im 19 yrs old, and i got a lot of money, but i wanna find a girl that i know is not cheap with her money.... so whenever i wanna ask a girl out i say "hey i'd take u out, but i dont have money. im saving up for blah blah blah" do u ladies think this is a good idea to sort of weed out the golddiggers?
2007-11-25 15:37:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahaha no that just makes you look super cheap. it wouldnt be so bad if you paid for an inexpensive date, or just hanging out somewhere
2007-11-25 15:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by monnielovefromupabove 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hm.. not really, it might turn some girls off because they think you're cheap.
Sorry, but it takes a lot of time and effort trying to find the right girl who is not a gold digger. I suggest finding a girl who is independent, smart, and not blinded by money. the only way to do this is making friends with a lot of girls an getting to know their personalities.
you can also date girls whose fathers are very rich, but you are likely to get a spoiled self centered princess on your hands. if you don't mind those types of girls, they might be what you're looking for.
to a certain extent though, your wealth will turn some girls on for the wrong reasons, you can't wholly escape it.
2007-11-25 23:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a good idea because it makes you seem like a jerk- it might weed out the golddiggers, but it might weed out everyone else too! They'll think you're just trying to freeload off of them!
2007-11-25 23:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I am by no means a gold digger, but I believe that there is a standard to the way I should be treated. I'd rather you tell me that you're broke, and offer to cook for me or something like that. It really is the thought that counts. You telling a girl that you're broke simply says "I'm broke, and couldn't think of something less expensive to do for a date"
2007-11-25 23:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by My Mutt is NEUTERED! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no a lady still wants to be treated like a lady, just dont take her somehere too fancy so she thinks your that loaded, then if after a little bit she hasnt offered to make dinner or return the favour in some way (not like that either ) then be sus on her motives
2007-11-25 23:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
perfect
not only will it weed out the gold-diggers but it will also weed out the girls looking for a man who still believes in chivalry.
this will leave you with about.....2 girls remaining out of 250
good luck with that
sorry to be blunt, but it's the truth. Life is a game and all games have rules. Break the rules and you lose.
2007-11-25 23:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no just find one who will offer to pay her half if she does she worth a second date if not dont bother..i know i always offer and expect them to take it
but if you said id take you out but i dont have the money i need blah blah..id be like ok bye
2007-11-25 23:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by asdfgh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not...only by communicating and being around someone for a long time will you know their true self. On the other hand, you sound like a dirty, conniving jerk.
2007-11-25 23:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it makes you look like a gold digger yourself. she might get the wrong idea. just be honest so shes not like uhh you have money? what the hecK? what else are you lieing about?
2007-11-25 23:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to just be like everyone else and keep your mouth shut about money.
If they don't know you have money they won't be golddigging.
The way your going now they see a looser with nothing to look forward to.
2007-11-25 23:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Kirk K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋