about hanging out again, he says, i'm not looking for anythign serious. I said, neither am i, just asking if u wanted to hang out. I never called him. 3 months later, i added him to myspace. Ever since then (this was early oct i think) we've been hanging out. For a while it was every other weekend, now we've hung out the past two weekends. He is always the one to contact me. We dont go on dates, I just meet him at a bar, but i've met a lot of his friends at this point. He also put new breaks on my car. last night one of his friends asked if we were 'going out.' Pretty sure he was kidding but i didnt answer, neither did he. When i leave, future plans are not made. It will just be like, later...then i hear from him. Maybe he just likes the sex...or maybe he likes me too?

2007-11-25 09:32:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl, we have been really really close friends for a while, but she says she is too busy and doesn't hve time to get into a relationship. I really like her and all and i don't want to lose her, but at the same time i don't want to push too hard.

2007-11-25 09:30:35 · 3 answers · asked by Logan 3

she has a problem pleasing me sexually and she has been creepin we been 2 gether 9yrs and have 2 kids together and now she is pregnant again what should i do i want 2 try 2 make it work but she just can't b honest with me

2007-11-25 09:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous