the story is my bf can get a little hefty handed at time and can realy hurt me?? i kno he dunt mean to hurt me bt he does and i ask him to go easy i mean we are only play fighting but he wont go easy i dont kno if hes doin it by accident or on purpose??? what shud i do??
he doesnt beat me btw!
2007-11-25 07:33:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like i keep sayin hes not doing it on purpose!!!
2007-11-25 07:39:48 · update #1
for god sake some of you 1 saying he will beat me! he will not he seen it happend n wud nt even touch a fly!!!
2007-11-25 07:54:50 · update #2
Sometimes people don't know their own strength and can hurt others by accident. Talk to yours about this, it could be that he really has no idea that he does hurt you. It's something you need to be tactful about, because physical strength is a good thing too .... much better to have it out with him and try to figure out if it's by accident or design.
If your boyfriend really does not listen to you and his hurting you is by design and not an accident, then I think it's time to get rid of him. Don't be a punchbag!
2007-11-25 07:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop "play fighting." A friend of mine had the same exact problem. Her husband was a body builder, so whenever they would "play fight," he would get too rough with her. He wasn't trying to really hurt her. I just don't think your boyfriend understands his own strength.
If he does start getting rough, tell him that he's hurting you. If he doesn't stop, maybe you should reconsider the relationship. He could end up going too far one day and not listening to you, and you might really get hurt. It sounds silly when you're just thinking of playing around, but men are made to be stronger than women. He should go easier on you.
2007-11-25 15:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually sit down and tell him seriously! Not while your in the middle of play fighting! I would be a little concerned if he doesn't stop though. Some men dont realise their own strength. My bf was similar, but now he knows that he has to be gentle and he is!
If he doesn't listen then maybe you should consider your options!
Has he got anger probs in general?
2007-11-25 15:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lady B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop play fighting. Guys are strong and can get agressive without knowing it. What is gentle to him is prob not gentle to you. Talk to him. If you don't know f it is an accident or on purpose you may have a problem.
2007-11-25 15:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by *My_Oh_My* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain he is being rough with you And you would like him to take a easy on you!!
2007-11-25 15:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by FUCK ME BABY OH YES GIVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont play fight with him. if he doesnt know how to do it easy then i wouldnt do it at all. there are other things you guys can do together that will not hurt you.
2007-11-25 15:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by bilkmilk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would really suggest getting a new boyfriend. If he seems aggressive then you should dump him because one day he could just snap and that would suck for you.
2007-11-25 15:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by McLovin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him... He does beat you, and if he doesn't he will. You don't want to admit it, because you "love" him but trust me... The best thing you can do is just leave him and find somene who deserves you.
2007-11-25 15:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Life is short: Enjoy it!!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him to tone it down a bit and tell him that you dont want to playfight anymore
2007-11-25 15:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by Tris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shown him through actions that he really has to change by giving him space every time he gets in that mood, real space that he has to apologise
2007-11-25 17:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by meyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋