im confused because about a year and half ago when my boyfriend and i broke up from a 5 year relationship. almost every night i kept having dreams of him cheating on me and i'd feel very upset and aggravated. 2 months later from then; he broke up with me. he told me that he wanted space and his feelings for me had changed. three months after we broke up i found out that he has a girlfriend. i still think about him which i think is normal because he was a big part of my life....i've moved on and dated other guys. but, lately for the past 2 months i've had dreams of him desperately wanting to get back with me and he is unhappy with his current relationship.... i dont know what to believe...
by the way he called me about a month ago. he was just trying to see what i was up to. his first question to me was" how come you never call me?" then he went on asking how everybody in my family was doing.
pease give me serious thoughts......no clowning!!!!!!!!
2007-11-25 15:35:49 · 12 answers · asked by sexxxxyyyy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First let's tackle the "while I was with him dreams": Okay other then the dreams, was there any other signs that he may have been cheating on you? Because the dreams could have developed from your own thoughts. Dreams can be taken many ways, sometimes dreams are not about the people in them sometimes they're about our wants and desires or even our subconscious telling us something about ourselves.
The dream you had recently could have sparked by the fact that he called you and maybe the dream was pointing out the unhappiness in your own life or, that you wish/want him to come crying back to you, because no one else is right for him, but you. Or maybe it was just something you watched on TV.
2007-11-25 15:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by lele5240 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear,Dreams r true but not all the time for your case these dreams r generated even when u say ok i will not think about him and i will leave him but in ur internal brain theres the pulse that is recreated again when u give up in deep sleep and that time ur internal brain start to go down relaxing and dischargin so the most important thoughts will start to generated and as a refelction of ur real life and real thoughts so its not always true,beside that if ur bf will return back to u and everything is alright and thise relation will last for a time whatever long or short would he stay with u and promise u will not leave u true relation and love and feelings can not be coverd and once someone loves somebody he would be stick to him for the whole life may be he will sacrifice his or her life for that lover but does ur bf will do this ???days and time will anser u and u will play a big role for that and dont be so easy to him so that u will return back to him very easy be like pearl or jewel expensive, charming and no one can get u easly unless he pay costly to get u and thats what u deserve.
Wish u luck,
2007-11-25 15:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are real. You don't have to believe in them. What they mean is another concept entirely. I think it's your brain's way of trying to work out conflicts that are bothering you.
You broke up, but you feel now it was a poor choice. Your brain is exploring the avenues of getting that relationship back while you sleep because when you're awake you're too busy with other things.
2007-11-25 15:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Meng-Tzu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look i don't clown with stuff like this that fool was cheating in as a male i can tell you he was cheating and just forget about him move and yes i understand its hard but you know live your life to your extend not his there are other fish in the sea e harmony is pretty cool try it let me know how it turns out because I'm looking too
2007-11-25 15:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by brndncason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe dreams can in any way predict what will happen in your life, but I do think they can be indicators of your mood and the things that are bothering you and what you are feeling.
2007-11-25 15:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by burgler09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on your thoughts of him will never go away but you have to think what drew you apart. i believe in dreams i think they are a message from with in. you need to work out what you want do you want him back, it sounds like it haw do you feel ofter you dream about him.
2007-11-25 15:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by mr perfect 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the deal here is that he is trying to do amends with you
he is sorry for what he did to you in a way and now he is trying to change that. If he really is still has feelings for you, he wouldnt had broken your heart the way he did it.
2007-11-25 15:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes I believe in dreams I always haved.
2007-11-25 15:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by I represent possibility- Shawn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart, but....I think you should maybe stay away from him because he will probaly do the same thing again. watch for a new dream.
2007-11-25 15:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by tina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was trying to check you out to see if you were free.Sounds like your psychic.
2007-11-25 15:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋