Not sure what to think of this guy situation?

Question

I met a guy back in July through friends-we had a ONS. We hung out all the next day, then i mentioned something about hanging out again, he says, i'm not looking for anythign serious. I said, neither am i, just asking if u wanted to hang out. I never called him. 3 months later, i added him to myspace. Ever since then (this was early oct i think) we've been hanging out. For a while it was every other weekend, now we've hung out the past two weekends. He is always the one to contact me. We dont go on dates, I just meet him at a bar, but i've met a lot of his friends at this point. He also put new breaks on my car. last night one of his friends asked if we were 'going out.' Pretty sure he was kidding but i didnt answer, neither did he. When i leave, future plans are not made. It will just be like, later...then i hear from him. Maybe he just likes the sex...or maybe he likes me too?

Answer 1

Scared for you really, you barly know this guys intentions, drives, and motivations, yet you spend the weekends with him. You don't know this guys mind, yet you let him do favours for you. You don't know weather to trust him, and your letting him thru the front door. Seems someone needs better friends. You could give it a try, but trust, if he isn't taking much, not much is driving him, which means, there isn't much to keep him to you. So realize the deeper they can express themselves, the deeper of an individual they are, and the more you might just be able to trust them. Were humans, were not simple creatures, he could easily like you and like having sex with you, but that means crap in this world. What you need is more then "likes" unless you simply don't have much else going on, but you don't know this guy, you could end up with alot more then just a broken-heart, talk to him honesty about the way you feel, if you can't, well this relationship isn't going to get you more then confused, if you don't believe me, try. Trust that your not the only lady I've talk to before this and after.....