Ok me and my girlfriend have been gonig out for over a year, and she still keeps thinking guys are cute and hot, and thinks its ok, but i thought one girl was cute and she got all mad at me, I dont know what to do, i want to be with her but i dont want the part of her that thinks that stuff about other guys, What should i do?
2007-11-25 15:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by Joe J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHAHAH
that happened to me holy cr.a.p!!!!!!
man
i feel u!!
they stay stressin n naggin over little stuff lol
jus tell her the truth bout ur thinkin
it worked for me
yea dump her tho
your life will be getting more stressed n ur grades will drop
because of continous fighting
belive me on this
i went out wit a girl for 2 years and i thought it was good cuz i loved her but i was going through hell. i broke up with her i still love her but it would never work out
2007-11-25 15:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by dgkboy510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the better question is how she feels about you.
If you've been together for over a year, if things are really secure, and are headed somewhere in both your minds, then everything should be okay.
I understand what you mean, and how uncomfortable it must make you.
Set the example. Or let her know it makes you uncomfortable because of how you feel towards her. If she cares enough, she'll respond, and she'll probably stop.
=)
2007-11-25 15:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by waterelement85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... welcome to the real world and its double standards!
Realistically, you're both going to continue to be attracted to other people, even if you decide that you both want a committed relationship with each other. You would not be quite psychologically normal if this was not so. Therefore:
1. You can agree that you'll both look, and get annoyed at each other's looking, but that you choose to swallow your pride and say little about it.
2. You can agree that you'll both look, but that it doesn't matter where you get your appetite from, as long as you only eat home cooking!
3. You can agree that you'll both look - but do it discreetly (one of the things that drives women insane - ask them and see - is that their men aren't satisfied with a quick glance, but ogle openly).
2007-11-25 16:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by daemon1251978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cannot understand that she has to curb her attraction to other men while she is in a relationship, then she shouldn't be in a relationship.
I would explain to her your feelings of jealousy (which are very well founded and understandable). If she says she has every right to check out other men then be smart and let her go. There are much better women out there for you who will be loyal.
If you are in a relationship, neither the man or woman should be checking other people out. They should guard their eyes and behavior with members of the opposite sex.
2007-11-25 15:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about it. tell her how u feel. make an agreement with her, saying sumthing like if u think a guy is hott or cute, dont tell me. and i wont tell u, so it wont make each other feel bad. (and u can throw this part in if u want) >>UNLESS its a movie star.
thats what me and my boyfriend did.
2007-11-25 15:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well although this might seem like an obvious answer to you, have you tried talking to her about how you feel? It's seems to me that if she knows about how you feel then she can make the choice of whether she wants to change or not for you.
2007-11-25 15:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Maroons_Spell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell the girl frankly that it is not good fo her to think about other guys. She is playing double game. If your love another girl, then it is your choice to love her. do not feel shy or afraid of any thing. It is your fundamental right.
2007-11-25 15:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss how you feel with her. Tell her if she is gonna look at other guys to keep the comments to herself. It is human nature to look but I think its very disrespectful to comment in front of your bf/gf. If she can't do that for you then maybe you should find someone that wouldnt do that to you
2007-11-25 15:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl myself and us girls are just like that. we get jealous really easy but it unfair for us to do that and we get mad at guys for doing that. but most of the time when we girls think when a guy is thinking of another girl they will think they will get cheated on. so yea.. i dont no if they make sence
2007-11-25 15:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her that it makes you uncomfortable. tell her that you don't like it when she talks about other guys. it's okay to be a bit jealous when she talks about other guys, and in my opinion it's cute that you like her enough to be jealous. communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. you don't need to hesitate when you need to say something to your girlfriend. good luck.
2007-11-25 15:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋